ok last may i moved out of my moms house, and me and my friend got an apartment. along with her fiance and baby. ok, so i put down the down payment on the apt, the gas and the eletric. all together $500. when we moved in they were having some financial problems so i payed the first months rent and all the utilitys. were still in may, and i find out that my fiance got sick over in Iraq and had to come home. so i spent a week with him when he was here on leave before he got discharged. and when i got back to the apt. my friends fiance kept on using my car. like 10 in 1 hour. and finaly i said no. he got all mad. and i left and went to my moms house. and the months rent was also due and the utilitys and i was going to have to pay everything again. i was so tired of being taken advantage of so i moved out. and now its a year later and they have a place. and me and my friend have been friends sence 8th grade. she wont call me or reply my e-mails. but she calls are other friend.
2007-03-28 11:53:04 · 2 answers · asked by avery's mommy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
but did i do the right thing on moving out.
sorry so long.
2007-03-28 11:53:48 · update #1
oh yes, you did the right thing in moving out. they treated you like crap. sounds like you didn't set up any boundaries in the arrangement, but still.
you've made attempts to get back in touch. she may be too embarrassed to talk to you. let it go. she knows where to find you if she decides to grow up and you need some proof that she has or your renewed friendship could just end up being more drama. reach out to a new friend instead. good luck.
2007-03-28 14:46:38 · answer #1 · answered by rainyday 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! They were taking advantage of you! 1 month of you taking care of things! If they aren't or weren't financially stable...they shouldn't have moved out! You should be the one that's mad!!!
2007-03-28 12:31:30 · answer #2 · answered by batchick5 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋