Family - October 2006

I lost my 2 year old Nephew, my Mom & Dad, and my two brothers in a short period of time. I can't help but think of them and I get that "Hole in the Heart feeling." Thats why I spend so much time on my computer. If you're fortunate enough to still have your Loved ones, think about how brief life is, and try to say "I Love Ya!" a little more.

2006-10-23 23:26:00 · 9 answers · asked by sluggo1947 4

My brother turns 21 in a couple of weeks and I haven't a clue what to get him. Any ideas for a good present for a girl to give to her brother, something for him to keep and remember, budget of around £50??

2006-10-23 22:48:35 · 8 answers · asked by eamonandmegan 2

2006-10-23 22:43:05 · 19 answers · asked by mahalakshmi C 1

Myself and my partner have not been getting on and the love has gone, I have asked him to leave as i cant cause we have two children but are not married, my name is on the house too, do you think the courts would favour me to stay even though he pays the mortgage. I feel like i have no other alternative but to take him to court as he told me he will never leave..help!

2006-10-23 22:14:15 · 18 answers · asked by nat c 1

2006-10-23 21:59:47 · 31 answers · asked by dec g 3

i am married in malaysia from last 6yrs and have 2 kids , my father is posted outside the town and he doing travelling everyday. my one brother is posted out of town too and coming once in week . my babhi is also working and she prefers to be with her parents , my mom is facing from ill health , she is diabetic, hypertension, and many more. earlier my younger brother use to help to take care my mom but now he is goin abroad to study
now my dilema is should i go and stay with my mom to help her . she needs somebody near her
but what my hubby then and my kids? their study will be affected they the need the national language of malaysia for their future.
whom should i stay with my mom , my hubby?
please give me serious reply .
if u were in my shoes what would you have done
thanx for replies and advice

2006-10-23 21:18:33 · 5 answers · asked by may_minu 3

2006-10-23 21:03:01 · 15 answers · asked by mahalakshmi C 1

i recently left him because i didn't feel loved and i felt that the relationship was one sided. after i left, i heard things from my family that they don't like him and that they are happy i got out of the situation. i love him and i wanted it to work. he has worked, over the past three weeks, to change some of the things that i had a problem with. he wants us to have our family back. but i'm not sure if i should go back. i know if i do, that my family will be disappointed and i will have a split life: him and then them. i feel so confused. my boyfriend begs for me to come home and i want to have our family back, but i don't want to have all the fighting anymore. i need some serious advice from people in the same situation or have been in the same situation. i want my daughter to have both of us together like my boyfriend and i both had when we grew up. but i'm worried we will get back together and that honeymoon phase will wear off and it will go bad again. i'm torn. help

2006-10-23 21:02:00 · 12 answers · asked by lost23 1

my sister in law told everyone she is pregnant! she is only 2 days late from getting her period. and has told everyone when she hasn't even confirmed it by the doctor. i on the other hand am 6 weeks pregnant and havent told anyone apart from my husband. we were waiting to i was at least 8 - 12 weeks before we told anyone. now i feel like an idiot. should i have said something straight away when she announced it to me that she was pregnant? how is going to look now when i tell people! what do i do? do i tell people ASAP or just wait a bit longer. i am further along than her. the way she told me she was pregnant was by saying to me; so are you pregnant yet? i said no, and then she goes i am! everytime she would see me she ask me if i was pregnant yet and i tell her that i wasn't trying. cause i knew that if i told her we were trying that she would. i do however recall telling her last year that i would like to have another late this year. what should i do now?

2006-10-23 20:59:08 · 8 answers · asked by angel 1

She got angry with me because I’m a private person and she can’t understand why I won’t let people know where I live or give them my home phone number. She said to me, “From the day you were born, I knew you were odd. There’s nothing in you from my side of the family. Don't you think it's strange that you go out with friends and don't tell them where you live?". I cried all night long and left for work this morning. I just don't know what to think. I find it difficult to disclose information about myself that's all.

2006-10-23 20:52:50 · 31 answers · asked by The way I are 1

My first rule of thumb when I go out to eat is turn the cell phone on vibrate and no talking on the cell phone while dining at a restaurant. So my husband and I are at a restaurant eating and his cell rings. He answers it and begins talking (loud). So I give him the "maybe if I look irritated look" he'll explain we're having dinner and he'll call them back. So I ask kindly if he can please put his cell on vibrate. After this I THOUGHT he got it in his head "hey I should put my cell on vibrate and NOT talk at the table while we're having dinner". BUT NOOOOOO, this happens 2 more times 'til I finally get pissed off at him and tell him how rude and inconsiderate it is of him to be talking on the phone LOUDLY while others are trying to enjoy their dinner while his cell rings and while he talks loudly to the person on the other end. He says I'm being ridiculous and that I should STOP worrying about what other people think cause he doesn't give a *uck. So now we're fighting. But was I wrong?

2006-10-23 20:52:16 · 10 answers · asked by SoCalGal75 3

My mom met my dad 8 years before I was born-they were friends and all. But during this time he was married and also had 4 children. Well in 87' I was born and he came and saw me a couple times. Well we moved from ILL. to MN. when I was 3- And I have never talked to him or had any contact. My mom never really brought him up. And what I know is that he is well to do and a nice guy. So I don't know why he never really tried to contact me. I know he had a family but not even just once in awhile. Well I was thinking about it lately and I feel like I want to know him and share a father-daughter relationship.Do you think I should try to contact him?I am almost 20 and I feel like I'm running out of time-he is getting older-prolly almost 70 yr. old by now.Just I'm courious :| I don't know what to do. I am stressing over this tonight since I found a card I wrote back in 93' during Christmas and It showed I was writing him and sent pics-never was sent.I have no info on him :(

2006-10-23 20:45:08 · 4 answers · asked by foxyteenamh 1

I am looking for my brother. I have not seen him in years.

2006-10-23 20:20:05 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-23 20:09:45 · 5 answers · asked by Sagar S 1

I recently got married and my wife has a son. I refer to him as my son, but I'm not comfortable with him calling me by my first name. I also recognize that he has a dad in his life. I beleive that the term dad should be reserved for the father he's known for most his life. So, is there another name that he can call me? Not sure I like "Pop". What do stepfathers have their children call them?

2006-10-23 19:48:33 · 33 answers · asked by dr.timbo 2

I am 24 years old guy. i have been with a gal (3 years elder than me) for last 1 year.I introduced her with family but my family is not accepting her because she is of different religion and she is not beautiful.(they dont know abt age diff yet). i can not leave my family because they depend on me and they have done a lot for me. i am totally confused. Me and my friend are in same company and earning a good salary. Please suggest me what i should do. i cant marry her right now because my elder brother is still unmarried. So i have to wait for 3 years but it is her age to marry.

Please suggest me what we should do and dont play with my feelings.

2006-10-23 19:45:25 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

okay dads what have u been upto since the crack of dawn

2006-10-23 19:39:24 · 7 answers · asked by ? 1

it usually takes a lot to make me lose my temper but my mom and i dont get along,, she has major anger problems, but i know at her age she's not going to change and ive given up on her but when im around her i get really angry and say things i dont mean not just to her but also my dad and my sisters & brother.

2006-10-23 19:38:46 · 7 answers · asked by missknowitall 1

I am so worried about many things i want to get systematic and decide what to do, im 23 shud i think about marriage, but i want to make my carrer first and help my family financially, but my family is worried about my marriage. tell me what woul u do if u were in the swame place?????

2006-10-23 19:23:19 · 13 answers · asked by Cool gal 2

kids still asleep and done all the ironing what about u lot now nothing rude hey

2006-10-23 19:22:36 · 12 answers · asked by ? 1

2006-10-23 19:21:04 · 35 answers · asked by GG Alan Alda 4

I just finally got a tattoo which I've been wanting it forever...small one in my lower back. But my husband is against it and now that he will be back here in 2 weeks bec of his deployment. Do you think that I should tell him now or wait until he gets home??? Pls help me I dont want him to get really pissed at me...

2006-10-23 19:16:00 · 14 answers · asked by ktpunto 1

2006-10-23 19:12:20 · 6 answers · asked by GoateeBoy 3

2006-10-23 18:46:25 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

My son is 7years old at frist we thought he just did it cause he was playing and didn't wont to go but, he has been on this med for a month and half and it still isn't working. I am worried cause he smell bad after a few hours of play and there is no infection he has been checked and it is strong. He drinks lots of water everyday and no soda just kool-aid and milk but, he would rather water all the time and juice sometimes. I need advise and spanking is not the answer He really can't help it.

2006-10-23 18:35:41 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-23 18:21:42 · 1 answers · asked by jeff b 1

2006-10-23 18:07:46 · 13 answers · asked by KayKay 1

2006-10-23 18:05:48 · 19 answers · asked by Paul S 2

My father who is 87 years old, and is a retired medical practitioneer is keen to spend a month or so, near to a sea beach. He is physically okay - a bit hard of hearing (wears a hearing machine), moves about very slowly.
Is keen on reading, meditating and loves to write - letters, articles, real life events, etc. (he spends at least 3/4 hours daily doing this)

2006-10-23 18:04:45 · 2 answers · asked by sudhirmw 1

2006-10-23 17:48:25 · 4 answers · asked by Ben Y 1