My friend played mind games with me and then threw me away. We stopped talking a month and half ago but I still have things I need to get off my chest should I send them a letter??
2007-10-12 12:54:39 · 12 answers · asked by . 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Write the letters to yourself, you'll feel better having said everything you need to say and you wont have any regrets later. I once mailed a angry letter to a friend and then wanted to meet the mail man at the house because I new it was a mistake after I dropped it in the slot. The friend read the letter and ignored me like I asked for what seemed like a life time. I had a TEMPORARY moment of insanity and I felt I needed to vent. We often say things we don't really mean when we are angry and sometimes you can't take them back. So if you need to vent, cuss and fuss to yourself and write to yourself. The anger will pass.
2007-10-12 14:35:35 · answer #1 · answered by Dancer3d 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, write a letter but also add that u regret that u aren't great friends anymore. Write that u will miss all the fun times u had together. This will make him regret throwing u away, and he may try to make up for it. If writing a letter will help u get the angriness of your chest, then go for it!!!
2007-10-12 13:03:59 · answer #2 · answered by Kristina <33 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, take some time and cool off a bit. If it's a way to throw away your anger, then write him a letter as if you were giving to him, but throw it away instead. This can help you find out what your problems are with this guy. If he treated you that badly, then it's good he's out of your life. Venting out your anger directly at him (if that's what you're intending to do in your letter) now could cause problems later on and chances are if you do write it, you'd end up regretting it. Never burn bridges, who knows, you might have to work with him later on.
2007-10-12 12:57:48 · answer #3 · answered by Victoria the Viking 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt write a letter because than your friend is going to think you are not tough enough to confront him. witting letters is a bad idea....Cool down and just either call him or stop him sometime and explain to him the things you need to get off your chest. It might not end up good but at least you can get it off your chest...
Good luck!
2007-10-12 13:00:23 · answer #4 · answered by acoats2006 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Write a letter for your own edification, but don't send it. Put it in a drawer or box after you are done reading it and seeing your emotions in your own words to bring closure....it seems the person who played the games would be delighted that you are still feeling so very mad.
2007-10-12 12:59:37 · answer #5 · answered by Zombie Birdhouse 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i won't be able to imagine the way you should sense. i comprehend your nonetheless hurting, although the Christian element to do might want to be to forgive your dad. i do not see a situation with writing your father or relatives a letter. there is no longer something incorrect with sharing the reality. it may split your spouse and youngsters yet your father will finally pay for his moves and something of your spouse and youngsters will take care of to base their judgements on the reality. you should forgive him before you write the letter so your no longer writing something out of anger. Pray to God to provide you the skill to forgive your dad. once you in actual truth have forgiven him you receives the closure that you've been searching for. strong luck and God bless you. loved, do no longer avenge yourselves, yet really provide position to wrath; for that is written, "Vengeance is Mine, i will pay off," says the Lord.hence "in case your enemy is hungry, feed him; If he's thirsty, provide him a drink; For in so doing you'll heap coals of fireplace on his head." do no longer be conquer by technique of evil, yet conquer evil with strong. ( Romans 12:19-21 )
2016-10-21 01:47:01 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well since you guys stopped a month ago i think you should because when my friend something like that to me i told her off. but it's your decision. Good Luck.
2007-10-12 13:12:34 · answer #7 · answered by OWAudrey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that wont get u anywhere. if someone did that, they're not really ur friend. y not just move on n leave em b? if it was supm serious thou, just meet up wit em n explain how it affected u - without gettin emotional- n see how it goes.
2007-10-12 12:59:10 · answer #8 · answered by kitten 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you dont think the friendship will continue or dont want it to, go ahead. i think communication is the most important thing in life, without it things actually become messier. i would write it.
2007-10-12 12:59:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
No Two wrongs don't make it right.Forgive.Turn the other check.And you'll be a better person for it.
2007-10-12 13:00:05 · answer #10 · answered by Icyelene R 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋