I am just curious of what you women out there think of me I know im not the best looking guy. And Im fine with that but all girls always say they want a sensitive guy and one who would be a long term relationship who could be a good father. Well whats the deal Im all of that. I have a Job, Im sensitive and caring. I love kids I'm Smart is it im just Ugly lol Seriously how come I am 18 and cant find anyone no matter how hard I try whats wrong with me. Oh well if you care what I look like visit - http://www.myspace.com/mods4hire or http://dating.personals.yahoo.com/personals-1173665139-854513 or if your really bored or interested my yahoo messenger is lkhity@yahoo.com and aim is AlexW42141 oh well thats my rant for the day an answer would be great.
2007-03-28 11:51:06 · 16 answers · asked by alexw42141 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well thanks for the answers and no I am sensitive and a very good person but I do have some bad boy in me you can tell that by my music plus I'm a good southern boy I know how to have a good time. I guess what really burns me is I cant seem to find anyone but I see all these other guys who are with beautiful women and they dont deserve them coz they treat them like crap or are jerks. I will never degrade my partner or anyone for that matter I always seem to think of everyone else before myself and as for relationships I put my partner on a pedestal
2007-03-28
12:21:01 ·
update #1
Have you considered suicide?
2007-04-04 23:59:07 · answer #1 · answered by Boston Bluefish 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sweetie i dont know what you "physically" look like but i can tell you this the person that i met while reading your question is absolutely gorgeous & i have a feeling the reason you arent in a relationship with the girls you have choosen is b/c god has a plan 4 you with a great female in mind & he doesnt want you to get scarred along the way.. just be patient hon when the time is right you wont have to look b/c she will be right there & besides you are only 18 if god gave the relationship you seek/deserve now well in 15yrs. you'll be bored & began wondering & we dont need anymore "terrific" men going to the bad b/c of impatience or bad choices..patience is a virtue my dear.. focus on some other things you dont have to search .. honestly you seem to good to be true, i hope you take this into consideration & wait...good luck hun..keep us all posted b/c u seem quite interesting...best wishes..
2007-03-28 19:00:34 · answer #2 · answered by kimmiegaddy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Looks have nothing to do with it.
It's more about your age. I don't think an 18 year old is ready to settle down because although you may think you are, in reality, things you look for in a woman or man at 18 is really different at what you want when you are 26, 27, or 28.
For now, just enjoy your life and have fun making friends.
Life is not about trying to marry the next 10 women, it's about the ONE, which means,
YOU HAVE TO GET THROUGH ALL THE NO'S TO GET TO THE YES!
You aren't ugly, you are very cute, but don't get caught up on insecurity! It's CONFIDENCE that attracts women!
2007-03-28 18:56:48 · answer #3 · answered by elidet_reyes 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Where your sensitive, caring, and a good guy, you also are very insecure. Because honestly your a handsome guy, but women sniff that from a mile away! We want a guy to be confident in himself, strong and independent. Don't approach a woman thinking of yourself as second rate, make her believe that it doesn't go any farther than you and to take you now before somene else does.
2007-04-05 18:43:26 · answer #4 · answered by mahoganay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The good news is that you are not ugly at all! The bad news is that you kind of look a little feminine so maybe girls are getting the wrong impression. You look very clean cut and nice so just try to incorporate some masculinity in your look.
2007-04-04 22:22:58 · answer #5 · answered by Pretty Young Thing 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your not ugly. you need confidence you may be the most amazing guy in the whole world but no one will notice you if you do not have confidence in yourself. so stop saying you are ugly and just be comfortable as yourself. stop trying so hard to find someone, first you gotta be happy with yoruself and who you are and trust me that means being ok with being single. and once you are comfortable being you, then you will have the confidence to go out and meet people. and maybe the increadibly hot girl isnt for you, look at the person not their face, you might find something you didnt expect.
2007-04-05 13:58:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your not bad looking...the thing is though...you sound a little desperate. Women don't like desperate. They like the nice and sensitive guys but they have to have a little bad boy in them. Not too much just a little. Try being a little more confident and sure of yourself and less desperate. You'll have girls flocking to you in no time:)
2007-03-28 18:57:46 · answer #7 · answered by MalinaB 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, i do not think that it is you.....by looking at the pictures, i do not feel you are as bad looking as you claim......It could just be the same reason that other nice guys are unable to find anyone; nice guys finish last, and many women want the "bad boys" for awhile because it is "exciting" and unpredictable.....Give it time and i am sure you will find a wonderful/beautiful woman who will give you all the love you deserve.
2007-03-28 18:55:56 · answer #8 · answered by pilotmanitalia 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Heres the deal, have good confidence and act like you dont want it, you sound a bit desperate and that might scare someone away or might just get you a clingy annoying type of girl, dont try so hard. and by the way I think your pic is really cute.
2007-03-28 19:01:01 · answer #9 · answered by hotmoma_37 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are very cute but then I am a mom... I think you need to understand a few things... its not about looks but about how you make her feel when she is with you. treat her with respect always remember she is a person.... do not kiss and tell and respect what is said between the two of you stays... look for a young lady who wants to be with you for you..
2007-03-28 18:57:08 · answer #10 · answered by bluedanube69 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hey you're not a bad looking dude at all. Be patient. She's coming and when she gets to you, you'll see she was worth the wait.
2007-04-04 17:26:12 · answer #11 · answered by sustasue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋