My son never listen to anyone he is a trouble maker. He's only 13-years-old and he already done a lot of things like stole staff from the store and lie alot he always deny the thing that he done everytime I comfronting him. What should I do. I have decided to send him my to my eldest brother because I can't take it anymore. We don't have control with him any more.
2007-07-03 02:46:31 · 7 answers · asked by Rowena D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Seems like you might never had control over him. Maybe you tried to hard to make him happy and he thinks he can walk all over you. Send him to your brother it is your responsibility as parents to make sure you do everything in your power to teach him right from wrong. If you can not do it then why not have family help. This is the problem with the world more families need to get involved. You know in other countries kids hardly act like this because there are not many satellite families. The entire family is policing what they do.
2007-07-03 03:37:39 · answer #1 · answered by je 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would have been a lot better had he stayed home and his father and you created a diversion - especially his father. Right now he is practicing to become a man and you are the example of how he will also treat women in the future so, dah, you need to be in his life and dad needs to walk with his son on this walk towards manhood. Your eldest brother could be involved only if he is on the same page as parents and it might not be a very good idea to make those living arrangements permanent.
2007-07-03 03:10:35 · answer #2 · answered by GoodQuestion 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you send your child to your brother's?
Have you ever considered that your child might need professional help?
It's not uncommon for children to lie and to experiment with shoplifting -- but continual lying and stealing is the result of some underlying problem.
Take a look at his homelife, and as you and your husband as parents....
You might need to get some therapy in order to learn how to manage your lives.
"Giving UP ON" a child is the coward's way out. He's YOUR child, your responsibility. Take action to correct these issues.
2007-07-03 02:54:12 · answer #3 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why are you punishing him for the part where he is not responsible???
Lemme tell you that children are a kind of innocent and are unaware of these wicked things..
what they learn is all from us...
Why not instead give him a environment that changes him firmly
although slowly...
Try to change him morally and do change the environment...
2007-07-03 02:51:43 · answer #4 · answered by prakhar j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you had him psychologically tested for depression/bipolar disorder/ADHD? My son at about 14, had similar problems, was diagnosed after I had him psychologically test, with Bipolar Disorder, and was put on medications for it. He also goes to therapy, and when he is on his meds, and attends his sessions as he should, he is just fine. But, when he stops taking his meds, and he cancels drs. appts., as bipolars are known to do very often, he is very unstable and acts out...with terrible reprocussions.
2007-07-03 04:33:51 · answer #5 · answered by pinkcadillac63 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I KNOW WHAT UR GOING THREW BECAUSE I WAS IN THE SAME BOAT... I PUT MY SON IN (YDC) BECAUSE I HAD TO SHOW HIM LOVE AND SHOW HIM THAT HE HAVE TO PAY FOR WHAT HAVE DID AND WILL DO. MY SON WAS IN (YDC) FOR 1 YEAR AND NOW HE BACK IN SCHOOL AND MAKING A' AND B' IN SCHOOL HE HAVE A LITTLE PART TIME JOB.
2007-07-03 02:52:03 · answer #6 · answered by Brownsugar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call super nanny :) haha...you should watch that show...last night there was an episode that might help you some
GOOD LUCK
2007-07-03 02:50:29 · answer #7 · answered by southernsweetie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋