I have this female friend that I think is really hanging up the phone on me. i would be talking to her on either her house phone or cell and the next thing I know she hangs up. I callback and she dont pick up. I am seriously thinking of not calling her as much. She is my friend and we talk and the "phone" hangs up and she would call back like an hour or more later. So I just need to ask you do you think like how I am thinking that she is hanging up. Because I remember I was trying to tell her about my relationship problem( with me and my bf) and little into the conversation she hung up.
No I would call and we would talk but there are times that the phone just hangs up- and I get upset because I believe she is hanging up.
2007-03-28 11:49:19 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That is not a friend at all.
Seems like she doesn't want to be a friend and be there for you. So she takes the easy way out and hangs up.
She sounds like a horrible person. You don't deserve a friend like that.
2007-03-28 11:52:37 · answer #1 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
How often do you end up being disconnected when you talk to her? If it is both the house phone and her cell then yes i think there may be a problem with the friendship and her hanging up. When you talk to her do you talk to her about how she's doing and talk about what is going on in her life or are you just doing all the talking and talking about all your problems? My friend rings me all the time and talks to me about the problems she is having with her bf and not once does she ask how i'm doing or anything about me, it's all about her and it's always the same problems and she never does anything to fix or get out of the situation and i have wanted to hang up on her so many times but i just tell her i have to go. I know she needs support and a friend to listen but sometimes we make our friends listen to more than they should and sometimes we don't want to fix the problems that we are having and just tlak about it too much. my guess is that maybe your friend is feeling a little bit that way and maybe next time you should ring her and make a point not to talk of your problems with your bf and see how the conversation ends and i'm sure she will be a lot keener to talk if you don't bring up the bf problems. Good luck.
2007-03-29 00:54:47 · answer #2 · answered by jimmy_chick78 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is hanging up, maybe you talk way too long, or she is just uncaring. If it happens because of the phone, then it is likely that when you call back, it won't even ring at all on her side. It's like the phone line goes down for a few minutes, if this is true, she should get it sorted out. Maybe you could buy her a phone, say it is a gift and say something like.."this is to replace your broken phone" If she says it is the line, there will be somewhere close to the house (rarely outside) that has damaged cables or connections, if there is no physical damage, it's either her actual phone, or herself.
2007-03-28 18:55:53 · answer #3 · answered by Aaron 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this may be a tuffy but maybe you should let her be the one to start calling you and not you calling her as much! Make her miss you. If she doesn't, then you will know then rather she is a "true" friend or not !! Don't let her continue hurting your feelings like that! I'm sure she has people SHE talks to about HER problems....that is what a friend is for also!! Just set your mind in to letting her start the phone calls and you do her the way she has done you AND if she says anything, just let her know that NOW she "knows" how it felt! Don't let this get to you, there is a friend out there that DOES need you so don't give it up for this one! Lots of luck to you!!
2007-03-28 19:02:02 · answer #4 · answered by GardenGirl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She is not being a friend at all. I would just stop calling her and if she calls you and trys to talk to you just hang up but if she calls back answer right up and be like
"sorry the PHONE hang up on you" and she'll try to say something so dont let her talk and be like. "How would YOU like it if the PHONE hang up on you every day? I personaly, would hate it. I'm done with it." then hang up on her and dont talk to her for the rest of the day and she if she will bring it up the next time you talk to her.
2007-03-28 18:55:33 · answer #5 · answered by Rory 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like shes just hanging up but u should ask her and u should "accidently" hang up on her wen shes tlkin to u about sumthin serious and then call bak like an hour later but make sure u hang up on her and then like a couple days later ask her if she is hanging up on u it doesnt sound like shes a very good friend if shes not there for u 24/7 so i would just tlk to her about it good luck
2007-03-28 18:55:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should call her less often. It sounds like she likes to talk to you but she doesn't like to do talkathons with you.
When you talk to her try to keep the conversation relatively short and don't just try to stay on the phone for something to do.
2007-03-28 18:56:05 · answer #7 · answered by don n 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is not your friend she doesn't even want to hear your problems. ask her why she hangs up and if she lies then tell her nice knowing you but bye!
2007-03-28 18:56:14 · answer #8 · answered by mommysgirl78 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she does not want to hear you talk about your bf she is probably tired of hearing you talk about your bf. you need to talk it out with her and fine out why she is hanging up.
2007-03-28 18:55:08 · answer #9 · answered by mattnniki6 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are only two possibilities #1 She is tuning you out or your phone or her phone is malfunctioning.........
2007-03-28 18:56:28 · answer #10 · answered by dca2003311@yahoo.com 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋