I am 19 and I have a boyfriend of a month 3 weeks and 3 days now we live about an hr apart. We didnt get to talk much the past few weeks cuz he was working a lot and bc I was at the hospital with my grandpa. Well we finally started talking again 2 nights ago. He told me that he missed me a lot and he said that he was so afraid he is gonna lose me. I promised him with all my heart I wasnt going to leave him. We have both been hurt a lot in the past and I believe I am in love with him but I dont have the guts to tell him cuz I want him to feel the same way and I want him to tell me first. Then question I have is what can I do or what can I say to show him that he is the only one I want to be with and to let him know he is not gonna lose me? I always tell him I am not going anywhere no matter what. I really like him a lot and I dont want to lose him. So what can I say or do to show him that he is not going to lose me??
2007-05-04 18:05:08 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Spend more time with him doing things he likes to do!
2007-05-04 18:08:19 · answer #1 · answered by red2queen 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think it´s too early in the relationship to start with the i love you exchange. You are way too young and he is probably the first love you are having in your life. I wonder why he is so afraid of losing you if from what i read you are most likely showing him unconditional love.
Have you think about writing him a letter or doing something special for him like a scrapbook with pictures of you both where you can write some poems (google them) about eternal love or something like that? Maybe if you give him something like that he will get the hint and will sooth his heart knowing that you really mean that you love him.
2007-05-05 01:10:14 · answer #2 · answered by Stephanie F 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Relationships are like elevators...they go up and down. Yours sounds like it is moving up. Great. I understand your concerns and that they are real. So are his concerns. The best thing the two of you can do is talk about them. Ask him how he feels and tell him how you feel. The most important thing you can do in any relationship is communicate. If you don't communicate yo don't kl now what the other is thinking or why...since neither of you is a mind reader. So talk. Tell him what you are thinking and ask what he is thinking. And feeling. Good luck.
2007-05-05 01:12:53 · answer #3 · answered by judgebill 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is difficult, you need to give it time, but keep telling him that, really show him...But it is up to you to find it in your heart the answer to that.
Good luck
2007-05-05 01:08:37 · answer #4 · answered by Japan_is_home 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
time is the only thing that will prove this to him . Talk as always is cheap.
2007-05-05 01:09:30 · answer #5 · answered by setter505 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if his afraid his gonna lose u than that settles it he loves u.so tell him that u love him.
2007-05-05 01:09:12 · answer #6 · answered by The Samster 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
take turns going to see each other
2007-05-05 01:08:53 · answer #7 · answered by thickness 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
do nothing n watch
2007-05-05 01:21:44 · answer #8 · answered by D Dude 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
what's that ? I fell asleep ?
2007-05-05 01:07:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋