2006-10-23 22:43:05 · 19 answers · asked by mahalakshmi C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
WHAT IS THE REASON BEHIND THE DISLIKING OF YOUR FATHER YOU HAVE NOT MENTIONED DISLIKING MAY BE HE IS CHARACTER LESS OR HIS CAST IS DIFFER. IF DISLIKING IS LIKE FIRST ONE THEN YOUR FATHER IS RIGHT AND IF DISLIKING IS LIKE SECOND ONE THEN YOU GO AHEAD.
2006-10-23 23:02:58 · answer #1 · answered by RAMAN IOBIAN 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If he is your friend and lover and if you and he loves deeper go ahead and take it easy and dont listen to your father because it is your and his life and also is a reason because you like him very much.
2006-10-24 06:55:40 · answer #2 · answered by PICK - INDIA - PORTUGAL LISBON 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your father dislike that person, then there must be a reason for it, you can have a heart to heart talk with your father to find out whats making him dislike the guy, maybe you can change his mind....on the other hand, you can also understand your father's side
2006-10-24 05:54:45 · answer #3 · answered by sheikaella 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wait for some more time. Find why your father dislike him. you have to change that attitude by proper deals to succeed. But everything depends upon your age.
2006-10-27 07:45:03 · answer #4 · answered by mohandas m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
convince your father and proove your lovers worth and if you fail to do so , don't loose heart, learn to accept your destiny becos he or she would anyway be yours if you are destined to but in the process your sellfishness hurts so many hearts, the way you disobey your elders. Todays generation needs to learn a lesson and learn to submit in front of their elders, initiative has to be from childrens side first, then see how nature rewards you!
2006-10-24 07:20:28 · answer #5 · answered by ram 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
MAHA LAXMI,
first let me ask me few questions,
how old are you and your lover?
what arethe educational qualifications of both fo you?
how much do you love care andbeleive in narasingh?
why do you think your father dislikes him?
what are your plans for and expectations from life in general and after marriage? have you disscussed this with your lover?
how do you expect to meet those expectations?
what about his parents ,do they know about your relationship and are they accepting of you?
are you both ready to get married with out your parents consent? if so, how do you think you are going to sustain your fancial and social life?.
Look iam not asking these questions to dicourage you but to make you aware of the real and practical problems you could face .
if you are still in your teenages then I suggest you to let things cool off abit and concentrate more your accademics ,talk to your lover about your expectations of him in terms of proffession and financial stability and tell him that it very important for their future and that you will always there to support him to reach those goals.Talk to your father ,ask him why dislikes narasingh, what you and your lover do to change his opinion.
BUT,if both of you have completed your studies and or working then try and convince your parents and tell them howmuch you care about eachother and howmuch it means if your parents could appreciate and approove of your relationship.THEN,if need arrises take further step even with out your parents consent.
2006-10-24 16:34:08 · answer #6 · answered by j c 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If You like the person great.why does your father dislike him?Try to find that reason.If he is unreasonable then probably you can confront him and tell him that you want to marry him.Anyway You need all the luck.
2006-10-24 07:13:09 · answer #7 · answered by Specky 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just forget these and concentrate on your work. Don't go crazy. Do according to your father or else you make your desicion quickly. Do not drag this problem any longer. Better you solve it soon
2006-10-24 05:57:38 · answer #8 · answered by simran 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
this s not new thing with d lovers. If u & ur partner is gutsy u should go head with ur nuptials. both of u will b accepted by ur family provided u two also are fast in ur end'vour.
2006-10-24 07:00:24 · answer #9 · answered by Mohan M 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The best way is to allow your father to know him better. perhaps he will also see what you have seen in him?
2006-10-24 06:30:01 · answer #10 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋