I just finally got a tattoo which I've been wanting it forever...small one in my lower back. But my husband is against it and now that he will be back here in 2 weeks bec of his deployment. Do you think that I should tell him now or wait until he gets home??? Pls help me I dont want him to get really pissed at me...
2006-10-23 19:16:00 · 14 answers · asked by ktpunto 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Depends on where he is deployed. If that man is out fighting in the war right now, you dont have any business telling him things that will upset him. If he is just stationed somewhere, that is not a hot zone..and he is pretty much no in a stressful environment, you should go on ahead and tell him now, therefore, he will have two weeks to blow off steam and then when he gets home, maybe he wont be so angry anymore.
2006-10-23 19:29:17 · answer #1 · answered by RAW29 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unless he married you by holding a loaded pistol to your head and threating you, chances ae pretty good that you made the decision to marry him.
You should tell him over the phone and promise that you'll not do anything that he is against again, and mean it!
Its one thing to do what you feel is right. You have a life, but to do anything that you already know is something your husband is against is wrong.
If you have no more respect for your HUSBANDS wishes than to do what you have always wanted, then you might as well take it down town and sell it on the street! Your going to need the money the way your going!
2006-10-24 02:40:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi there! Basically everyone has a point. I Think that you can tell your husband the truth. Of course it matters in how you tell it. I am sure your husband will understand, its something that you wanted for a long time, its not some huge thing that covers your whole back. I think that when he understands that it means something to you, and not done in spite or in defiance than he might learn also to appreciate it.
I have 4 tattoos, and each one has significance (for me), my husband loves and respects my decisions. There are bigger things to worry about in this world than a tattoo.
2006-10-24 07:44:00 · answer #3 · answered by B.Cakes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did wrong. You shud have asked him b4 getting that. Or he can make that tatto to any of your places. As logically he is the person who is authorised to look, use all places. Now dont tell him until he is back and inform him after taking into confidence, specially the better time will be when is over you, pumping and is near to ejaculate, as that is the moment when man's mind is concentrated to that issue only.
2006-10-24 02:22:59 · answer #4 · answered by MY Regards to All 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well you should have thought about getting his pissed at you before you did it. If it were me I would tell him before he came home. At least that way he has had some time to think about it and possibly cool down before you see one another.
2006-10-24 02:19:27 · answer #5 · answered by looking for answers 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him now.. So he can get pissed off while he's away from yah heh heh
He'll realize it's too late to do anything about it .. and might be more rational by the time he gets home....
2006-10-24 02:18:28 · answer #6 · answered by Makai 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I suggest waiting until he gets home. Telling him now will only mess with his head, and he's got plenty to contend with right now. Don't throw your guilt on him until he's in a safer place. And telling him now only means you don't want to deal with it. You made the decision, you deal with it, with him, when he returns.
2006-10-24 02:21:40 · answer #7 · answered by Arnold M 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him on the phone.
My ex never said anything about tattoos. I got one and he FLIPPED!
He called me every name in the book, with my children there.
I divorced him shortly after.
2006-10-24 02:21:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you should tell him now because then he can get use to the idea before he gets home. Theres nothing he can do about it now so just give him time, he'll get over it.
2006-10-24 02:19:58 · answer #9 · answered by Sierra 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't tell him. wait until you get in the bed then show him. I bet he wont say much then. also tell him a chick did it, me might get jealous if a dude did it
2006-10-24 02:21:21 · answer #10 · answered by Koolaid1730 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋