I know you won't beleive this, but ......
My gandmother told us all that my grandfather was dead and he had died. We had no idea he was alive and in jail. My sister and I were appalled when he walked into the room today! Later he came out and assulted me! ASSULTED ME - yes, you heard me right! He frickin beat me!
No-one whitnessed it. WHat should i do ?Should it lell my grandmother? or who ?
(i live with my grandmother. tellin my parents aint an option)
2006-10-25 15:35:44 · 12 answers · asked by mejason102 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
This man beat you and your grandmother did not even notice? Was she gone?
I really do not know if it would help you much to tell you grandmother, since she seems to have an apparent issue with stressful situations. She lied to you so she would not have to deal with your grandpa being jailed, so I really do not know if she is able to stand up against anything well.
So, my advice to you is to go to the school counselor, and ask he or she to help you. If you go to church, then go to your pastor.
I am not saying your grandmother does not love you by any means, I am just saying that she may have a problem standing up to a bad situation. So, please do not think she does not care for you.
My heart goes out to you, and you are in my prayers. God bless your life in many ways.
2006-10-25 16:00:54 · answer #1 · answered by wixom62 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, I'm so sorry your grandmother told you your grandfather was dead, but I'm even more sorry that your grandfather assaulted you!!! He had no right to do that to you!!! Are you ok?? Do you need to go to the doctor?? If you aren't feeling well, then you should go. If you have bruises then you need to take photos of the bruises for the police. Since it sounds like your grandmother is trying to protect your grandfather (the jail incident), then I wouldn't tell her, but you DO need to tell someone you can trust....a teacher, a councilor, a parent of friends and or the police!! I'm also sorry that you can't talk to your parents, they are the ones you should be able to lean on the most. You take care and I will be remembering you in my prayers!
2006-10-25 22:54:43 · answer #2 · answered by c's grandma 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Barbiq, tell anyone and everyone that will listen. I grew up in an abusing home and it doesn't need to continue. Tell your friends, family, grandmother (especially) teachers, couselors, neighbors and the police. Something like this will get him sent back and if he is acting this way the first day he is out, he shouldn't be out in the first place!
2006-10-25 23:22:39 · answer #3 · answered by shannon_ida 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your grandmother. she needs to know. If your grandfather assulted you that sounds like a parole violation... he better be careful or he will be going back to the big house!
2006-10-25 22:43:08 · answer #4 · answered by Wyntersmile 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your parents, but it may be hard for them to believe. Thinking your just hillusenating and just in shock because your grandad is alive and not dead
2006-10-25 22:51:20 · answer #5 · answered by Dr. Yasha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your grandmother at once...tell your counslor at school. Tell the police! Tell everyone and anyone that will listen.
2006-10-25 22:39:02 · answer #6 · answered by Barbiq 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell a school counselor or the police.
2006-10-25 22:38:13 · answer #7 · answered by Alessa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call the police NOW !
2006-10-25 22:39:11 · answer #8 · answered by Geedebb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call the police!!!
2006-10-25 22:43:12 · answer #9 · answered by kitkatish1962 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow...u should tell ur grandmother about this...and please get out of that crappy place if you need. Where are ur parents? why cant u move out?
if he is out from jail, he could seriously hurt you...
2006-10-25 22:43:07 · answer #10 · answered by Lambada 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋