Family & Relationships - 28 March 2007

my husband and i have recently gotten married and he has moved in with me. i receive ssi for myself, childsupport for 1 child and welfare for the other child. i heard that i can not change my last name because ssi will take my check away from me. also can i change my childs last name whom i receive welfare for? please help you guys!!!!! how will my new marriage affect me?>

2007-03-28 11:57:36 · 29 answers · asked by ? 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am losing a lot of my hair and I feel like women won't like me because I will be bald. I am 33. I am still a virgin. I have never had a girlfriend. I hate feeling depressed about how I look. I have a big nose, a skinny face, long neck and balding. I am uttertly ugly. How can I shake this feeling that looks are the most important thing when it comes to finding love?

2007-03-28 11:57:33 · 7 answers · asked by NJboy 3 in Singles & Dating

My husband and i have been married from last 3 years.....he is 7 yrs older to me....so he is now very succesful in his career and now on a totally different stage in his career... am just begining my career....am 23 and he is 30 .... we are both very far apart and in different worlds... both have our own diff taste and sense of humour and also deal with different issues of life in general!!!!! Ever since last year and half he has grown so distant...thats when he shifted into an exec job. I feel so disconnected from him. He is always disrespectful towards me cos am nothing in life(am still to find a job and grow in career etc) ...and he has achieved a lot already...and has a lot of arrogance associated with it! ... i feel so lonely and disconnected!...why does this happen? Is it cos some men only love thier jobs? or disrespect people who are not as succesful as them??

2007-03-28 11:57:06 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have been in love for many months with a man (who frankly, I'm too good for) who has been consistently chasing other women.

First it was Ting Tong the Thai hooker (who ran off with his money) then Gladys (66, met at Bingo, expired in his Capri) then "chip shop woman" (disgraceful suggestive manner with a sauce bottle), most recently kebab shop Brenda (he had to dump her cos she got pregnant) - now I hear he's been on here asking how to keep his mother happy.

My heart is being broken on a daily basis by this fat, faithless ratfink and I just can't take it anymore.

What can I do? Please help. Don't tell me to dump him, I love him too much : - (

2007-03-28 11:55:57 · 21 answers · asked by Hello Dave 6 in Singles & Dating

I was wondering if anyone knew of any good places to have a wedding at in Jacksonville FL in July. I am wating to spend as little as possible and I am thinking it will be too hot to have it outdoors.

Please be serious. Thanks

2007-03-28 11:54:51 · 5 answers · asked by fwog_fwog 4 in Weddings

So I don't know if any of you were on earlier, this guy, KING, had been putting out questions about knocking his girlfriend up and now she wont be his slave and how can he control women and all this other junk. So I sent him a message commenting on how he was right on his way to a prison where a guy named Bubba would gladly be his slave.

Now he's e-amils me calling me a b*tch and all this other stuff...so How do you report him? Like actually him/his whole profile all together to the forum head or whatever?

2007-03-28 11:54:41 · 10 answers · asked by toronto_leafs 4 in Singles & Dating

My boyfreinds mother and father were never "aloud" around in his last marriage two and a half years ago. I met him during his divorce of five years,and became invoved. I wanted to change the fact that the parents were welcome. I took the on a trip to San Deigo, Las Vegas, and the wine country. It was ok,besides having to babysit since they never traveled and wanted to go to the mall every day,to look not buy. The "Stevey" baby talk drove me crazy,from my boyfriends mom.(boyfreinds name Steve) I tried again and they came for this past Chirstmas, FOR A MONTH! She baby talked and catered to him like a weird emotional insest,and he allowed it. As she would say, "as long as Steveys Happy Thats all that matters" I flew the most I could to stay away,being a flight attendant,while there was renavation being done by Steve and his dad. One night I went to stay at my best friends hm, and she made the accusation,are you sure thats where shes staying?As of April they r suppose to come again! Help!

2007-03-28 11:54:33 · 1 answers · asked by flygirl 1 in Singles & Dating

or if he just says he does?

2007-03-28 11:54:14 · 15 answers · asked by aloha0200 1 in Singles & Dating

I am indian n female btw--which puts things tht i am going to say into context. the way i was brought up, this awkward shame hung around the concept of 'love'. It was some thing i saw in films from an early age and was an 'awkward nonsense' in my mind, maybe because that is my parents view of it. i'm 17 now and have never had any romantic incident in my life. I got into the bad habit of watching **** when i was 11-12 then i outgrew it. but because my whole impression of love is what i see in films, read in books and watched in **** films, i never understand how people in real life fall in love. I always look at couples and think that how can two non-good-looking people fall in love. I always feel embarassed for girls who are not good-looking and who are dressing up and so enthusiastic about their bfs. i just think they are losers. i just seem to have this fixation that love is all about looks and so is sex. How can i break out of this mindframe? or is the mindframe actually realistic?

2007-03-28 11:53:26 · 6 answers · asked by hollym 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm new in town and i went to get a haircut. I'm young 19 and my hairdresser is 36... married with children. I always have good conversation and today i told her i think that she looks really young. She has the most amazing *** ive ever seen and is a total milf. anyways it was late and she was the only one in the store and i offered to buy her dinner. We had a great time and after dinner we made out and we did 69. I'm pretty well off and she keeps telling me how its so hard to support her family financially. I havent paid her for sex but do u think she is after my money or just a fun time?

2007-03-28 11:53:06 · 12 answers · asked by teddyk k 1 in Singles & Dating

ok last may i moved out of my moms house, and me and my friend got an apartment. along with her fiance and baby. ok, so i put down the down payment on the apt, the gas and the eletric. all together $500. when we moved in they were having some financial problems so i payed the first months rent and all the utilitys. were still in may, and i find out that my fiance got sick over in Iraq and had to come home. so i spent a week with him when he was here on leave before he got discharged. and when i got back to the apt. my friends fiance kept on using my car. like 10 in 1 hour. and finaly i said no. he got all mad. and i left and went to my moms house. and the months rent was also due and the utilitys and i was going to have to pay everything again. i was so tired of being taken advantage of so i moved out. and now its a year later and they have a place. and me and my friend have been friends sence 8th grade. she wont call me or reply my e-mails. but she calls are other friend.

2007-03-28 11:53:04 · 2 answers · asked by avery's mommy 3 in Friends

My ex gf of 4 years wants to get back together but I don't think I'm ready for a serious relationship again. We broke up a few months ago and I think I'm too afraid of the commitment. She's telling me that she is having a terrible time dealing with this and wants to get back together or move on because me being in her life but not as her bf is too hard for her. I love her to death and want her to be happy but I don't think I can be there for her right now like I used to. Do I suck it up and start the relationship back up or do I stick with my gut and let her move on. I really don't know what to do, I don't want to lose her but I don't want to see her in pain like this. I need help, fast...

2007-03-28 11:52:59 · 33 answers · asked by maximabullet 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-28 11:52:15 · 3 answers · asked by Keith 4 in Singles & Dating

why the hell does he want to have sex when he just told me he wants a divorce that he is sick of being married???does anyone really have a clue cause im confused...he actually called and said hey can we get together sat and have some sex for the last time before we divorce.....i was like ummmmm bye

2007-03-28 11:52:15 · 35 answers · asked by east 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My ex gf of 4 years wants to get back together but I don't think I'm ready for a serious relationship again. We broke up a few months ago and I think I'm too afraid of the commitment. She's telling me that she is having a terrible time dealing with this and wants to get back together or move on because me being in her life but not as her bf is too hard for her. I love her to death and want her to be happy but I don't think I can be there for her right now like I used to. Do I suck it up and start the relationship back up or do I stick with my gut and let her move on. I really don't know what to do, I don't want to lose her but I don't want to see her in pain like this. I need help, fast...

2007-03-28 11:52:11 · 4 answers · asked by maximabullet 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Everytime we are having the best time, its the time when we see one of my wifes exs, which I know she has been with. What do I do, if my wife still says hi to them. I really can't stand them at all. The only good thing its that in 4 months we will move to a different town, i hope this helps us. At first they would call the house, and sometimes I caught her ones talking privatly with them, but we had a good talk afterwords. I told her how much that bother me, so she avoided since then. But now when we see her exs, there is really nothing she can do. I ask her how she felt when she saw them, and why she says hi to them still. She reply saying that she did not wanted to be rud.

2007-03-28 11:51:13 · 9 answers · asked by Blue 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am just curious of what you women out there think of me I know im not the best looking guy. And Im fine with that but all girls always say they want a sensitive guy and one who would be a long term relationship who could be a good father. Well whats the deal Im all of that. I have a Job, Im sensitive and caring. I love kids I'm Smart is it im just Ugly lol Seriously how come I am 18 and cant find anyone no matter how hard I try whats wrong with me. Oh well if you care what I look like visit - http://www.myspace.com/mods4hire or http://dating.personals.yahoo.com/personals-1173665139-854513 or if your really bored or interested my yahoo messenger is lkhity@yahoo.com and aim is AlexW42141 oh well thats my rant for the day an answer would be great.

2007-03-28 11:51:06 · 16 answers · asked by alexw42141 2 in Singles & Dating

Long story short: Me and my guy broke up, so how do I make him miss me and maybe want me back? <3

2007-03-28 11:50:26 · 16 answers · asked by The Prep 4 in Singles & Dating

I am married with a great man. He is everything I wanted. Great father and great husband, the only problem is...I'm not in love with him anymore. I am used to him. I tried to rekindle my marriage but it didnt work. I kept thinking about him. 3 mo. ago, I met up with a guy that I went to high school with. In high school, we were completely in different crowds and didnt hook up. But now, we have so many things in common. The only thing is...he is in a rocky relationship and they have a 5 month old baby and I am married with 2 beautiful girls. I want to leave and he says he wants to leave. The feelings I have for him are undescribable and I am sure he feels the same way. He says he is waiting for me to file the papers before he leaves his girlfriend. Should I believe him? Do you think I should stay with my husband for my kids? I know what I am doing is wrong and I know at some point, karma will kick me in my ***. But I cant help how I feel about him. What should I do?

2007-03-28 11:50:16 · 31 answers · asked by Going to NY 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i know someone who's husband is a transvestite but also swears to be a devout christian. he acts godly but really isnt. he sneaks around the web and looks at tranny porn but at the same time tries to make everyone think hes the perfect husband and father. he treats his spouse and kids badly but never wants to take the blame. how do you tell his that you are on to him and hes a lying ***?

2007-03-28 11:49:37 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I have this female friend that I think is really hanging up the phone on me. i would be talking to her on either her house phone or cell and the next thing I know she hangs up. I callback and she dont pick up. I am seriously thinking of not calling her as much. She is my friend and we talk and the "phone" hangs up and she would call back like an hour or more later. So I just need to ask you do you think like how I am thinking that she is hanging up. Because I remember I was trying to tell her about my relationship problem( with me and my bf) and little into the conversation she hung up.

No I would call and we would talk but there are times that the phone just hangs up- and I get upset because I believe she is hanging up.

2007-03-28 11:49:19 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok I am a really really shy girl and kinda a bookworm but only at school at home and around friends i am a normal teen....I want to meet some new people and possibly get into a relationship...any tips?

2007-03-28 11:49:14 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When we got married, he agreed to move to my hometown. Now, two years later, he wants to move back to his hometown (a mere 1 hr and 15 min. drive). I remind him that when we got married, he agreed to live here, knowing that i want to live near my family. He claims he had no idea what a crummy town he was falling into. we do go very often (at least once a month) to visit his family and he goes there once a week to help in his father's factory. i don't keep him from his family/hometown at all, i just don't want to live there.

2007-03-28 11:49:12 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm from out side USA but I like to find greet lady friend up 35 to be friendship How I can find lady friend ?

2007-03-28 11:49:07 · 4 answers · asked by gentleman 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-28 11:48:55 · 1 answers · asked by Jessy M 1 in Singles & Dating

My long distance boyfriend of 2 yrs and I broke up this Saturday. It was a hard breakup, but it was clean. I was okay about it, and I thought he was too.

The problem is that he deals with his emotions with alcohol. Saturday night he drank and when he "woke" up, he had a concussion, fractured jaw, and something wrong with his rib. He says he was beat up or mugged and blacked out, doesnt remember anything.

He called me and told me all this on Sunday. He refused to get checked out because "I'm fine, baby."

It is now Wednesday and I have talked to him on the phone for about 30 seconds, and he was so vague about how he was doing, (I am worried, of course.) and didnt even say goodbye when he hung up.

I think this is ridiculous. He is being completely inconsiderate of my feelings not letting me know if he is feeling better or getting checked out.

My question is: What should I do? Am I overreacting? Should I call and try to get straight answers?? Should I just leave him be?

2007-03-28 11:48:26 · 22 answers · asked by love anyway 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I need advice...

So my best friend began liking this guy about six months ago and at the same time he liked her. They are BOTH in my class and for the last six months, I have felt left out. She says she isn't ready for a relationship but yet they both flirt with each other and whisper all the time. It doesn't help that I seem to really hate him and find him extremely anoyying. I have told her how left out I feel and I don't know what to do anymore. She doesn't seem to realize how much this is torturing me. I have been such a good friend and stood beside her through this whole thing. I even went out places with them so she wouldn't have to be alone with him. I am really giving up on telling her how I feel. Any advice?

-I just need a different point of veiw because I am out of ideas

2007-03-28 11:48:23 · 7 answers · asked by 3Fruit0Cake9 2 in Friends

Last week I received a couple of calls from my ex along with a email. I emailed him back telling him to stop callng me so often. he replied apologizing and telling me he didnt want to cause any problems between me a nd my BF and that he would stop, but monday he emailed me again asking me is I wanted to join him for lunch. I dont know if I should tell my boyfriend that he wrote me a email asking me to lunch. I told him about the first call & email but do I tell him about mondays email? or do i just let it go and pretend like it never happened.
P.S. I didnt respond to mondays email.

2007-03-28 11:48:18 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me and my boyfriend are very in-love with eachother. See I want to make-out with him. But I dont know what he would say. He is having a birthday party this Friday. I plan to kiss him there. But not the make-out kiss. Well he is like shorter than me. I am 5 foot and he comes up to my breasts. So how would i kiss him? You know. Well anyway should I ask my boyfriend tomorrow at school if I can? Please help me. Tell me what I should do. Oh and I am 11. And pleeeeeease dont say I am to young to kiss because I am not! I am a very mature, caring pre-teen. I apperciate your help. Oh and he is 11 too. So thank you,
Yahoo answers person.

2007-03-28 11:46:42 · 15 answers · asked by Naruto's #1 FAN! 1 in Singles & Dating

this guy who is 16 and we might go out... ask my mom if he culd watch me practice vollyball. he told my mommy that he would give me a ride there and back practice stats in an hour and ends it 3hours later

2007-03-28 11:46:37 · 10 answers · asked by girl_that_is_blue 2 in Singles & Dating