2007-03-28 06:08:43 · 13 answers · asked by mister menner 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Talk to? Are you kidding me? Or are you that insecure? Hell, my fiance's best friend is the hot stripper next door. Does that bother me? Nope. 'Cause we trust each other. Snap.
2007-03-28 06:14:06 · answer #1 · answered by w@rper 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk?!? why not talk?? let's say you are a girl, don't you have "guy freinds" that you still talk to even if you have a boyfriend? How old are you? This sounds like a question from a 12 year old...
At 40 years of age, I have learned that if "my man" is talking to, looking at & even drooling over another female all is okay... no drama... and shows level of trust. If you offer "your man" this level of trust then "your man" is more likely to enjoy being "your man"
Look at it this way... when you go to buy an dress, you might do alot of "window shopping" but that doesn't mean you are going to buy every dress you see... allow men to window shop, look as much as they want... talk & be freinds with females (they need the balance of female input).... as long as they "haven't bought" or in fact cheat, then you have nothing to worry about.
The sooner you can understand this concept, the healthier your relationships with the opposit sex will be
2007-03-28 06:20:35 · answer #2 · answered by Bama 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how he talks to other girls. If he talks to other girls in a flirty/seductive/sexual way then it is not right if he is in a relationship with you as your "boyfrient." However; if he talks to these girls just as a friend there is nothing wrong with that.
2007-03-28 06:12:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no sensible reason why any guy should not talk to half the people on the planet just because they're female. It's what they might talk about that could cause a problem. If your boyfriend is not trustworthy, you might need to change boyfriends.
2007-03-28 06:12:51 · answer #4 · answered by missingora 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, as long as they don't step acroos the line and are interested in this person more than a friend. We are all human you can not expected your boyfriend to never speak to another girl. I am sure he doesnot feel you should not speak to another guy. But again there is a certain line you can and can not cross. Good luck!! Have trust in him, then you need not to worry.
2007-03-28 06:14:54 · answer #5 · answered by true2b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what you mean. Talking to girls at school or work is normal. Talking to girls on myspace or chatting online isn't.
2007-03-28 06:12:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure as long as he is not trying to talk to them because of an romantic interest. Wht not? He should be able to have friends of the opposite sex if he so chooses.
2007-03-28 06:11:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I see no problem with that. As long as there is trust, I see no problem why your boyfriend should talk to other girls.
2007-03-28 06:12:12 · answer #8 · answered by melina_silva 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would agree with Cali..
I don't see a problem if my bf talks to another girl.. i mean yes it does bother me a bit.. and it gets my nerves up. but i realize thats just my insecurites getting the better of me..and I have no reason to worry..
as long as you trust your bf.. and he's given you no reason to doubt him.. then try not to worry so much..
and try and tell yourself its just insecurites.. and you won't let them get the better of you
2007-03-28 06:13:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
gee...no. now kill half the population of the world (female) so he cant talk to any females. peace
2007-03-28 06:12:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋