Family & Relationships - 28 March 2007

my 14 year old wants to know and i need a good way to explain it

2007-03-28 06:08:54 · 36 answers · asked by Brooke_C 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-28 06:08:43 · 13 answers · asked by mister menner 1 in Singles & Dating

My hubby and i have been married almost 4.5 yrs and i am 23 yrs old he is 29.We were seperated for 8 months due to fighting i felt he was pressuring me to become pregnant and a stay at home mom which i was not ready for at all.During the seperation i started seeing my ex.bf and first everything from highschool. I only dated 3 guys before my hubby but always seem to go back to my first bf for booty calls or flings even though now we are both married to different people(he is a newly wed).Any way i just found out i am 4 months pregnant but my hubby and i did not get back together till 2 months ago?I love my hubby and dont know what to do?Dont want to hurt him so i am thinking maybe to just pass it off as his?

2007-03-28 06:08:16 · 27 answers · asked by Jackie B 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-28 06:07:38 · 7 answers · asked by unverified 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm making a slide show for my best friend's wedding, and I'm looking for ideas for songs to put the pictures to. They have been dating since age 15, so there are almost 10 years worth of pictures. Songs about "Young Love" would be nice. Thanks for the ideas!

2007-03-28 06:07:03 · 15 answers · asked by YoMamma 2 in Weddings

My daughter hasn't seen her dad since she was 4.Her father has a finace that has child that he lives with in another state. I don't think he is a bad person I am just not sure I should let my daughter visit ebing so young and so far away from me. He doesn't call me regularly and he doesn't finically support her, but I want her to know both sides of her famil. And if I do decided to let her go how long should the visit be?

2007-03-28 06:06:28 · 20 answers · asked by MiZZ707 2 in Family

1st off I know I need to go find me a single man.One of my married friends helps me out with bills& whatever else I need. we have been together for over five years.he is an older man & very insecure. He works from 12to11pm with two part time jobs. i work from 9to5pm.i can't see him that often except on weekends when I don't have my son. The other friend messed up with his wife and got kicked out 4 going to jail 4 child support on a woman he was with four years ago. He has been with me for 2wks now. He got his job back and im sure he needs that money to get his car out of impound from when he got pulled over and went straight to jail 4 the child support.Then he would have to save to get an apartment.right now he is stuck trying to figure out weather he should keep helping home out if there is a possible chance of them getting back together or take his retirement check& face her in court for what will be half hers after its over. he could be homeless& jobless if it were not 4 me.

2007-03-28 06:06:19 · 24 answers · asked by Diamondbch 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Im 14

2007-03-28 06:06:13 · 22 answers · asked by Katja ie tattybow 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm 45 years old and have been dating my boyfriend for almost 2 years. I knew when I met him his mother was moving in with him. After 2 years, the time has come for mom to move in. I feel very awkward about it. I feel like they are setting up house together, when he and I should be doing that.
He says he wants to spend the rest of his life with me, but do I wait 5 to 10 years for that to happen? or might happen?
I just know I could never live with he and his mom.

2007-03-28 06:05:56 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am a 26 yr old female and i am dating a 32 yr old male. we have been together for almost a yr and a half now. i love him to pieces!! however, there is one concern, our lack of intimacy. we have issues with showing one another that we are "in the mood", one being in the mood and other not, or we plan to have sex and then never do becuz something comes up. no pun intended. we can go for 2-3 wks without having sex. and it doesnt seem to bother him. but it bothers me. am i doing something wrong? am i not good enough? is he interested/repulsed?
i would just like to add that when we do have sex, it feels great, the emotion is there, love, caressing, kissing, exotic, all of it and we make sure that the other is satisfied completely.
so what the heck is going on??????????

2007-03-28 06:04:58 · 21 answers · asked by sabylady 1 in Singles & Dating

What ways can i turn a girl on?

2007-03-28 06:02:46 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i think it was a one time thing but i want to know what i can do to prevent it from happening again ,but i dont want my partner to know

2007-03-28 06:02:36 · 19 answers · asked by bellybean 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

We have been together for 6 1/2 years altogether 4 at the start and 2 1/2 since I came back from working overseas. I know thats a long time without getting married but we had never talked about it or anything but about a year ago that changed.
She started to mention it and then she asked me which I made an excuse to put off but after 9 months of pressure and her crying about it I gave in but said I wanted a long engagement and we wouldnt get married for a long time. That was only 4 weeks ago but already our moms and her have started planning it and trying to get me to agree to dates and stuff.
Our moms are childhood friends and I have known my fiancee all my life and its gonna cause alot of problems but I need to stop this wedding but i dont want to break up with her..I will lose someone else very close to me if I cant get this wedding stopped.
I want things to stay as they are I dont want all this.

What can I do.

Serious answers only please.

2007-03-28 06:02:21 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Okay so i was adopted. My parents couldn't take care of me when i was born so my aunt and uncle adopted me. Now my real dad is in the hospital. My mom wants me to meet him. I want to meet him but i have no idea what to say or do. I'm only thirteen and i would meet him with my brother, although he's in Iraq so i have to meet my dad by myself. I don't know what to say to him. I'm only going to meet him for a short period time at his hospital bed. What should i say? Should i bring him flowers, or would that seem like i'm trying to hard. Has anyone ever been in a situation like this? please help!! i'm meeting him today! thanks so much=)

2007-03-28 06:02:13 · 10 answers · asked by Emmie 3 in Friends

Then a few months later he tells me he doesn't love me. And I find out he is talking to her online all the time. We struggle for a couple of months and go to counseling not sure if we are going to stay married. He says it is all my fault because I spent all of our money and we are in financial debt because of me and that is why he doesn't love me, and that him not loving me anymore has nothing to do with this woman--she is just someone to talk to about all the issues we are having. In the end he decides that he wants to stay married to me, and we work it out with some counseling. Things are good now- but the thing that bugs me is that I consider what he did an affair. He does not consider it an affair because there was no sex. He is sorry he told me he didn't love me, but he never will admit that what he did was an affair, an never said he is sorry for it, and says he was mad at me for spending our money and that it was my fault. Would you consider this an affair?

2007-03-28 06:02:12 · 14 answers · asked by Audrey C 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I don't like feeling this way. I really want to work things out but I can't help feeling like the only way to deal with it is to leave.

2007-03-28 06:00:38 · 29 answers · asked by sugarplum 3 in Marriage & Divorce

We love each other so much. even said we would marry and run away together. weve loved each other since year 7 and not had the guts to tell each other. 3 years later in year 10 we finally got together. that was september 06. we dont argue and think exactly alike. we are the perfect couple BUT!!!

when we are together everything is great. but things seem too much to handle and we break up. (not because weve fallen out or anything)

then not so long later we realise that being friends isnt a good enough thrill. so we get back together.

ITS AN ENDLESS CYCLE!!!!!!!!

we realy do love each other but cant settle down what should we do.
between you and me. i want to keep them. :'(

2007-03-28 05:59:47 · 27 answers · asked by Boy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok so my friend Ozzy, we are both ın 8th grade and at the start of 7th grade ı always folowed hım around and he dıdnt really apprıceat me! So at the start of 8th ı let go and saıd sorry but ıv been ur frıend for lıke 1 year and u hardly call 2 say hı or ınvıte me 2 anythıng and ı do! So ı forgopt about hım and ı startred 2 dıslıke hım and then he saıd sorry and started 2 cry and so ı saıd ok but 1 last chance so now hes doıng the same thıng!!! and ım so pıssed because ı spent my tıme wıd hım when ı could have went and got new frıends ım so sad what should ı do =(

2007-03-28 05:59:28 · 7 answers · asked by Nerdy Ned 1 in Friends

Do women still find men in their 40's physically attractive? He stays fit .....exercises, watches what he eats

2007-03-28 05:58:51 · 22 answers · asked by Mike N 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Is it ok to have a bridal shower at the same place that you are having your wedding reception?

2007-03-28 05:58:41 · 10 answers · asked by soon2bmrs 2 in Weddings

2007-03-28 05:58:38 · 10 answers · asked by Jeanette A 1 in Friends

2007-03-28 05:58:07 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-28 05:57:52 · 9 answers · asked by linda c 1 in Singles & Dating

what exactly does that mean?? is there a difference? thanks

2007-03-28 05:56:58 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am a single parent with 3 teenagers age 20,19 and 18 and i can not get them to get a job or continue there education ( all hs grads ) what should i do ..

2007-03-28 05:56:46 · 13 answers · asked by enedeliagrc 1 in Family

see my parents and i arent really close, we dont say i love you, or sorry, or give each other hugs, dont get me wrong i love them, but i just dont know how to tell them i knocked my girl up, please help

2007-03-28 05:55:37 · 31 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

dunno what to tell her.i just respect whatever se says even if it was criticism......i am 18 and dunno how to just stop mom from giving me lectures like am 15 yr old.
She respects the youngest person in her family who is 7 yr old kid (her nephew) but not me.How to react or what to say but with respect.

2007-03-28 05:55:15 · 4 answers · asked by Natasha 1 in Family

i want nice good freinds for freindly chat

2007-03-28 05:55:07 · 5 answers · asked by Mr Guy 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

No matter what I do online, a guy messages me saying he wants to "play with me" and wants me to do stuff for him on my webcam. I have yet to meet a guy online who doesn't want my body! They take one look at my pictures and automaticly think that i'm wanting sex. Why is that?? Does anyone know where I can find a decent guy that doesn't want sex from me??

2007-03-28 05:55:05 · 30 answers · asked by xxBeastlyBrixx 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i want nice good freinds for freindly chat

2007-03-28 05:54:49 · 9 answers · asked by Mr Guy 1 in Friends