I have been in love for many months with a man (who frankly, I'm too good for) who has been consistently chasing other women.
First it was Ting Tong the Thai hooker (who ran off with his money) then Gladys (66, met at Bingo, expired in his Capri) then "chip shop woman" (disgraceful suggestive manner with a sauce bottle), most recently kebab shop Brenda (he had to dump her cos she got pregnant) - now I hear he's been on here asking how to keep his mother happy.
My heart is being broken on a daily basis by this fat, faithless ratfink and I just can't take it anymore.
What can I do? Please help. Don't tell me to dump him, I love him too much : - (
2007-03-28 11:55:57 · 21 answers · asked by Hello Dave 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OL' CRISPY BEEN AT IT AGAIN ???
LOL
2007-03-28 12:00:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont understand how you ask for advice then say please dont tell you to dump him-why would you want to stay with him when you say your heart is broke on a daily basis-i mean why do you want to live like that and risk getting an std-from him sine he is with so many others-and if he is the one who got another pregnant he is going to have to pay child support for that baby regardless that he dumped her or not-of you dont think you deserve respect and to be truly loved by someone then you never will -as far as loving too much to leave him-you are miserable with him anyway so whats the diference if you are miserablw without him? the difference is you may actually one day realize you are better off without him and get some true happiness in life
2007-03-28 12:07:39 · answer #2 · answered by roxy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Don't tell me to dump him, I love him too much "
OK, I won't. err ... ahhh ... OK, I lied about that. What we have to do is get you to stop loving him or get a spine to talk "tough love" with him.
What is it you "Love" about him? Probable whatever it is, its the same thing all the other girls see too. And you want to be the ONE that puts the spurs to him. (Spurs are a way to get a horse's attention.)
Talk is one of his main weapons in his war on the opposite sex. So, talking won't do you any good. I hate to sound like a bigot, but, find a Homosexual guy and spend time with him and get his help on how to get your SOB to mind his manners.
OF COURSE, you want your man to KNOW that you are seeing this obvious "queer". He won't be able to figure it out. And, you of course, tell him that your "friend" is more of a man than He even knows how to be.
The whole idea is that he must look at you in a different way, as needing something that he can't give you. Mr. "Complete" will get a burr under his bucket and start paying more attention to you.
At that point, its up to you to take it where you want it to go.;
Good Luck
2007-03-28 12:16:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl, I know this is hard I've been through this. Relax and think if you're making the right decision of staying with him. If frankly you're too good for this man, look for someone who is better than him and there are lots of men out there who will pay his attention to you and only to you. why not try to be single again and enjoy not being hurt? it's also fun being single ;-) you get to be the one chasing men. LOL
2007-03-28 12:02:57 · answer #4 · answered by gurlielash 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your right you are to good for a cheating man so leave! you answered you own question don't sit there asking what you can do when you already know this guy does not have the same feelings for you. You are better off being with some one who respects and loves you as much as you do them.
Good Luck!
2007-03-28 12:07:07 · answer #5 · answered by mommysgirl78 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell you to dump him? Love really is blind...
I consider myself a very desperate person when it comes to relationships, but if some girl did this to me, I would have dumped her long ago. I could do with one screw up, but anymore, sorry, I have too much respect for myself, I can find better, no matter how good looking the previous was.
"Fool me once, shame on you, fool me twice, shame on me."
2007-03-28 12:03:41 · answer #6 · answered by brandonedbishop 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're hilarious, he's fat. END OF STORY! lol. I think that you should say to him the exact same paragraph of all the girl's he's been with. Mentioning these retarded girls, especially in the manner that you made them out to sound lol, may make him feel VERY VERY STUPID! Which he should! If he defends himself and says '**** you' to you telling him you love him and want to be his one and only in return, then shove a pie in his face and say, "eat this fatty McRatfink"
2007-03-28 12:07:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're so above him its not even funny sweetheart. Why are you still with him?! There are tons of people in the world that would love to date you that are FAITHFUL! Don't waste your time with this loser, he's not worth it. Do something for you, stand up for yourself, and get rid of him!
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2007-03-28 12:00:23 · answer #8 · answered by CountingBlueCars 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you won't dump him - them I'm afraid you'll just have to get used to having a Mormon relationship!
Are you really happy in this relationship? Doesn't sound like it.
2007-03-28 12:01:17 · answer #9 · answered by beausbreeches 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you said you cant dump him but are you serious....the one thing i know you should do after reading that is DUMP HIM ASAP...Why would you put yourself through that and waste your time with this *** hole...is this a joke?
2007-03-28 12:00:32 · answer #10 · answered by *Mariah* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"don't tell me to dump him, I love him too much"
Since I can't tell you to kick his happy *** to the curb and find someone better - I hope you have a happily miserable life together
2007-03-28 12:01:51 · answer #11 · answered by Catherine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋