I am having a mild flirtation with someone I occassionally work with. He relayed parts of a conversation I had with him to another collegue I was having problems with and I got angry and shouted at him. He reckons he was trying to help, but truth be told he is well known for being a bit of a gossip.
Anyway, I called a couple of days ago to sort it out and he said he would come and meet me. He didnt get back to me and when I called him again he swore it wasnt the brush off he was just still weirded out by the whole thing. Then he added he was free all weekend, why doesnt he give me a call when he finishes work today - that was now 2 hours ago - and we will meet up. I did say before if he doesnt call me it's cool and I can take the hint.
I should really shouldnt I!?!
2007-04-06 03:17:35 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am sorry but yes, I think you should take the hint.
2007-04-06 03:21:24 · answer #1 · answered by cccccrazy 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you sound despirate by calling so much. Give the guy some room. He will call if he's interested. In the meantime have fun, keep busy and don't "wait" for him.
ever hear of the term "play hard to get" well it works alot of the time.
The guy Im with we went out 1 time, I gave him my number and he gave me his. I didn't call him and 1 week went buy and he called me, he asked me why I didn't call, I told him, Im a busy gal. (really i wasn't) He said that was cool, we went out again and 5 years later, were still together. Til this day, he told me that because I wasn't "So available to him, it made him want me more".
2007-04-06 03:25:11 · answer #2 · answered by 2shay 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't even given him a second thought; you know? I've worked with people like him, and they're more trouble than they're worth. It sounds like you can't trust him, if he's good at babbling other peoples information to others, that's a bad sign. I had someone do that to me at work, and it came back to me, so I wrote the person off. He's brushed you off, so I'd def move on. The reason I say that is, if he does it once, he'll do it again =(
2007-04-06 03:22:58 · answer #3 · answered by suzlaa1971 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Answered the question with a question Yes take the hint don`t waste your call time & enjoy the weekend without worrying about the gossip guy.
2007-04-06 04:39:02 · answer #4 · answered by edison 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-26 22:39:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should take the call if it comes, but you should not be consumed by the thought of , will it come!!! Who wants a liar? It could very well be the best thing that "never" happened to you! Realize that it is what it is and it ain't what it ain't. Him not calling could be the best thing for all involved.
2007-04-06 03:26:56 · answer #6 · answered by 2be4real 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He isn't going to call. Never date the shop gossip. All your relationship troubles and intimate past will be told to every body! This dude ain't worth your time! Hes a jerk!
2007-04-06 03:22:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He hasn`t called you coz he`s too busy gossipin about you ! Again ! I would go round there and ram that damn phone up his left nostril an ask him hows he gonna chat to all his gossipy friends now eh ? !
( hands on your hips of course as you say it.....)
2007-04-06 03:24:11 · answer #8 · answered by yahoobloo 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let it go, have a lovely free Easter weekend without stressing. Go out enjoy yourself, don't think about him. I know its hard, be strong
2007-04-06 03:57:42 · answer #9 · answered by fishionuk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You put out didn't you? The only hint there is to take is that he wants one thing from you and it sounds like he already got it.
2007-04-06 03:22:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋