i am married in malaysia from last 6yrs and have 2 kids , my father is posted outside the town and he doing travelling everyday. my one brother is posted out of town too and coming once in week . my babhi is also working and she prefers to be with her parents , my mom is facing from ill health , she is diabetic, hypertension, and many more. earlier my younger brother use to help to take care my mom but now he is goin abroad to study
now my dilema is should i go and stay with my mom to help her . she needs somebody near her
but what my hubby then and my kids? their study will be affected they the need the national language of malaysia for their future.
whom should i stay with my mom , my hubby?
please give me serious reply .
if u were in my shoes what would you have done
thanx for replies and advice
2006-10-23 21:18:33 · 5 answers · asked by may_minu 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
my family is in india
2006-10-23 21:19:19 · update #1
What i would do is stay with your mum for so many weeks and some weeks go home to you kids and then go back to your mum or you could get you mum to come and live with you and you would not have to leave you kids . i fell so sorry for you . I hope this helps sorry to hear about you mum
2006-10-23 21:23:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if no body care for ur mother and u want to take reasponsiblity keep ur mother in ur home and better arrange a nurse or med for her and take care for her .as u said every one is busy in his own work and no one careing ur mum. U too have kids and familly so this is the only way . u let them pay ur mothers medical bills and expences ,this is the only way to help her .sorry for all this u suffer i know
2006-10-23 21:30:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice is to stay where you are with your family and try to do what you can. Your kids need to be the priority right now. Are there things you can do from where you are? Can you send her money? Can you hire someone to drop by and help her out?
2006-10-23 21:24:04 · answer #3 · answered by Maggie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your mum needs some1 to luck after her and it has to be you well move her to your place and care for her from your home then every1 is ok.
2006-10-23 21:23:30 · answer #4 · answered by comeo!! 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should weigh the consequences... you should think of the person/s who really needs you at the time... the person/s who needs your caring and all...
2006-10-23 21:23:16 · answer #5 · answered by cyndie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋