Family & Relationships - 4 May 2007

He's self conscious of his height and people are staring at him alot. What can I do to ease him. He says he likes being tall but hates the stares. It's not a huge deal but I'd like to help him to make light of it. It's not like some big hurtful thing but it's aggravating for him to deal with. Anyway, now that he's with me, WE get stares and that bugs me. any advice on why this might bother us?

2007-05-04 18:14:26 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

look at wedding dresses in bridal shops, and rings.

Am I crazy, because I'm not married, and or not planning to be.

42 y.o. spinster.

2007-05-04 18:13:06 · 11 answers · asked by * 1 in Weddings

K i will try to make this short...i broke up with my ex 3 years ago. I met a great man and since recently broken up with him as well. i have 4 children with my first ex, and one with my last... After a bitter custody battle with my first ex (i was with for 9 years) i got custody and became amicable with him and his girlfriend. I am still somewhat involved with my recent ex (still see him everyday, talk all the time) Recently my first ex has been making comments, trying to grab my ***, saying he wants to sleep with me, he thinks of me when hes having sex with her (his girlfriend) This started when she was pregnant with his baby whos now 2 months old and hes still doing it.

To be clear i have NO interest in him sexually or romantically, i still love my recent ex..but i wonder if i should say something to her (his girlfriend) I dont want to start something and ruin the civil relationship we all have but its driving me mad how do i approach it and still keep the peace?

2007-05-04 18:12:28 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

this certain person has been living in my house going on 3 yrs and has not paid any bills since they have been there but they thinks that they can tell me about my own house me and my husband pay all the bills in the house but they wants to sit around and do nothing all day long and on top of that they have 2 kids that are living with us and they dont want to clean up behind themselves or their kids. But they are my best friend but im getting tired of having to come home from school and work and have to cook and clean and everything else. i really dont want to put them out due to the fact the kids are my niece and nephew but im tired sick and tired.

2007-05-04 18:11:55 · 23 answers · asked by mz.koffee 1 in Family

I have had problems with my MIL in the past interferring into my business, but now I feel I need to interject my opinion in something that she is doing. My MIL's mother was hospitalized with kidney failure and heart congestion about a month ago. She is doing a lot better thanks be to God. The problem is my MIL is 62 years old and likes to party. Tonight she called my husband up to watch his grandmother so she can get out and go partying. My husband is disabled and if anything were to happen to his grandmother (i.e. her falling out of bed, she need to go to the bathroom) he would not be able to help her or even lift her. My husband will not be able to call me if anything happed. We have a long distant number. I went to check up on them and his granny was very upset that her daughter had left her knowing that my husband was disabled and unable to really tend to her. She doesn't want me at the house we don't get along. What can we do to set my MIL straight about responsibilities

2007-05-04 18:09:29 · 10 answers · asked by Gypsy 2 in Family

I have had problems with my MIL in the past interferring into my business, but now I feel I need to interject my opinion in something that she is doing. My MIL's mother was hospitalized with kidney failure and heart congestion about a month ago. She is doing a lot better thanks be to God. The problem is my MIL is 62 years old and likes to party. Tonight she called my husband up to watch his grandmother so she can get out and go partying. My husband is disabled and if anything were to happen to his grandmother (i.e. her falling out of bed, she need to go to the bathroom) he would not be able to help her or even lift her. My husband will not be able to call me if anything happed. We have a long distant number. I went to check up on them and his granny was very upset that her daughter had left her knowing that my husband was disabled and unable to really tend to her. She doesn't want me at the house we don't get along. What can we do to set my MIL straight about responsibilities

2007-05-04 18:08:38 · 5 answers · asked by Gypsy 2 in Family

I've been talking to this woman in a moms cafe and I just found out that her husband was the guy I lost my virginity to in high school because of a picture she emailed to me. I now feel kind of weird talking to her, especially since not even a month ago he told me that he wished that we were together. After that I cut all ties with him because I am happily married. What would you do?

2007-05-04 18:05:46 · 10 answers · asked by Becks6 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am 19 and I have a boyfriend of a month 3 weeks and 3 days now we live about an hr apart. We didnt get to talk much the past few weeks cuz he was working a lot and bc I was at the hospital with my grandpa. Well we finally started talking again 2 nights ago. He told me that he missed me a lot and he said that he was so afraid he is gonna lose me. I promised him with all my heart I wasnt going to leave him. We have both been hurt a lot in the past and I believe I am in love with him but I dont have the guts to tell him cuz I want him to feel the same way and I want him to tell me first. Then question I have is what can I do or what can I say to show him that he is the only one I want to be with and to let him know he is not gonna lose me? I always tell him I am not going anywhere no matter what. I really like him a lot and I dont want to lose him. So what can I say or do to show him that he is not going to lose me??

2007-05-04 18:05:08 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we have been together for six years, and no matter how much i try to be close to his kids, they just hate me and my kids who happen to be their half-brothers. my boyfriend earns not even half the amount i'm earning, and i'm usually the 1 spending for us. He's such a jealous person that i cant even do anything productive because i cant go out without him. And if i break up with him, he threatens to harm me or my kids thats why i'm still stuck in this relationship..

2007-05-04 18:04:40 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

pretty much of all my friends are girls, not cause im a fan of the ladies, but cause i relate to them more. Guys are just sort of heartless to me.
Anyways, Im going to Japan soon to see my girlfriend, but she works on weekends all day. So i wont have anything to do all weekend. So I plan to go visit my friends in Japan (which are girls). But my girlfriend gets a wee bit jealous when i mention my friends.
So how can i reasure her that they are ONLY friends and nothing more...and how can i guy have a girlfriend and friends as girls at the same time? And how can i go see my friends and not have her be jealous?

Thanks for your input

2007-05-04 18:03:57 · 7 answers · asked by Japan_is_home 5 in Singles & Dating

Every time I have plans to go out with my family or friends he will find something else for himself to do so he wont have to watch our son.

Last Wensday I made plans with my sister to go out on Saturday and I told him about my plans that day also asked him to watch our son, and I believe on wensday he said ok.

Last night He was talking to his Grandma on the phone and told her that he would be going to his dad's to work in the shop on Saturday.
And when I told him I had plans already to get out with my sister he ignored me.

Tomorrow is Saturday and I don't know what I should do!
I want to go out with my sister since it has been 4 years since we have hang out alone without my son

But I don't know what to say to my husband
He always says I boss him around too much but is asking really bossing around?
He usually gets his way by myself giving in or he will just leave.

Should I just call his father and tell him that I already had plans and he can still go if he takes our son?

2007-05-04 18:02:47 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

He's a jerk for not paying for his 3 kids and his exwife barely makes it without the money every month so I want him to pay what hes suppose to, what can I say to make him do it?

2007-05-04 18:01:12 · 12 answers · asked by David 3 in Marriage & Divorce

1. we keep giving deep stare at each other even we are not talking for like 4 seconds (we do this occasionally)
2.she makes eye contact with me when we i am talking.
3.she laugh and smile at my corny stupid joke and remarks.
4.i did something nice to her and she said "thank you" and she were smiling and gazing at me for like 5 seconds.
5.she likes when i hold her hand by giving me a giggle or smile

2007-05-04 18:00:07 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok I was in a customer service situation with this guy (I was the customer). He gave me a few compliments (he liked my new hair color, he was impressed that I could pronounce a big word on the first try, he complimented a picture of me), he seemed a bit nervous, and he remembered me from a previous conversation we had several months ago. I watched him to see how he interacted with other females, but only saw him speak with males, with which he seemed very friendly. So, was he flirting with me? I'm sooo ignorant about these things.

2007-05-04 17:59:23 · 5 answers · asked by god_chic 5 in Singles & Dating

I am a senior guy in highschool and there is this freshmen girl that seems to like me.We have been talking and stuff but the only thing stopping me from maybe getting serious is the 3-year age difference...Her mother and younger siblings seem to see nothing strange in us hanging out, haven't met the father though haha.So what should I do?Should I just be friends with her and not go out with her since I am going 2 1/2 hours away to college in the fall?

2007-05-04 17:56:39 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My mother in law passed away in January, when that happened my husband and I inherited his sister. She is mentally retarded and schitzophrenic, with paranoid delusions. I am really afraid that she is going to destroy my marriage. We have only been married for 2 1/2 years. I love him very much, but since he works 12 hours a day on midnights, and sleeps all day, he really doesn't have any idea how much work she is. She obsessess about everything, this week she is convinced she has a urinary tract infection, the doctor couldn't find anything wrong with her. Yet I have to hear about it every 10 minutes. She is 47 years old, but she acts like she is 12. My husband thinks I need to get a job, but he wouldn't get any sleep if I did. She wakes me up 4-5 times every night obsessing about some physical ailment that is not there.

Worse yet, mom never had her declared as a dependant adult, so we get no financial or medical help for her. We are now drowning in debt from her bills.

2007-05-04 17:54:22 · 5 answers · asked by Jinny E 5 in Family

My best friend Kellie is dating my ex Jeremy, He was the hottest guy ever! I dated him for 6 months until now because he used to trap me in the closet (school closet) & touch me in places I dont want to talk about. Remember Im only 13 & he was 14. I am so worried about her because she has been coming to my house & crying with bruises on her face & body, she said he molested her & beat her when she tried to get away from him! I don't know what to do for her shes scared to dump him because if she does he'll beat her again!
PLZ help!

2007-05-04 17:50:06 · 36 answers · asked by NeeNee 1 in Singles & Dating

I dont know wheather to be happy for her or not. I dont like my sister but yet, shes leaving the house.

2007-05-04 17:48:29 · 20 answers · asked by Hina S 1 in Weddings

2007-05-04 17:44:40 · 2 answers · asked by Soft Heart 6 in Family

2007-05-04 17:39:44 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

how safe it is??is it neccessary to share snaps at 1st time itself or discourge him/heror after seeing the snaps only u should chat??

2007-05-04 17:37:34 · 2 answers · asked by Soft Heart 6 in Singles & Dating

I need some major help!!! I'm getting married and I'm having a hard time finding beautiful centerpieces. My dress will obviously be white and i was thinking that my brides maids will wear a champaign color. I want beautiful flowers and candels to set a romantic, simple yet elegant style/feel.

I need help finding centerpieces and also other ideas on colors for my brides maids!!! Thanks for the help!!!

2007-05-04 17:21:52 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

If you saw a pregnant lady would you be turned off or on???would you date a single pregnant lady??I fear I will be single for awhile...i just found out i was pregnant and me and my husband planned this baby and last minute he said abortion or he was gone.what is up with that?i just would like to know your opinions

2007-05-04 17:20:04 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-05-04 17:17:52 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

get back to sleep. She was killed instantly when a drunk driver crossed the center line and hit her head-on. It's been devestating. I had a dream one night, well, I thought it was another dream anyway, and I swear I felt cold hands on my ankles, it woke me up. Nothing was there but I know what I felt too. I felt so strange that night. We used to joke with each other that we'd haunt the other of something ever happened to one of us. I had a dream another night and it was like a conversation we actually had one time, like it was happening all over again, what we'd talked about, which was about the choice of being burried or cremated, were she said she wanted to be cremated, which she was actually. What do you think these dreams mean? I miss her so much, she was my very best friend.

2007-05-04 17:16:32 · 12 answers · asked by Wutz it worth 2 ya? 6 in Friends

2007-05-04 17:08:02 · 4 answers · asked by Wendy G 1 in Family

If I think I shouldv'e kissed a girl after our first date but didn't should I text her goodnight or somethin to let her know I'm still interested? I just got back from it so I don't wanna seem desperate but I really like her. I'm 17 btw

2007-05-04 16:58:12 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If my female friend is drunk and trying to kiss me when I am sober, would it be wrong for me to let her kiss me?

I am sort of curious, but I think since she is drunk I should say no.

2007-05-04 16:54:08 · 16 answers · asked by Susan 5 in Singles & Dating

i bought this beauitful wedding dress...its a size 14 and it has never been worn before ..it still has its tags on it...but my wedding plans change and i really want to sell it...someone help and i have already tried to sell it on ebay and no one bought it plzz help

2007-05-04 16:50:34 · 10 answers · asked by Zina 1 in Weddings

I have snuck out and gone before without them knowing but I would have more fun if I wasn't worried about getting caught.

2007-05-04 16:45:35 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family