As a teenager I was told who my real father was. My father was made aware of my existance a short time later. He and I have talked, but never regularly. Years will go by between talks. We have also never met face to face. He has a family, his wife and my mother went to school together, and they each got pregnant by my father. Again, my mother did not tell him about her being pregnant. Anyhow, he has four other children from the same woman, which would make them my half-brothers and sisters. My oldest sister is only 4 months older than I. I have always been curious about them, wondered what they were like, looked like, etc.
Recently, I found one of my brothers online and contacted him. It has been 3 weeks and he has not replied. Am I wrong for contacting him? I believed they would be just as curious about me. Should I try contacting anyone else? Grandmother, other brother and sister? Why would they not want to meet me? Unfortunately, we can't pick our parents. What do you think?
2006-08-29
05:23:50
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