Family & Relationships - 6 April 2007

you have a friend, and you began to like that close friend.
would you tell her that you are falling in love with her and risk destroying your friendship or keep it to yourself and be just friends with her.

2007-04-06 04:01:25 · 4 answers · asked by †_† 2 in Friends

2007-04-06 03:59:20 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-06 03:56:59 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I had a big argueement with my parents and they went out now and I want to make it up to them cuz I really am sorry. What can I do???

2007-04-06 03:55:52 · 11 answers · asked by cat_lover 3 in Family

2007-04-06 03:53:58 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He's paying a monthly amount plus additional toward an arrears balance. But he believes that she is looking to garnish from my paycheck as well. The reason being that she is obsessed with getting the physical insurance card for their daughter from him. What kind of information does she need to be able to dip into my income? Why else would she need to have a copy of our insurance card?

2007-04-06 03:53:35 · 19 answers · asked by Sweet Belly 2 in Marriage & Divorce

At times it could be rough, but we have made our union last through love, understanding, respect and so much more.
What makes your marriage stand the test of time?

2007-04-06 03:53:34 · 12 answers · asked by rockrib2000 2 in Marriage & Divorce

her that you would like this that way and how often? do you feel comfortable when your girl tells you what she needs from you and how and when and where?

2007-04-06 03:50:35 · 6 answers · asked by MJ 6 in Singles & Dating

Couple go into jewellers
He quite old, she young dolly bird.
They look at all sorts of items. The old man watching the young womans reactions.
The jeweller brings out a tray of diamond rings.
Her face lights up the shop.
"Go on try on whatever you like" says the old man.
She tries on a massive ring and shows the old man."This is loverlee" she says.
"How much" says the old man.
"£45,000" replies the jeweller.
"Does it fit properly" says old man to young lady.
"Fits just perfect" she replies.
Turning to the jeweller the man says "If I write you a cheque now can we come in and pick up the ring after the weekend"
"Of course you can I will ring you as soon as I hear from your bank about the finances"


On Monday morning the old man gets a phone call.
"That cheque bounced and the bank says your account is overdrawn" says the jeweller.

"Yes I know" The man replies.
"Can you just imagine what sort of weekend I have had"

2007-04-06 03:48:25 · 16 answers · asked by Spike 3 in Weddings

I have been married for 26 years. We never had a tradional marriage. He works nights I worked day no vacations ect. We have different bills that we pay ect. No joint accounts. I got behind in my bills after we had children and he did not help much and when I asked 4 money he got upset. I never asked just got a little more in debt. Now I have ask him for divorce and he cried, told me he could not live without me..Then he told me he had no where to go and now we are broke because he had to give me money to help get me out of debt. After asking him for a divorce he is now nice and ect. But I feel I no longer have any feelings for him and the way he was before I can't forget. I had my problems mostly with money I paid some bills out of his account without him knowing. I know I shouldn't have but I did. He has 2 boats and trailers ect. I have clothes and car (it least that is how it feels). Should I go knowing how hard he is trying now or should I go and be happy. So guilty

2007-04-06 03:47:05 · 24 answers · asked by shelly s 1 in Marriage & Divorce

When a guy 'enters' you..does that mean,that you are no longer are a virgin?Does that mean you had sex?If he only entered once,or twice?And moving up and down twice??A quick up and down,and nothing more??Can you get pregnant like this??

Im confused..

2007-04-06 03:46:30 · 19 answers · asked by justwan2know... 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been acquainted with someone for 4 months.
We talk on the phone, go places, and have sex.
He tells me he does not want to rush, and just to have fun, get to know me to let things happen naturally
I would like to know if I am wasting my time on this man. I know none of his family. I just met his mom 2 weeks ago.And just became known to his friends less than a month ago (supposedly)
He came out of a 8 year relationship and been single for 3 years. What is the problem. I am tired of hearing this (let's have fun thing) (I need to get to know you) The situation is strange. He does not like when I ask questions about us. He does not like to hear of other men. Sometimes I say that since we are just friends, we can still date other people, he does not like that.

He said that I ruined the surprise of him asking me to be his girl on my birthday in May. I think that is crock of crap. I think he just made that up to make the situation at the moment better.

How can you not know me enough to commit to me? You have sex with me, say you have unconditional love for and in love with me. Confusion HERE

2007-04-06 03:45:37 · 6 answers · asked by peaches7160 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-06 03:41:08 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-06 03:40:26 · 17 answers · asked by Reo 5 in Marriage & Divorce

While we dated in high school, my hubby cheated on me and completely broke my heart. He even lost his virginity to her, when he and I were planning to get married and only be with each other. Since then we've reconciled he's apologized and proved to me that he's learned from his mistake.
But I still hold a grudge. I don't mean to, but it was so painful at the time that I still hurt over it sometimes. How can I finally let go of it all?

2007-04-06 03:39:47 · 27 answers · asked by Eowyn 5 in Marriage & Divorce

should she just let them work this out on there own for her own sake? is this the right thing? the other parent is suspicious but we are not sure if she isn t ready to know?

2007-04-06 03:38:40 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My Grandma died a few days ago, and we don't live in the same country as her, but I was very close to her. My parents are sad, but I still don't beileve it. It just feels like a normal day... How can I just accept her passing?

2007-04-06 03:37:31 · 20 answers · asked by :) 2 in Family

i live in wi with my 9 month old daughter jazsmin and i do work but these people keep slamming me with different things eviction after eviction finally i got them to settle down till this week when they gave me pay rent of 540 or move by april 9 2007 i only have 400 dollars and i have no were to go they usually allow you to be late but all of a sudden its not allowed and they did not give us warning they want me out. i got no where to go with my daughter. Im trying so hard to keep it together for the sake of her but the bills keep flyin at me daycare and electric rent diapers formula its overwhelming im a single mom. and ready to give up. but i love jazsmin my daughter to much.

2007-04-06 03:37:12 · 12 answers · asked by Tonya C 1 in Family

Do you think a husband should have other responsibilities other than bringing a paycheck home? What would you do if that is all he will do?

2007-04-06 03:35:09 · 33 answers · asked by whispers 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Channeling?
Communication with the dead?
Psychic help.

2007-04-06 03:35:08 · 9 answers · asked by twinkle 2 in Marriage & Divorce

okay, me and my hubby have been going to marriage counsling for 2 months now, and these past two days i could tell he was tense so i have let him be, but then last night about 10 he hadnt came to bed yet for the second night in a row, so i came down stairs and he said he was going to take a shower and come to bed, well i said u know what with it bein so late why dont u just sleep down stairs, i didnt think he would actually do it. so i started taking to him, and like i said we have been having trouble, well a few days ago i had mentioned maybe doing a trial seperation, but i didnt meen it, i was just talking to see what he would say. well, he never did say anything well then all of the suden last night, he said i thought u wanted to do a trial seperation. and i said where did tha come from? and he said well u r the one who said it, and i told him that i was just talking and didnt meen it, and he told me that he thought it would be a good idea. i was shocked,

2007-04-06 03:34:49 · 14 answers · asked by greengrass 3 in Singles & Dating

my ex and i filed taxes as married for two years in texas (this happened about 5 or 6 years ago) and have never gotten an actual marriage certificate...are we considered married? we have been broken up and all that for about 4 years now. i would really like to know if i need to get a divorce or not. i spoke to 2 lawyers and one said yes and the other said no....so i'm kind of confused....i know common law was abolished in both tx and ok....but do i still need a divorce?

2007-04-06 03:22:57 · 15 answers · asked by living_dead_sandra 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been cing the same guy 4 10 months now. Weren't exclusive but 4 the last 3 mos. he says he hasn't been sleeping with other women. He told me last night that I was the main woman in his life & that he wanted to give me some advice if he was going 2 stay w/ me. He asked me to not call him more than once a day. He told me to stop asking him about the other women, although he told me he doesn't want me with another man. He told me that I've been this distraction to him, because I'm trying to help him with his crummy situation. He said he doesn't want to talk to me everyday, so I should leave a message & if he doesn't call me back it's because he doesn't feel like it. He comes to my house everyday to take a shower because he doesn't have any running water at home. He was so mean & so cruel & in so many words he told me that I was a convenient situation & that he was basically using me. He said I stole my position with him & that I didn't earn.

2007-04-06 03:20:01 · 8 answers · asked by geminig 1 in Singles & Dating

I am having a mild flirtation with someone I occassionally work with. He relayed parts of a conversation I had with him to another collegue I was having problems with and I got angry and shouted at him. He reckons he was trying to help, but truth be told he is well known for being a bit of a gossip.
Anyway, I called a couple of days ago to sort it out and he said he would come and meet me. He didnt get back to me and when I called him again he swore it wasnt the brush off he was just still weirded out by the whole thing. Then he added he was free all weekend, why doesnt he give me a call when he finishes work today - that was now 2 hours ago - and we will meet up. I did say before if he doesnt call me it's cool and I can take the hint.
I should really shouldnt I!?!

2007-04-06 03:17:35 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

dependent on her husband for financial support and not want to better herself with a job or education. I just dont get it.

2007-04-06 03:12:39 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We have just been given a BIG contract in New Orleans. It is at least a year long, maybe two. I am in SC with my daughter. He is currently looking for us a house there, so that we can join him at the end of the school year.

My family is NOT going to like me moving there. It is far away from GA and they think it is a dangerous city. (We will be living in another parish outside of New Orleans).
Any ideas on how to make all this easier? Easier on my family and my daughter?

2007-04-06 03:11:10 · 14 answers · asked by Hot Momma 4 in Marriage & Divorce

OK so this guy and I have been seeing each other on and off for the past two and a half years. Well we finally had a falling out last summer and didn't talk for months. At Christmas we found our way back to each other. We spent every minute together. I go to college and he doesn't, which is really a bummer and he lives with his mom, who takes care of his kids. Yes I know you are thinking "what a winner" but he makes me feel like no one else has. I come from more of the higher class family and he is more toward the lower in. I guess I feel like I can help him. I spent thousands of dollars on us for vacation, a month after that he broke it off...he said he wasn't ready for a real relationship right now..but a week later he was with this other girl saying how much he loved her. And that has really taken a toll on me. I just wonder did he do this cause he knows that I deserve better and that he isn't right for me or did he do this cause he really doesn't love me?

2007-04-06 03:06:44 · 7 answers · asked by Dekota 1 in Singles & Dating

How do you deal with a mother who makes you feel guilty about leaving a man you're involved with? We've been together for almost four years now and we share a child in common. I'm terribly mistreated to say the least. She's aware of his past but doesn't want to hear how bad the problem has become. I'm told that I should stay and try to work things out for the sake of our child. What can I do to convince my mother that moving on with my life is the best decision for me and my child?

2007-04-06 02:58:45 · 18 answers · asked by aka_emt332 2 in Marriage & Divorce

what do girls look for in guys?

2007-04-06 02:55:29 · 7 answers · asked by pembertonkaleem 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-04-06 02:41:25 · 8 answers · asked by FiNaL_Call_ Girly 1 in Singles & Dating