Do I tell my boyfriend?

Question

Last week I received a couple of calls from my ex along with a email. I emailed him back telling him to stop callng me so often. he replied apologizing and telling me he didnt want to cause any problems between me a nd my BF and that he would stop, but monday he emailed me again asking me is I wanted to join him for lunch. I dont know if I should tell my boyfriend that he wrote me a email asking me to lunch. I told him about the first call & email but do I tell him about mondays email? or do i just let it go and pretend like it never happened.
P.S. I didnt respond to mondays email.

Answer 1

tell your bf im sure he can sort him out i know i would

Answer 2

Okay, well there are two ways to go here. Both could possibly cause some problems, but it really just depends on how much you trust each other.

One. Don't tell your boyfriend. If you tell him all the details about the ex, he may think that you two are rekindling an old flame and he will soon be old news. You may give the impression that you still have feelings for the previous boyfriend, so therefore are talking about him and making your current boyfriend jealous and maybe even angry.

Two. Tell him! If you don't tell him, he may hear it from someone else, and we all know how those rotten old chains of gossip go. The story gets totally changed from what it really was, and you automatically have a MUCH more dramatic scenario than what really went down. Then your current boyfriend may get upset about all the drama with the ex, and break up with you, thinking that you have feelings for your previous other.

You could always explain again to the ex to stop doing this. Tell him that you're afraid it may spoil the relationship you're in now, and you don't want that to happen because you are very happy. This should work, but if not, just email me and I'll be glad to help out more. <3

Answer 3

I would say since you did not answer him dont tell your bf. If you tell your bf it may create more problems. But if you want to build trust then yeah its fine. But think about it do you think your bf would tell you if it was the other way around? If you have no feelings for him anymore then just ignore him and change your number and email address. You dont have to tell your bf everything.

Answer 4

I wouldn't even be talking to your ex, thats trouble if you ask me. I would definitely tell him to stop calling, and that you're not interested in him, you've got a boyfriend and you'd appreciate it if he would leave you alone. If that doesn't work then I would tell your boyfriend, maybe he can help out with the situation.

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Answer 5

You should definitely tell him because once you do, he will have complete trust in you. But don't make it seem like you're trying to make him jealous or anything. Just tell him that you're not going to stand for any people in the way of you twos relationship and will proceed to see that your ex doesnt come in contact with you

Answer 6

I would let him know.. theres no use in keeping any secrets, that will just cause problems in the future if he does find out, ecspecially if you really like this new BF. And its not like you are agreeing to go out with ur ex.. or are you?

Answer 7

To keep a healthy relationship with your knew bf, I think that you should probably tell him! I am sure that once you tell him he will be glad that you chose to talk to him about what has been going on with your ex.
Good Luck

Answer 8

If you love your BF don't respond to the e-mails and definately do not call him back. Sooner or later he will get the hint and leave you alone.

Answer 9

dont keep things from him ,tell him, and dont respond to your ex bf's emails any more

Answer 10

tell your new boyfriend about all calls and f'wd the emails

Answer 11

be honest with your new boyfriend and tell him first before the ex does men are just as spitful has women