my husband wants a seperation but wants to have sex one last time...?

Question

why the hell does he want to have sex when he just told me he wants a divorce that he is sick of being married???does anyone really have a clue cause im confused...he actually called and said hey can we get together sat and have some sex for the last time before we divorce.....i was like ummmmm bye

Answer 1

Tell him he lost his privledge of having sex with one of the best women ever since he wants to separate and plus your standards of deciding who to have sex with have just gone way up. Saying that will make him want you more and more and soon he will be begging you like crazy to get back together.

Answer 2

FIRST OF ALL YOU DID RIGHT.... BUT...

how do i explain that guys have a way of separating emotion from sex...

remember Seinfeld's "kiss hello" episode?

well he is looking for the "goodbye sex" as it were...

(this below is me kidding..don't do this..just laugh at it..it was meant to be stupid funny)

so....IF you are even in the least willing....just lie there and read a book...fake it and then he is done...you won't even get past the "forward" or title page of the book.....

if he is good..you might even get into the first chapter.,..

or make it even rougher and read the sports section...quote sports and he won't know what to focus on....whether the Knicks won or what he is doing at the present moment...

don't consider it as getting used.....but making sure that his last time was simply forgettable..and if he intends on using you....that it works both ways...

Answer 3

This will sound crude but it illustrates my point...

Have you ever walked a male dog? As you probably know they sniff and pee everywhere. As much as the dog wants to move onto to the next pole or tree, it has to get one last squirt onto the one its about to leave.

Get the idea.... you were right to say No. It sends an unequivocal message that its over. Otherwise he'd be back the week after, or whenever he's horny, at least until he finds someone else.

Answer 4

I've heard of men doing and wanting this before. I guess, they call it break-up sex! Maybe it's because, they think they may not be getting any for a while. It's like just having that one last cigarette before you quit. You did the right thing though, just say good bye!

Answer 5

If he wants a divorce why would you want to have sex with him? Hanging up on him is definitely the right thing to do! Let him know he can't have his cake and eat it too.

Answer 6

He's a loser...the best thing you could do is have another guy there already servicing you when your soon to be ex show's up!

And I'm not volunteering or anything, just giving you my opinion of some way to get even with this bum.

Answer 7

Well done.. Stick to your guns. The last thing you want is to be a booty call to your soon to be ex-husband. He just wants to see how far he can get with you and string you along further. Your ex sounds like a jerk.. you should be glad to get rid of him

Answer 8

Selfish horny #@@#. Tell him you're sorry but sex without love is like steak without the beef! Tell him to use his hand or go find someone else, since you fully intend on finding someone else who will love you while having sex with you.

Answer 9

Something stinks here... there's no way we can tell you about your husband with so little information, but based on what you've said here, it seems to me he wants the fun without the responsibilities.

Good riddance to bad rubbish .. good luck to you!

Answer 10

It sounds like he wants to play without having any responsibility. You did the right thing.