Everytime we are having the best time, its the time when we see one of my wifes exs, which I know she has been with. What do I do, if my wife still says hi to them. I really can't stand them at all. The only good thing its that in 4 months we will move to a different town, i hope this helps us. At first they would call the house, and sometimes I caught her ones talking privatly with them, but we had a good talk afterwords. I told her how much that bother me, so she avoided since then. But now when we see her exs, there is really nothing she can do. I ask her how she felt when she saw them, and why she says hi to them still. She reply saying that she did not wanted to be rud.
2007-03-28 11:51:13 · 9 answers · asked by Blue 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I Can understand how you feel. I Have been there with my ex boyfriend. However, if they just say hi when seeing each other then there is really nothing wrong with it. If they call all of the time, especially when they go off to do so privately out of earshot then you have a right to be irritated and upset. I know my ex would have been angry and I would have been history with no questions ask and yet I was supposed to let him do it. It is worse when you know they have a history together especially if no children are involved between them because it makes you uncertain as to where you really stand. You feel like they are not respectful enough of your feelings. As for what you can do about it ...only you can decide that for yourself. Hopefully by moving away from where they are will help. Good luck.
2007-03-28 12:10:06 · answer #1 · answered by susie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK so what is this throw a rock hit one of your wife's ex's? come on there is a reason they are the ex's and your her husband nothing wrong with saying hello if they say hello to her now if they don't go out of the way to say hello neither should she so as long as she is only being nice then let it be sweating this does not make it look like you trust her or your guys love or have much security in who you are and what you offer her if you think saying hello to someone is gonna mean she runs right after them! so let it go it will make you a better person plus you will feel better!
2007-03-28 12:20:45 · answer #2 · answered by peterpansdate 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ortiz,
OK, time to shake you dude. You have got to understand that there were people before you in her life. It's the same as the question about her having a boyfriend bofore she met you. If she is with you she is WITH YOU. If you keep getting paranoid, she will not want to stay WIITH YOU and could you really blame her? This level of paranoia would drive anyone nuts.
2007-03-28 12:24:50 · answer #3 · answered by Deep Thought 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL how old are you? If you don't trust her then why are you with her ? Is that your first piece? LOL I have so many Questions for you its unreal but don't worry about it you will grow up someday and maybe she can make it threw your insecurity's
2007-03-28 12:03:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first of all please use spell check and second grow up. So what if she is talking to her ex in passing and saying hello.
Sounds to me like your really not so sure about your relationship and maybe you need to figure out why.
2007-03-28 11:59:57 · answer #5 · answered by loving U 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
purely refer all the inquiries to him and clarify you're no longer individual who prefer to intrude in those issues. save away . except you have been the reason for breaking the marriage in the 1st place. then damn
2016-12-08 13:17:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look forward to your move.
2007-03-28 12:59:58 · answer #7 · answered by kitkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gosh, she has that many?? If I were you, I be wondering if I was going to be the next Mr. Ex.....(that's probably what they are thinking too...)
2007-03-28 11:57:42 · answer #8 · answered by abc 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
aren't you worried about her having so many ex lover? i would find someone( not so easy) to date
2007-03-28 11:55:28 · answer #9 · answered by kat_luvr2003 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋