No matter what I do online, a guy messages me saying he wants to "play with me" and wants me to do stuff for him on my webcam. I have yet to meet a guy online who doesn't want my body! They take one look at my pictures and automaticly think that i'm wanting sex. Why is that?? Does anyone know where I can find a decent guy that doesn't want sex from me??
2007-03-28 05:55:05 · 30 answers · asked by xxBeastlyBrixx 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
first, the guys u talk with on the Internet, are guys that do not have friends and girlfriend, so they have to go on the net. Do not try to meet someone on-line, I had a friend who did that... And men have a need for expanding their gens that comes from looong time ago... just look animals, why do they have fights before mating, only the strongest survive- or should I say their gens. everyone wants the enlargement of their gens, their blood. U probably wont find this interesting, but I can't explain it all for u, read a book, watch some documentaries, that's how I know this, remember, those are things implanted in people, and u can't fight that. And DON'T look for guys on the net, go to the park or somewhere like that, I'm sure you'll find someone...
2007-03-28 06:05:39 · answer #1 · answered by Joka B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's just the way they are wired!! LOL You either hate it or love it! All guys sooner or later want sex! Once they get a taste of it they want it all the time and think about it all the time. They can start out being very sweet at first but all seem to end up being about sex! I too, get the same type of guys online and not online that you seem to get! Some day, the right one will come along.
2007-03-28 13:03:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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I am the one you seek. LOL
All guys want sex with beautiful women. It's only natural. Some of us men, know how to keep our thoughts to ourselves long enough to let the attraction swing back in our direction. Some of us actually want a relationship and like to make other people feel the same bliss we feel when we're with that someone special. I'm one of the few I guess, that would rather make love, than have sex.
It's sort of like a really good dinner. You can either toss something together right quick and just eat. Or you can spend some quality time preparing and cooking so when you do finally sit down for dinner. It just tastes much better!
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2007-03-28 13:02:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
My dear, it's called testostrone and bad manners. Guys ALWAYS equate a woman with sex; no matter what age, no matter how they look. And for a man, they NEVER grow out of it...even when they are old an feeble, and they still have two synapse left, they are thinking about sex. Ever watch the Discovery channel? Next time watch something about animals and you will see that the male species is all about sex no matter what kind of animal/bug/fish he might be. Learn to deal with it or ignore it. Eventually, one guy will come along and have his priorities straight. But I guarantee you....guess what is on his mind? Godloveya baby girl !!!
2007-03-28 13:05:45 · answer #4 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey, why dont you try looking somewhere else. obviously these guys behind the computer screens are going to say stuff like that because they have nothing to lose. you can't see them, so they grow enough courage to be bold and aggressive. if you meet guys in person they are a little different. i mean yeah they want the physical stuff too, but they are more respectful, and trust me most men will not have enough courage to say that kind of stuff to you off the bat. so try to steer clear from the internet when meeting guys, and try other places where you can see them. ;p good luck
2007-03-28 13:02:55 · answer #5 · answered by kc321 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are great guys out there but u most likly wont find them in a chat room and whats with the 'play with you' thing come on now are they like in kindergarden
most guys in the chat rooms are looking for a gurl to cyber with them on the internet so that they can get excited over nothing so you best bet for looking for a guy that wont want that is when u meet a guy that u tell them 1st off u dont wanna have sex til your ready and if they dont like that then its there lose and they'll never know what they had
2007-03-28 13:01:57 · answer #6 · answered by Miss November 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well for a start online is not the place to look. although it might seem easier as you are sitting at your pc in your own home. chattin with men. you never no who you are really talking too. go out get a hobby where men are and will get to no you in person and not through a picture.
and depending on what type of photographs you have of yourself could make a change.
if u have revealing pictures with u half naked or in bra and knickers that would appeal to men ur here for sex or to tease
2007-03-28 12:59:48 · answer #7 · answered by lvliik3yyy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what kind of pictures do you have on the internet? maybe that is the problem. people are the computer tend to be a little more open on how they feel or what they say. if these guys see you in person they wouldnt even talk to you, let along ask you for sex. im married honey so i am a good man but a great man to my wife.
2007-03-28 12:59:45 · answer #8 · answered by soto_a81 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you fish in the sewer, expect you won't find much to eat. While I won't say that everything on the 'Net is a "sewer," historically and statistically it is over-represented by those seeking sexual titilation. Turn off the pc and go out to various events and activities. Diversify the venues you occupy. Meet people in person. Network with other like-minded people and you will find what you want.
2007-03-28 13:03:40 · answer #9 · answered by Finnegan 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're pretty, guys will always hit on you (which means ask for sex, even if you don't realize it), whether it's online or in real life. But if NO one's talking to you without asking for sex, you may want to evaluate your pics. Are they super sexy or something? Maybe put something up that's not so provocative. Not having seen your pics, I can't judge them, but I do know that with provocative pics, and if you flirt when they first talk to you, being asked for sex is pretty much a given.
2007-03-28 13:01:17 · answer #10 · answered by sanjacgoddess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋