Family - July 2007

My two younger brothers were put up for adoption because my mother was declared unfit mother. I miss them is there anyway I can find them or at least know how they are doing. There now 6 and 11 years old.

2007-07-03 11:59:47 · 3 answers · asked by Tara Elaine 4

Life has me jumping threw hoops. I have till the 21st to get my sons wedding ready. His soon to be wife's family cannot help much for lots of good reasons. My husband found out today we are being transfered to another city, many, many miles away, they want him there by the 24th of July. We need to sell our home, so I will stay back and take care of the business at hand. We have lived here for 18 years, we will be leaving friends, family, our children and new grandbabies on the way and my Mother who is 80 years old. Is life picking on me or what? Please, can anyone cheer me up? The solutions will come but I need to laugh for now. Want you "Help Me"?

2007-07-03 11:48:53 · 6 answers · asked by smplyme132 5

My father is a baby who acts like a kid. He's a thirty nine year old man who thinks he's ten years old. He Babies my six year old brother. He lets him do anything he wants JUST to annoy me. I tell my brother t: "NO! Stop digging holes in the Yard
!" My Dad says, No now he can just because You said he can't." Oh my God my Dad is so in-mature!

He lets my little brother make a huge mess of the house, and my brother DOESN'T have to clean up ANYTHING! Nit even one toy, or thing he takes out. Everybody tells me I care to much about other people than myself. Well I wouldn't care if my whole house is a disaster. and that their are huge holes in the back yard! What do you think?

2007-07-03 11:02:28 · 11 answers · asked by Labeless 2

I have no idea what I am doing. I am 14 years old and my mother hates me. I hate her back for being a self controllable ***** who thinks she knows everything. My life has always been under her circumstances. I ****** up a couple days ago, not a big deal, just a little fight with my siblings and poof. I'm grouded for the summer. What a *****. Soem nights I lay in bed ad think if i can get away with killing her. I hate her so much and dream of the day I am out of this shitty house and imagine the fantastic last words of "**** you, you were a horrible parent." as i lean over and spit in her face on her death bed. What should I do, run away, torture myself. I hate her and there is no turning back now because it is too late to become freidns. She hates me and I hate her. I wish I couldjust rewind time nad become 8 years old again where it started .Please help me, I dont know how much longer i can last in this hellhole.

2007-07-03 10:33:18 · 11 answers · asked by what should i do? 1

My husband and I have one really great friend that we have been friends with for 6 years. We are wanting to make him God Father to our son, but he isn't married or dating. He loves our son like he was his own. We both feel like this is a good move , but have resreved feeling about his future. I have no doute his ability to financily and emoitionly support our son. Is this a good move? Also is there anything legaly we have to do in order to appoint him as our son's God Father.

2007-07-03 10:04:28 · 6 answers · asked by morgan g 1

A group of kids were asked, what does love means. One of them said: "Love is when my mommy makes coffee for my daddy and she takes a sip before giving it to him, to make sure the taste is OK." - Danny - age 7

2007-07-03 08:18:59 · 4 answers · asked by Diamond 4

I have just spent two amazing weeks getting my life back on course, and I am finally back to where I want to be with God, and had amazing Joy, until I had to spend a night with my family. All their little Quirks I used to find funny are now disgusting. They make nasty jokes, drink alot, and are vulger. And my friends are the same way! I feel as tho I have no Strong Christians to turn to and to encurage me, and I feel as tho I'm falling back into my old life. Help me please, because I feel as if I'm swimming and have hit a current to strong to pass, and instead of helping me, my family and friends are letting me drown.

I also have a problem with always being on guard, and any little thing sets me off. I think it may be beacause I bottle up my emotions, and when it is shaken so much, it explodes. I'm just looking for prayer and advice in over coming these issues in my life. I thank you so much for the time you spend on these issues. May God Bless.

2007-07-03 08:15:28 · 8 answers · asked by Helsinki_Love 3

I have been with my boyfriend for 8yrs. & we have 2children.I am a full-time stay-at-home-mom off & on for the 5yrs. My BF's mother can't hold down a job or apartment having her & her 17yr.old son continuously living with us in our 2bed/2bath. In the past she has 2x abandoned her son with us.Now, she has once again been evicted & has asked us if her son could stay with us for a couple of days & if she could bring a "couple" of things to our home(she was suppose to get a storage room also).Of course I said OK.Well, she didn't get a storage room & now my Apt. is a storage room & it's smells like one.The smell of their belongings is bothering me & so I mentioned that to my BF & he has the nerve to say "here you go complaining again" because the last couple of times she got evicted& had to live with us I was complaining & before they came this time I told him I have changed and I have. I don't mind them being here,it's just that their stuff smells & some of it is dirty clothes stinky socks

2007-07-03 08:15:00 · 3 answers · asked by Really Cool Person 2

I have wanted to go to this festival for about 2-3 weeks now.i told my mum about it and weve not said anything about it untill today.I asked my mum if i could go.My nan works near by and my friend who im going with ,mum is going so we would be perectly safe.But its my grandads party that same day.His birthday which was earlieron in the week & we went to a restaurant to celebrate which i went to.i know for a fact my two cousins who are my age wont come to his party so why is my mum making me.i really really want to go to this concert.iv been so exited for aages.how can i convince my mum to let me go.?.
Is it fair.
Am i being selfish

2007-07-03 08:13:53 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

Now she's all muddy...Should I take the garden hose and wash her off or just leave her this way for her Mom? Hurry, I only have 20 minutes to decide........

2007-07-03 07:39:58 · 23 answers · asked by cme2bleve 5

my dad and i were clpse when i was growing up we did everything together. i would stand ontop of his shoes and we'd dance together. we were so close and i loved him so much. i was really a "daddys girl" but then something changed. he started getting caught up with work and other things and had less and less time for me. he had meetings on my thirteenth birthday and he chose meetings over dinner with me. last week, he had been out of town on business for all week. when he came home i ran to greet him saying "hi daddy" but he didnt even look at me. whenever im talking to my mom he always calls her away from me saying "no, come watch tv with me, she doesnt need you" i dont know what has happened to my daddy that i used to look up to and constantly want to be around. hes no longer fun to talk to and i cant tell him about my day or anything. when i try, he just walks off or pretends hes too interested in his tv show. im going to college soon and want a better relationship w/ him

2007-07-03 07:16:29 · 17 answers · asked by MissSamanthaAnne 1

i am not after sympathy just wondered if anyone could tell me how to cope with a loss i have just found out my grandad has died and i feel so numb and its killin me as i am 75 miles away from my family and got no one to talk to

2007-07-03 07:10:32 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am hoping to find these people. i am your daughter and bobbie is my half sister. my brother chris and i have just learned we have been lied to our entire lives. what we were told was all a lie. we arent trying to hurt anybody we just feel your kids-us were taken from you illegally back in 1969-1970. we were never shown birth certificates or legal paperwork. we have never forgotten either of you. i know this must be hard after all this time not really knowing your children or where they were. but we are here and chris and i- rose mary hope and pray that you still want to see us after all this time, there is so much we have recently found out. it breaks my heart to think we were stolen from our mother 30 something years ago. bobbie you are our sister and will always be. please contact us , you both are the missing pieces in our lives and in our hearts. love rose mary

2007-07-03 06:43:28 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a brother and he's 13. We fight so much its not even funny. When we fight I *dislike* him so much I throw it at other people. But when we're good brothers and sisters I love him alot. I don't know how to stop the fighting. PLEASE HELP.

2007-07-03 06:41:34 · 3 answers · asked by Bubbles 2

lord have mercy!

2007-07-03 06:15:04 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am currently taking correspondence courses, and it takes an average of 3-4 months to earn a full credit. When people in my family ask me how my courses are going, I tell them about this, and they say it's bad timing, and I should complete the course in 1 month instead of 3. Even my teachers at school told me that my pace is excellent, because if I do it quicker, I won't produce a good product in the end. I have received a credit in 1 month before, and I got 75% in the entire course, but for the ones that take me 3-4 months, I get 90s, which I prefer. They (my teachers) told me not to sacrifice my marks, and they told me to keep doing it at my pace. What should I do about my family? Sometimes I just feel like I'm not good enough for them.

2007-07-03 05:52:22 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I mean I am in middle school and it is kind of hard to believe that my parents actually did it. What about you is it hard for you to picture that?

P.S. If this is a good question then star it plz

2007-07-03 05:31:26 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am home with my one year old and my husband thinks it is in my imagination that ppl look down on me for being home and not working in my career. He encourages me to stay home with out daughter which I do love... I miss working but mostly it is due to the fact that I feel looked down upon that I want to be financially independent again... What is the right thing to do in this day and age. Is taking care of the home and child an unfair exchange of labor? Please be honest... I haven't made up my mind what is correct morally or otherwise.

2007-07-03 05:29:04 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

lol that was my baby cousin,i didnt know she was typing on this,but ill just leave it,lol shes only 3.

2007-07-03 04:22:39 · 4 answers · asked by Anthony W 1

A few months ago they decided they were going to move in our guest house. They lived over an hours drive away. I was perfectly comtent with "missing " them. After they moved here they made my life miserable. All my peace and quiet was gone and they kept bossing my kids. The kids started not being sure who to listen to. My father in law always thought as himself as the "boss" My mother in law favored one child over another, which caused the other one hurt feelings. Finally after 2 months I had enough. I went off the deep end and told them. My husband was completely on my side, and told them they were going to have to move.He evicted his parents! I did feel really bad over it, but not bad enough to ask them to stay. The other day was moving day. As soon as the moving truck pulled out I felt a sense of relief. I ran over to the guest house and started rolling around on the carpet giggling.No one was supposed to see me. but my mother in law forgot her purse. I was so busted.

2007-07-03 03:39:03 · 11 answers · asked by janeyr 2

Me and my mom and sister live w/ my moms bf. His daughter and i were g the respect issue at my house between Jessica L. and my mom, Dave and me.
Her lack of respect for her father absolutely kills me. It's as if he's so supposed to shower them with gifts so they shouldn't thank him. And little things like "Jessica, can you please lock the basement door?" turn into,
"I like it open" "Can you please lock the basement door" "NO" "Justin will you please lock the door" "Justin don't lock the door" She is putting not only herself, but all of us in jeopardy. She, also, disrespects my mom which is killng me even more because this is my mom's house not Dave's and she has been nothing, but welcoming, nice and generous to her this whole time. Also, it's my mom, she is one of the most hospitable people I've ever known there is no way she would ever be a very very mean person to her.It seems as though everything I like she hates. I was telling my mom that Miyomoto is making a FITNESS game for the Wii. "I don't get videogames, they're stupid, they're for lazy people." Okay, one thing, I wasn't talking to you and two how stupid do you have to be. Another example, me and my mom were talking about the show House(...that's on tonight...)"House is stupid, I don't get it. Me and my friends hate it, we watch Grey's Anatomy." (I'm sorry if you like Grey's Anatomy ) Grey's Anatomy is a soap opera for the people who are against soap operas. And maybe, just maybe the reason, you don't get House is because your brain can't handle the actual medical information you get from House that Grey's Anatomy has an apparent lack of. Another thing she has done is be a total hypocrite like I'll say I like Pops or something, she says I hate Pops. Next day where are the Pops? Oh Justin ate them all. Justin can't have Pops because he's allergic. Oh your good. How much of a dumb do you think I am. Hat to break it to you angel but your not the oldest anymore, your not the perfect angel you think my mom thinks I am and come tomorrow I'm not letting you walk all over me anymore.
Sorry Dione, just one more thing to rant about. Apparently this changed without me knowing it is now the worst thing in the whole universe to give someone your bathing suit, not blow up on them for eating all your food. And the one thing that is even worse is sitting on your own couch because heaven forbid you can be comfortable in your "home"! I swear this place doesn't feel like home.

2007-07-03 03:17:47 · 5 answers · asked by Bubble G 1

It was our 1st anniversary and she didn't even phone us to wish us an anniversary. My family sent cards, phone calls, my parents had us over. I constantly find his family distant and uncaring. Should it be normal for me not to expect a phone call on our anniversary from his mother?

2007-07-03 03:08:59 · 11 answers · asked by Violet 4

He's almost 16, and I'm sure his buddies are drinking already. He came to me and asked if it's ok that he drinks at my house for the first time. He wants to try it around me so he can get use to it I guess. Maybe he just wants to be in a safe place when he tries it for the first time. I dont know what to do. I had waited until I was 21 to drink, but clearly he doesnt want to wait. What should I do?

2007-07-03 03:03:40 · 16 answers · asked by lolarusty 2

They come into town. I have family that live 30 minutes from me, which is my home town. My brothers live in texas which I never see and hardly talk to but everything is cool whenever we talk. My mother always call them constanly and hardly ever call me. So everytime they come to town I always go there to see them...and they call to let me know they are in town. should
I always go there to see them and why can't they drive my way to see me sometime? what do you think

2007-07-03 03:00:24 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

my mom jut doesnt under stand that she watches 6 kids that arent hers and sne expects me to be ok with that and i am always in a bad mood beacause she lets tham play with my stuff.

what should i do?

2007-07-03 02:48:51 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I f you were given somone esles perscription and you overdosed cause you wiegh 95lbs and your alright now but how much would you ask the vice president of the company for I am not sure and I have to give him an amount?????


please no smart *** this is very serious i amlost died and my daughter wouldnt have her mommy!!!

2007-07-03 02:47:22 · 15 answers · asked by babymay1011 2

My son never listen to anyone he is a trouble maker. He's only 13-years-old and he already done a lot of things like stole staff from the store and lie alot he always deny the thing that he done everytime I comfronting him. What should I do. I have decided to send him my to my eldest brother because I can't take it anymore. We don't have control with him any more.

2007-07-03 02:46:31 · 7 answers · asked by Rowena D 1

we are both 13 years old. her grandmother died on sunday and she won't talk to anyone(including me). we live in different states and she won't answer the phone, e-mail amd when i text her, she says go away! what can i do to make her happy agian?

2007-07-03 02:25:30 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know that sounds heartless and mean but, last night I was rubb-drying my hair and I over heard them talking. I know I wasn't supossed to easedrop but, I did. My parents and older sister were talking about school for me and my younger sibling. Talking about school doesn't bother me because, I make good grades in school but, what they were talking about did. They were talking about sending my little sister to a grade school 7hrs. away that's in Nashville, TN. and me to Baxley, GA. that's 10 hrs. from where we live. The thing that bothers me is I've been homeschooled through grade school then, my 7th grade year went to a Christian school. I got picked on because I was the youngest in my class and so on. So...my mom put my back in homeschooling for my 8th and 9th grade year. I want to go back to the Christian school b/c I'm sick of homeschooling. That certain school I went to was the best in the best in the area. But, Mom doesn't like it I know I'm complaining but, what am I gonna do?

2007-07-03 02:13:17 · 8 answers · asked by Mandi 2

2007-07-03 01:43:42 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous