my mom jut doesnt under stand that she watches 6 kids that arent hers and sne expects me to be ok with that and i am always in a bad mood beacause she lets tham play with my stuff.
what should i do?
2007-07-03 02:48:51 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Well, I read your other topic about no1 reading or answering your questions...so here I am. Talk to her about it! That's the only way its going to end. You could lock your room door (opens with a bobby pin) that way they can't go in your room...If you tell your mom it bothers you, she'll understand! Just talk to her..
say: Mom, I'm tired of the kids that you watch taking over MY stuff. It's not fair to me. They don't live here, so they should have boundaries of what they can do here...
hope i helped ya some, but its all up to you
ciao for now,
tara
2007-07-03 02:58:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't try to be skinny! If your doctor says you are in a healthy range of weight, that's absolutely fine. Your mother can hardly say anything to that. Also try the BMI calculator (body mass index). Reminder: BMI also takes in factors like muscle! If you're a bit over the normal, just eat healthier. If you can go the whole week with no junk food, great. But from what you've said, you're going to get cravings for it and just break down and eat it eventually. So, don't completely emit junk food! A healthy balance is what you need.One small portion of junk food on Saturday and Sunday (not a huge amount) and one more time during the week, your choice which day. I think your mom needs to chill. So do your dad and brother. Sit down with your mom and talk to her about your body image. DON'T become anorexic or bulimic, those are serious eating disorders. Don't try to be skinny, just try to be at a healthy weight. Email me if you like! Don't keep it bottled up inside, talk to someone! Even if it's just me, someone on the internet. Just try to live a healthy life and get some exercise. btw, your mom shouldn't force you to go... Just go voluntarily! Even if you just walk. Walking is a start. Find someone who can motivate you to stay healthy- a friend. Even if it's just me. Please don't wreck your health by trying to be thin like a model- you're not perfect. Nobody is. By the way, what IS normal? Normal... it's an abstract thought. There is no fixed definition of normal. Your mom's definition of a normal body is thin, thin, thin. Your doctor may tell you otherwise. PLEASE just talk to someone, and consult your doctor w/o your mom in the room, if possible. Or it's ok if she is. In any case, your doctor should clear up your mom's definition of a normal, healthy body. Maybe she can even help you set a reasonable goal! :) Good luck, email if you want!
2016-05-17 07:17:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to keep your things up and out of the way. Don't bring out anything you are not going to be using and put it away immediately when you are finished. Out of sight out of mind. Keep a few decoys around, things you have grown too old for or are bored w/ and leave them out. When the kiddies see and play w/ these complain a little but then leave them too it. Kids seem to want toys etc. that other kids want so don't make it too easy.
You probably should try to explain to Mom about your possessions and how you don't like the others messing w/ your things. Don't whine or yell, and Mom will be more likely to hear you and agree.
2007-07-03 03:15:20 · answer #3 · answered by mak 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn. To. Share.
Don't be selfish! And if this really bothers you so much I think you should talk to your mother about this! I mean, she IS watching over SIX kids!!! I think she has enough to handle at the moment.
Think about how SHE feels!
2007-07-03 15:54:13 · answer #4 · answered by Alias 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe u should give them the stuff that u don't play no more u should give them like old barbies or babydolls u don't play with ect...
Hope I helped
Rahrah
2007-07-03 03:20:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have your own room? can't you shut your door? ask your mother if she could keep the kids out of your things. Let her know how much it bothers you, and see if that helps.
2007-07-03 03:06:02 · answer #6 · answered by carmel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont' think those kids should be bothering your things... without your permission.
if she wants them to have toys while she babysits, maybe she can get used things at garage sales or flea markets?
show your mother this post.
take care.
2007-07-03 03:03:04 · answer #7 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Adults have to do what they have to do to get by. So unless you start bringing home the bacon, get over it and learn to share.
2007-07-03 02:52:13 · answer #8 · answered by firstythirsty 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i was reading the other questions you havs asked...your fuken ridiculous its sad. grow the ffuck up and move on wit your life..you will be happier....OMG MY MOM WON'T BUY ME ANYMORE CLOTHES. NOW IM GONNA GO KILL MYSELF... yea...ur soooo popular!!! i really wanna be ur friend!!!
2007-07-03 09:50:47 · answer #9 · answered by soccerlovesit 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i thinkl you're being selfish there's nothing wrong with sharing your stuff with them get over it
2007-07-03 03:01:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋