my mom hates me she say's all the other girls are better. now i'm just sitting here crying she always whant's me to be like other girl. help!!!!!!!!
2006-12-13 14:03:05 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
If you are still in school, go to see your school counselor as soon as possible. It sounds like your mother has serious problems. Both you and she need help - soon.
2006-12-13 14:09:57 · answer #1 · answered by CapeCodGram 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mom sounds like she needs to grow up a little.Its very wrong for her to say that to you no matter how upset you make her.Try not to take it to heart she doesn't mean it and she probably feels really bad for saying it.My mom and I were like that when I was a teen.But looking back I understand why she was so hard on me.She loves you and see all the potential you have and doesn't want to see you waste it.you need to find a way to communicate with her and maybe a third party would help.
2006-12-13 22:17:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I heard the same thing for 34 years, but it is because mom's get disappointed by their life choices and blame their children. I know my mom did not want me I heard all the time still do. I am guessing you are young and it hurts but you know what say to her if she hates you so bad she should have never had you then. I makes them think about how bad they are hurting you. I feel for you.
2006-12-13 22:43:18 · answer #3 · answered by iseemen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is not something a mother should do. Suggest things for you, but not alinate you and hurt you like that. I am sorry you are feeling so bad. just be you, show her you can be you and still be impressive.
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2006-12-13 22:07:05 · answer #4 · answered by wingedladyk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds like she's angry, She wants you to be like other girls. But she's not like other mothers. Hopefully you will be old enough to move out soon. Is there someone you can move in with?
2006-12-13 22:11:25 · answer #5 · answered by queendebadow 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to someone else, maybe they can help. Talk to you dad, aunt, uncle, teacher, or friends mom. Someone needs to mediate this situation before you do something drastic.
2006-12-13 22:15:05 · answer #6 · answered by eharrah1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to your school counselor in the morning your mother is not right to compare you to other girls maybe she is jealous of you and she has her own demons to fight but you need to talk to a professional and don't be angry with your mom she needs to talk to someone too!!
2006-12-13 23:13:34 · answer #7 · answered by Amanda B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what a jerk sorry you have a mom like that, just be yourself, or get a friend to help you change into what ever your mom thinks you should be, and out do her.
2006-12-13 22:06:46 · answer #8 · answered by Grandma of six 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats sad your mom should like and love you for who you are. you should talk to a trusted adult about how she is treating you maybe they can help
2006-12-13 22:09:41 · answer #9 · answered by love_alw_693 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What did you do? I have a feeling that you are not telling the whole story.
2006-12-13 22:27:02 · answer #10 · answered by Jinny E 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋