Family - October 2006

2006-10-25 15:59:47 · 3 answers · asked by °The Earth Goddess° 4

my mom got in a car acceident 8 months ago. she was so beat up the doctors didn't know if she would make it. she was suffering from severe head trama. (she wasnt wearing a seatbelt X( )
she was in a coma for awhile and then 3 months ago she woke up. she is learning now how to move around again. but also she lost a lot of her memory. she is almost like a little kid now. evyerone has to help her. i dont' mean with speach, i mean more of food, bathroom, ect. i want to be apart of her life, bu ti don't know how. and i know this sounds horrible but im embarressed to go out in public with her. one time i had a friend over and she threw a tantrum ( cried) because she couldnt' remember how to use the washing machine. my dad calmedher down but i was so ooooooo embarrssed.

2006-10-25 15:54:06 · 18 answers · asked by fish_love_iron 1

I haven't been as bad a parent as others I know, I never forget holidays or BD's yet I'm the forgotten one in my family. My dead brother is remembered on his BD which is also my BD and I'm the oldest of all. Even my own kids don't call or write even a free E-Fun card to say Have a good one at least. Depressing as hell!!!! Am I the only one out there with ungrateful family members especially kids?

2006-10-25 15:54:04 · 14 answers · asked by papabeartex 4

When I was a kid my mother made "ice cream" out of snow. It had vanilla in it I am sure, but I forgot anything else. Does anyone know? Have you ever heard of this? Thanks.

2006-10-25 15:52:07 · 5 answers · asked by Isis 7

2006-10-25 15:51:41 · 6 answers · asked by APRIL C 1

my family like aunt's uncles's cousins and so forth live one hour away from me they always stop by my sisters house and call them they never stop by my place or have time to visit me it really hurts i've been here for 15 yearsand do not know much about them when i left i was 15 years old so i was pretty close to all of them.recently my father past away that is the onlyn contact i 've had with them . iuse to visit my granma to see if just maybe they would show up but nothing i love and miss them very much until now that i tried to get back invoveld someones always got to give attitude i know i'm not trippin i try my best to ignore but at this point i could care less for them it's like after we moved the pretty much forgot about me. do u think they hate me for some reason or just full of misery that they don't want anyone like me around since i've been gone for so long

2006-10-25 15:39:38 · 12 answers · asked by nojpsars 2

I know you won't beleive this, but ......
My gandmother told us all that my grandfather was dead and he had died. We had no idea he was alive and in jail. My sister and I were appalled when he walked into the room today! Later he came out and assulted me! ASSULTED ME - yes, you heard me right! He frickin beat me!
No-one whitnessed it. WHat should i do ?Should it lell my grandmother? or who ?
(i live with my grandmother. tellin my parents aint an option)

2006-10-25 15:35:44 · 12 answers · asked by mejason102 1

I'm honestly a good kid. Im 16, doing damn good in school, planning on going to Stern NYU. I go to church and try to keep my spiritual life in tact. And my parents still aren’t cutting me any slack.
They are making it impossible for me have a damn life. I've been getting asked out and I’ve always turned guys down because I know how my parents are. but I meet a sweet guy who I’ve been talking with and getting to know. I'm really liking him. So I brought it up to my parents and they said harsh things that really crushed my feelings got me really upset and down to crying. They don't know how to talk to me about stuff like that, and are making all the wrong assumptions of me, without me ever giving them reason to feel that way. I feel like a prisoner, and I don’t know how to go about the situation anymore.

Any advice?

2006-10-25 14:47:27 · 13 answers · asked by La Princesa 6

I want to put up all my awards and posters.

2006-10-25 14:47:15 · 6 answers · asked by JULIE S 1

Because of son is only 2 months old and i caught his morther cheating on me and ask her to leave but instead she just took my son and left to her mom house what legally rights do i have or need to do to see my son

2006-10-25 14:46:29 · 5 answers · asked by havefaith100 1

My brother starts arguements and she fights for him and never lets me speak. She constantly tells him she loves him and she calls me a *****. She calls me selfish and spoiled. I never ask her for anything. I buy her expensive Christmas gifts and she never says thank you or if she likes it. She uses the last shirt I bought her to dust furniture. She hasn't hugged me or told me she loved me in so long I can't remember when the last time was. The only time she ever talks to me is to tell me to do something or to yell at me. I'm the only one out of her three children that is attending/ever attended college and she still doesn't respect me. She constantly accsues me of lying and doesn't believe a single thing I say. She even favors the dogs over me. I'm sure most of you will think that I am exaggerating, but I can assure you that I'm not. I'm so afriad of talking to her, I don't want another fight, I don't want to hear her say those things. No one else in the house defends me either.

2006-10-25 14:38:49 · 10 answers · asked by paper face 1

I'm in college (undergrad) for veterinary medicine, and my mom constantly worries that I won't make enough money (b/c vets don't really make that much) when i get out of school. I've loved animals all of my life and honestly couldn't see myself doing anything else. It hurts me that she would even suggest me going into human medicine or something different. Basically my mom's worried b/c she went into music education and now can't find a job (she quit her job to have kids). How do I nicely convince her that being happy is more important than how much money you make? Honestly, if I couldn't find a job that I loved doing, I would rather die.

And also, she tells me all the time that I need to get out with friends, but I've come to find that I'm much more content just watching movies or doing something by myself or just with my sister. She nags about this too and I wish she'd stop!

How do I tell her these things nicely?

2006-10-25 14:35:15 · 18 answers · asked by mighty_power7 7

2006-10-25 14:34:38 · 6 answers · asked by Mike S 7

what do you do if your father is is an FBI agent and abuses you and no one believes anything you say. They only believe your father. DYFS says they help but what if they dont and your father threatenings to kill you next time he see you. What would you do if you were suppoed to go see him this weekend and your scared????????????????????????????

2006-10-25 14:31:27 · 16 answers · asked by slim 1

I'm 23 and I've lost both of my parents within a year and a half of eachother. My mom was hit by a car and killed and my dad died of a heart attack. I also lost my daughter 6 months ago. Am I cursed or something? Has anything like this happened to anyone else?

2006-10-25 14:27:00 · 14 answers · asked by colees 2

ok your in jail and your brother dies while your in there? thats wut happen to someone who goes to my bros high school he was in jail and his bro was in a car accident because of a drunk driver all while he was in jail. and he cant like talk to his fam or anything. do you think this is sad or is it his fault for being in jail in the first place?

2006-10-25 14:18:17 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous

cuz im goin on saturday!!

2006-10-25 14:14:06 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I need to do a project and i cant find any where to find my ancestors

2006-10-25 14:10:39 · 8 answers · asked by mamber13 1

He's not a little boy in fact, he's in middle school, but he still throws tantrums that are loud and disruptive, I'm trying to do schoolwork and he starts screaming and banging on the walls, including yelling through the wallls. It's giving me a huge headache and I'm losing concentration. Any way to possibly muffle the sound?

2006-10-25 14:02:36 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Today she missed the afternoon in school (she stayed home and hung out on the computer). She lied to me about it - even though the teacher had called and told me the details and she new that. I've tried to explain about consequences (no trust, etc), but she seems not to care.

I'm worried...what does this mean? Why is lieing easier then telling the truth to her? What do I do about it?

2006-10-25 14:01:39 · 10 answers · asked by bobbesong 1

Everyone was meeting up for a family birthday party. And my mom and sister were making food. They forgot potatoes at the store and hurried to get some. so I was left alone with my sister's husband. I think he had been drinking because he was acting like a fool. And then he tried to kiss me!!! Should I tell my sister?

2006-10-25 13:55:07 · 22 answers · asked by ballonfreaky 1

What do i need to get for baby that i'm going to be a godmother too she was just born last week.

2006-10-25 13:49:17 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-25 13:41:45 · 14 answers · asked by xolollipopxo 2

i cant cope with the thought of never talking to her again,its eating me up..iv had counseling from CRUSE,i feel totally alone and its vile.

2006-10-25 13:40:14 · 21 answers · asked by bongo 2

ok me and my family are in counciling because i got in trouble at skool and it was court ordered do you have any idea why they would send us to family counciling

2006-10-25 13:28:45 · 11 answers · asked by Eeyore398 2

I think I suffer from manic-depressive episodes and on my manic times I can get these grandoise schemes that I can do anything. Is this another stupid idea or is this a rational idea? I can suffer from delusions of grandeur and sometimes I don't have a complete grasp on reality. They have Albert Einsteins books at the library that I can check out and dad isn't using the basement. Plus, I have got like 1400 dollars for the junk yard parts. Should I go to it?

2006-10-25 13:23:31 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

When my mom and step dad had split up in 1998 I was about 14-15 yrs old my mother seemed to verbally and physically abuse me. It would be over the smallest BS and she would talk to me like I was just some broad on the street. Like she'd say come hit me bit*h I will take you out. She would punch me and pull my hair she even grabed a plastic golf club . Once I was on the toilet and she kicked me off on to the floor. She was mad at what my sister told her. Mind you my sister was only 5 at the time so its like how can you believe a 5 yr old. I was always left with red scratch marks and lumps on my head. She would then try and apologize later for it. Anyway, my queestion is how can I let go of this? Im turning 23 and I still think about it, my mother and I are cool and all but my boyfriend said I should confront her on this but I cant due to when I used to tell her how she made me feel from the abuse she'd get it twisted and say she was disciplining me and she would blow up and curse me out

2006-10-25 13:23:19 · 30 answers · asked by K 1

my mom came in my room like 15 min ago and was like if u keep not going ur chores im gonna spank u so i was like ok go away. well im a 13 yr old girl and my mom has never done anything to discipline me like my whole and she thinks that she can just start disciplining now like how is that gonna work. and when u hit a teenager they kinda get more pissed off at u so there would be really no point. i think the reason she is just starting to discipline now is b/c she got a new boyfriend who is really strict and stuff. so ya im getting really pissed off at my mom right now she is really bugging me. like wat can i do to get away from all her nagging and stuff. and is it just me that thinks 13 is a little 2 old to be spanked?

2006-10-25 13:10:50 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-25 13:04:55 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

what would you do if your little cousin has a BRAIN TUMOUR and it's too late too save her! my aunty and her eldest sister is really scared of losing their youngest daughter and sister, who is only 14! the tumour started when she was 10! they want to send her to Germany to a special doctor but the doctors in Sydney and Brisbane have told her that she only has a few months to live I feel strong my my aunty, and two cousins

2006-10-25 13:01:18 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous