Family - December 2006

My husband passed away in May 06'......There was an age difference, but we loved eachother......Now Im having trouble with his daughter wanting our things from our home.........Ive been through 5 atty's , and they are NO help......They take my money, and go full force........Then BAM NOTHING ! Ive lost my home, my car, my insurance (through my husband)...EVERYTHING ! I was pregnant with twins, and due to stress (his daughter) I had a miscarriage...... She just wont stop ! Any suggestions ?

2006-12-13 18:08:37 · 7 answers · asked by Missy 4

Me and my 19 year old got tinto an argument because she dosent do anything to beter herself or any housework or chores for that matter. well she ended up leaving the house that night and I was worried about her because she didnt come back. I realize she is an adult, just wanted to know she was ok. My sister and everyone of her friends knew where she was, but wouldnt tell me. She ended up coming home with this girl that used to live upstairs from me the next night. The girl she came back with is 21 and tried to sleep with my boyfriend,coused many problems for me and my family and sleeps around on her boyfriend continuosly. So I didnt let her in my house to help my daughter get her stuff. Well the reason I am asking this question I think my sister should of at least told me she was ok and where she was. She has children of her own and is 37-years-old. Do you think I have the right to be mad at her. I just wanted to know if my daughter was ok.

2006-12-13 17:52:06 · 13 answers · asked by Spinning Times LLC 3

my mom always hit me for crazy reasons and she always sneak in my room an listen to my conversations and never lets me go anny where she dont want me with a phone or drivers licens or a car she wont et me work where i want to work and she stay compairing me to older kids saying im dumb and ill never make it i have to sneak and do stuff cuz if i try to tell her she wouldent listen and shed fuss but i wont kno why and she always call me retarted and dumb and every time i try to do something good i think of her then i dont do it

2006-12-13 17:40:40 · 33 answers · asked by Ms.B 1

I ordered something through a cataloge and I tracked the tracking number. It should be here tomarrow around 7 pm. that is an estimated time. Does fed ex usually delivery at night? and are they accurate on delivery times? I dont want to miss the truck. what can I do, if I am not here? I dont want them to just leave it on my back porch. please help?

2006-12-13 17:34:51 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

his mom does, but his dad is always distant with me, what do you talk about with your boyfriends DAD?

2006-12-13 17:34:14 · 13 answers · asked by Olivia C 1

In our state she has to go to school until she is 16 and they force her to take math and science classes. I'm upset because this is not going to make her a better homemaker, wife, or mom. What is the point of trying to teach these things? I mean algebra and chemistry is way over her head...

2006-12-13 17:34:12 · 11 answers · asked by Lucky L 1

2006-12-13 17:29:49 · 24 answers · asked by lina_!!! 1

In some cases, people think this is gross.

2006-12-13 17:28:52 · 18 answers · asked by blingding 5

Toni Braxton startled and moved fans in a recent concert at the Flamingo in Las Vegas when she broke down in tears, discussing her autistic son.
"She was dedicating I Wanna Be (Your Baby)' to her son, and then she said something about how people have warned her that she shouldn't talk about it, but said that he was autistic, and then she started crying and rushed off stage, says a source. "It was very emotional."
Braxton's rep didn't return a call, but fans have been writing Braxton in support.

2006-12-13 16:40:16 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Multiple answers accepted

2006-12-13 16:35:12 · 28 answers · asked by DoubleOshann 1

My dad was very mean to Mom in her last days, to the point of rejecting her and asking her to die - which she did.

I now live with him and my brother. I try not to forget what he did, because she died in pain - both physical and emotional.

A year down the line, I'm confused - should I forgive him, and he be happy that he got rid of her to win our (the kids') love? This would mean a win for him.

Should I forgive him for the sake of happiness of what remains of the family?

Or should I continue to 'punish' him for what he did, a villain is always a villain. Or it's up to God to punish him for what happened, which could be a mere perception of mine?

2006-12-13 16:30:26 · 28 answers · asked by just me.. 3

I found out a couple years ago that my brother molested me when we were younger. He still hasn't sincerely apologized and I don't have any contact with him anymore. I don't want to cause problems in my family, but I think he should pay the consequences for what he did to me. I certainly am. I checked out the statute of limitations and I can legally still charge him. Is it worth the problems it could cause?

2006-12-13 16:27:12 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

My Mom died unexpectedly October 24th; she was 79. We were incredibly close, and her loss has been a devistating blow. I was on route there when we lost her, and spent two weeks with my Dad arranging everything for the funeral and supporting my Dad (76). I came back home, tried to get back to work on my dissertation (Graduate student) but got sick. Then I hosted Dad for a week here over Thanksgiving. After he left I continued to be sick and have only just been feeling better over the last day or two.

My problem? Dad calls every day, (my fault, we live in different states, and I did tell him to call if and whenever he needed). I am an older student who has come back to school (39). I have not "reported" to my parents on my life in years. I know that all Dad needs is someone to talk to, and there are days that is fine. But sometimes, increasingly I keep getting resentful, -- I just want to be left alone to greive in my own way. And I want my life private again. I need space so that I can find my own rhythm again and eventually get back to work. I havent even engaged with anybody in my circle here either. While I was sick, I kept having to tell him "no, I'm not better" which made me feel that I wasnt getting well fast enough. Now that I am a little better, it's conversation what I do each day. (Part of my guilt, I havent gotten back to working on my stuff yet.) So, talking to him just makes me feel worse about that too. I have tried explaining this to him, but he still calls.

I want to be supportive to my Dad, but I also want to do what I need for myself. I am stuck. Dad also needs to engage more with his community of people. And it hurts to think how lonely he is -- I know. I am an only child, and the only relatives Dad has are an older Sister also in another state.

I turn to you because all of you seem to be going through similar things. Bless you for taking the time for me...(and my Dad). Help! How do I do the right thing for us both?

2006-12-13 16:26:33 · 16 answers · asked by Clear thinker 3

They have said some mean things about it and this had hurt me a lot.They know how important it was for me to go back to school(I waited 7 yrs).I am happy that I am at school and I am doing well,but I am also regretting it because they have turned their backs on me for it.I made it here on my own and I thought they would be proud of me for reaching one of my life goals,but they aren’t.Now that Christmas is coming,I am torn between going back and having them problems like last year or staying away from them and celebrate the holiday without them.It is also my b-day.My parents are not getting any younger and I don’t want to have something to happen and regret not spending as much time with them as I should.Last I saw them was in June due to school,yet they never have made an effort to contact me.I have written them,but I never get a reply.Every time I go there,I usually end up crying because of the horrible way they treated me.I will be moving cross-country to go to grad school after this

2006-12-13 16:11:39 · 10 answers · asked by Elizabeth 2

just asking

2006-12-13 16:09:38 · 17 answers · asked by kellie t 1

still miss her dearly, especially during Christmas.

2006-12-13 16:03:14 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok i work as a cocktail waitress and i really need the money, theres nothing much i know how to do besides serving drinnks. of course our uniforms are real slutty, i didnt mind but me and my co workers are like being harrassed by the guys. they say sexual things and touch us without permission. i always get my nylon thighs feeled on when i serve drinks on a table. and they have me smacking our asses. one guymy skirt lifted up just to see what was under. we kind of told the manager but too embarrassed and he didn't do much.

and when i come home my bf doesn't even care and worst yet, he forces in me, everyday when i come home in my uniform, he does it to me. he doesn't even ask first. and he has this attitude now like, "Take off all you clothes now." and "Get in bed now" and like hes real rough. like forcing my legs to open and stuff. i have to put up with this during the work and once i come home i have this. help

2006-12-13 15:58:48 · 19 answers · asked by Anika 2

it seems that im like the least favorite out of my 3 siblings. My parents found cigarettes & a condom in my oldest sister's purse and she got grounded, but only for like.. 2 days.. and she is like so free now, and when my parents found out i got a C's in my grades, my mum was hitting my head and pulling my hair and asking me to leave the house, wich i did.. then they were asking me to come back, and after the next day.. i went home, and when i did, my parents were so nice. After a week has passed, my parents dont even give a dam about me. and they are so nice to my 2nd sister cuz she is so smart.. i mean, i cant be their perfect child. and my mum tells me, "i wish i cud have aborted you, without u in my life, it wud be perfect."
What kind of mom wud say that ??
well this isnt really a question.. so yeh.

Its kinda weird cuz im like crying my eyes out.
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2006-12-13 15:30:26 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

For me its my Mother. She recently robbed my house and stole all the presents under the tree....we have never gotten along. Can anyone relate?

Thanks in advance and God Bless.

2006-12-13 15:28:40 · 10 answers · asked by Little Wifey 5

When we came home she was back and asked us where were we. We told her and she acted like she was mad about it. I just don't understand what's her freakin problem. I do help out around here, but she is always unsatisfied. Does anyone have any similar stories?

2006-12-13 15:24:25 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

My brother statrted attacking me and getting in my face. He wouldn't let me past him and kept lunging at me like he wanted to hit me. He did punch me a few times and I scratched him in self defense. I am 20 years old and about 200 lbs, and 5;2', he is 16 years old, 210 lbs., and 5'10'. What do I do? He keeps threatening to kill me, and break my stuff when I'm not home. I want to talk to the police because I don't feel safe in my home, and he has a record. But since I'm older and he has 2 scratch marks, I'm afraid that I will get in trouble. Any advice?

2006-12-13 15:17:48 · 10 answers · asked by charmed45390 2

Ok, so im 15. I started smoking cigarettes when i was 11 { young, yes i know} and it is the worst mistake of my life. For all of you smokers, you know its addicting. I want to stop soo bad but i have no help and it sucks because my mom smokes, my grandma smokes.. pretty much evreyone in my house smokes { my mom dont know about me smoking} i also know its against the law. And i really wanna quit but like i said before.. its soo hard.. any websites or suggestions on how to stop within the next month or 2?

2006-12-13 15:12:52 · 16 answers · asked by ? 4

My mother even packed my little suitcase for me and handed me my teddy bear before I left. Years later, I learned that she followed me to keep me safe.

2006-12-13 15:07:26 · 14 answers · asked by In Honor of Moja 4

I mean like why is my daughter being graded in math in science like she was a guy? And why was my son forced to take home economics in middle school?

2006-12-13 15:06:08 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok i just moved to a diffrnt state the beginning of this school year and I guess you could call it being homesick but i have a new home, during the whole moving process my parents PROMISED ME THIS " We'll let you go back & visit whenever you want". & its about a week till christmas holliday & i really need to see my friends and stuff, and it was kinna assumed that my family would fly back over holliday so i could visit my friends, & my brother his friends & my parents could visit my aunt & uncle.But i guess i was wrong, my parents want to vist relavties in a diffrent city & there like "cant u & ur brother just drive & find some ppl to stay with?"& weve both tried to find ppl & stuff but the logistics of us staying with diffrnt pll & me with no car just doesnt work out, plus its a roughly a 470mile trip each way.
How do i convince me parents to come with us? I feel bad using guilt but ill do what ever is nescicary.

2006-12-13 15:04:29 · 3 answers · asked by timmy123 2

? about relatives?
I recently wrote a letter to a relative who hasn't spoken to me for a while, but I'm not sure why. In the letter I said that I would like to put whatever hard feelings there are between us aside and try to work things out. I know she's been busy with other things, but how long would you wait for a response, and would you call her if she didn't respond, and try and talk it out?

2006-12-13 15:04:03 · 6 answers · asked by Angie 2

ok i know that my dad loves me soooo much and he would get crazy if anythin bad happens to me but he does many bad things in his life which change the look i have for him,for example when he flirts with other women than my mom,when he flirts with my cousin (she is over age)but i mean she likes him as a father he now 48yrs old and he always flirt with girls in my age,seriously this thing really piss me off,i mean he should respect my mom,me and his age..and even when i invite my friend to my house he would keep kissin her and hugin her (and believe me he does it in dirty way) i actually dont care what my friend gonna think of him but i dont ppl to disrespect him,i mean if at that time my friend shouted at my dad,i wouldnot be able to stop her coz i know it that it's my dad's fault and no wonder he will get nothin except disrespet from others..he always been like this,even when i was young he would flirt with my older sister's friends,what can i do?plz help

2006-12-13 15:00:51 · 3 answers · asked by stang girl 3

I have this cousin. She did something stupid and now shes pregnant now. I never have liked my cousin that much but she is family. She needs support and I feel like the rest of my family kind of abbandoned her. I don't have any money or anything really but I really want to give her something for christmas that will help her out. Problem is that I have nothing to give. Any sugestions?

2006-12-13 14:25:43 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am getting suspended from my work for 3 days. I'm a single mom of a 1-year-and-5-month-old little girl. How do I spend my 3 days with her? I mean, I want to make the most out of it!!! ^_^ Give me ideas... Thanks!

2006-12-13 14:19:14 · 5 answers · asked by ~Amor~ 3

my mom hates me she say's all the other girls are better. now i'm just sitting here crying she always whant's me to be like other girl. help!!!!!!!!

2006-12-13 14:03:05 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous