Family & Relationships - 28 March 2007

Here is the story, I rarely talk to her but sometimes just here and there kinda talk. My problem is when should I talk to her or ask her out. What is a good question to ask, if I want to just chill but not seem desperate in looking for a solid relationship.

2007-03-28 11:34:15 · 7 answers · asked by killswitch127 2 in Singles & Dating

I recently got engaged, i will provide a link to my ring, but because of all the diamonds on the band itself i have no idea what would look good with it for a wedding band. I would like to not hide the diamonds as much as possible, and suggestions or links would be really appreciated! http://www.daysjewelersonline.com/product_info.php?products_id=797

2007-03-28 11:34:04 · 11 answers · asked by jessicaL 2 in Weddings

I recently saw my ex walking with his new girlfriend. i'm not gonna lie, i havent seen him in ages but i've seen him pop up a couple of time and he looked at me but words were exchanged. he and his girl walk ahead of me and my friends. Now, he's doing lots of things to her like huggin and pulling her towards him and stuff and they're laughing or whatever. Plus they're also looking back at me. Before when i spotted them, they werent so affectionate and now all of a sudden they wanna show pda. then as soon as he gets home he calls me. what would you think that meant. let me just clear some things up, we had a nasty break up, he was calling me a lot a while ago but then stopped and also the way we broke up, its like henever wanted anything to do with me. now he shows up in places all of a sudden and other stuff. so what do you think?

2007-03-28 11:33:42 · 10 answers · asked by babymoe2k3 1 in Singles & Dating

ok do you consider this normal?!: My dad got divorced with my mom and now hes living with another woman (25) my dad is 41, and the woman has a 7 year old daughter. They are not married. The divorce is still not final. THE WOMAN HAS A HUSBAND who is still in Ukraine (shes from there) And she is **waiting** for him while living with my dad?! I personally dont see anything bad, she is nice but Isnt this just wrong?! what should i do? *whispers: im a kid.. 7th grade

2007-03-28 11:33:21 · 4 answers · asked by alexander_90405 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I love my boyfriend so much, but I'm impossible to be with. I can't help myself, I find it so difficult to trust him and I'm constantly questioning him about ridiculous things, its driving him up the wall. He only has to mention a girl's name and I start; 'So do you think she's attractive?', 'is she as pretty as me?' I can see how annoying it is- it not only winds my boyfriend up but me aswell, but no matter how much I try to stop being so jealous and insecure something always brings it back up. My boyfriend has never given me any reason not to trust him and he doesn't have a sketchy past, and I've been like this in my previous relationship, which ended on my terms, but it has gotten a lot worse with my current boyfriend.If ever my boyfriend has said no to sex in the past I've also got incredibly upset so i think this all ties together.This is pulling us apart my boyfriend feels I dont trust him at all and this causes all of our arguments. How can I stop?

2007-03-28 11:33:12 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My man and I have been together for a bit over four years. I never really questioned that we were together for so long without a "proposal" because I made it clear from the get go that I wanted to finish my MS and become established prior to marriage, which he was cool with.... Now I know why. He is still married to his "ex" which is for "financial reasons".... Cheaper to keep 'er. I am NOT okay with it in the least, and the pangs on conscious are striking hard. Even though I love him with all my heart, I can’t just look the other way on this one. And I think I deserve better than that. I know that if I were in her place, I would want to know, as much as it may hurt, but some people feel ignorance is bliss... So, ultimately survey says? Tell her? Or not tell her?

2007-03-28 11:32:58 · 40 answers · asked by confused 1 in Singles & Dating

How did you and your last boyfriend or girlfriend meet and get together? How long did you know them before? Were you friends first or did you go straight for the relationship. Im asking this to analyze how relationships are usually started.

2007-03-28 11:32:15 · 6 answers · asked by kirk b 1 in Singles & Dating

I just recently found out my girlfriend could be pregnant. I also just found out she had sex with 2 other guys while we were going out. should I stay with her in case the baby is mine, or just say f**k it and leave her?

2007-03-28 11:32:06 · 5 answers · asked by kiatzu_shutendo 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I dated this guy about a year ago. We both were head over heals but i went out of town one weekend my phone was shut off so i couldnt call him so he thought i didnt want to be with him and started to date someone else. Why now a year later am i still wanting to know how he is..whats hes doing in life..is his new g/f treating him good..i still think about him alot and miss him from time to time..we use to be really good friends before all that happen. Im with someone now but we have been going on and off for years and i dated the other guy in between the one im with now. Am i silly to be thinking like this..he seems to have gotten over me ( i think) but he still lerks in my head..what should i do?

2007-03-28 11:31:50 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay so you remeber how I told you I was phone shy and I couldnt call someone , well I am going to do it. Okay so I want to start the convo off with a bang,any ideas. I know I am making a big deal out of this but still a little help please

Oh and it's just a friendly call, I don't like this person

2007-03-28 11:31:43 · 7 answers · asked by ms.l_thoms 1 in Friends

Is it like okay to have it with someone you love or is it that bad that it is forbidden unless you are having kids?

2007-03-28 11:31:41 · 36 answers · asked by Southern Belle 1 in Singles & Dating

my husband persuaded me that only having one child was what we both needed and he had a vasectomy. I regretted it straight away. She is 13 now and our marriage is in a shambles. He feels so guilty and I feel so sad. We love each other but I cannot get it out of my mind and feel so lost.

2007-03-28 11:31:35 · 6 answers · asked by Diane 1 in Marriage & Divorce

and answered your questions on here.would you be biased and pick theirs as best answers everytime(even though it might not be right)because they are your best friend or be fair and pick other peoples?

2007-03-28 11:31:17 · 15 answers · asked by dream_hawk22 2 in Friends

Is it ok if you go on a first date?
and try to kiss a girl and she hugs you instead? It happened to me and she said she wants to hang out again.

Is this anything I should feel I did wrong? I'm only concerned im going to drive her away now, but I felt she was sincere when she said she wanted to hang out again.

I normally don't try a kiss unless I think it went really good, and I think it went really good. Not perfect, but good enough. Should I feel she's going to be pressured? And am I just stressing out over nothing?

2007-03-28 11:29:47 · 14 answers · asked by burrelson 1 in Singles & Dating

my bff is a totally cutie, ( no im not bi ) there's these two guys that like her but she cant decide between the 2 what should she do should she just forget about both or is there and easy way to choose. she keeps asking me but idk what to tell her so please help!!!!

2007-03-28 11:28:23 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok well there is this boy i really like and he tells eveyone he is going to ask me out! Then when we get to our date or what not he holds back. Is he doing this on perpuse so i end up having to ask him out? Or is he just nervous?

2007-03-28 11:28:01 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I would hate them both. Dump her and stop my friendship with him. What would be your reaction?

2007-03-28 11:27:12 · 15 answers · asked by Sami A 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Why do birds suddenly appear whenever you are near?

2007-03-28 11:27:12 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been hanging out with this guy for a few months now, and we've become quite close. We usually get together what ever chance we get. I am not really sure if our relationship constitutes as 'dating' since there has never been any official boyfriend girlfriend reference.

A few weeks ago he asked me to go to prom with him. Could he possibly be using me as a prom date?

2007-03-28 11:27:05 · 4 answers · asked by Jess 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-28 11:26:31 · 28 answers · asked by wafflehouse 4 in Singles & Dating

Fallen head over heels for someone just from simple sight? Some have... some have known the moment they laid eyes on another person that they were forever hit. Your thoughts?

2007-03-28 11:26:29 · 18 answers · asked by Just a writer at the sea... 3 in Singles & Dating

You have your sister in laws (husbands sister) email password, because she gave it to you ages ago to check for an important email when she didn't have access. You went in there at the time and found emails to her mum (who lives abroad) mouthing off about you something rotten. Making out like you're a bad mum (SERIOUS case of pot calling kettle black) and basically just being nasty. You let it go, because you wondered how you could bring it up, when you'd been wrong enough to snoop in the first place. You kept your distance when you could, but life went on. Now, you check the emails again, and you find an email to her mum again saying that your cat was killed and what a shame it was etc...and then you see the reply from her mum who says that you probably poisoned it knowing you. You love animals, you're a good mum, and these wicked women dislike you for no reason. You've never done them any harm. Your husband has little to do with his mum, because she favours his sister.

2007-03-28 11:26:21 · 22 answers · asked by Anon 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

I love my girlfriend a lot but recently found an email from her to some guy that has left me heartbroken. This email clearly suggest that she cheated on me sometime in the past . But when i confronted her, she blamed me that how could i ever think this about her. As per her, it is just a date/kiss that she had meant when sending that email. She blames me of destroying relationship by casting suspicion etc. I love her and do not want to make a mistake. Can it be that she is correct? Here is an excerpt from that email:

"And most importantly, what happened between us was beautiful and spontaneous... and I loved it! (I hope you did too). So please, what on earth are you saying "sorry" for? There's nothing to feel guilty for, I felt great being with you and wanted it to happen as much as you did... and I want it to happen again when we meet (hopefully not too far away in the
future!). I didnt say this before, but Thank You! for making me feel so wonderful"

2007-03-28 11:25:49 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and we had dinner, kissed, and she told me to call her. Then I called her and didn't hear from her for over 2 weeks and told me she had been busy with school and that she had been seeing a friend of hers and they decided to give it a shot.

Then I asked her, was it while I saw her and she said no, they just known each other for a long time.

Was she being sincere? I think the worst.....I mean I moved on, but it's still a little strange.

What do women really want? You know, other than guys that treat them like garbage and are aloof, what else is it that women really want?

2007-03-28 11:25:17 · 4 answers · asked by burrelson 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-28 11:25:16 · 19 answers · asked by ying yong ye 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-28 11:24:27 · 3 answers · asked by Alice 2 in Singles & Dating

Was this wrong?
I took all of my Ex Girlfriends mothers pictures i had, i took a few other personal items i had of her moms. Some stuff with her hand writing on it and the such. I went to a cemetery-found a grave with the same last name as hers on it. Took some dirt from it. Then i took it back to my house and burned it all in the back yard, the pictures and everything else mixed with the dirt from the grave. While doing this i was playing music by Slayer. The whole time i was chanting DIE WITCH DIE BURN WITCH BURN!
Will it work?

2007-03-28 11:24:09 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

after a while she tried to befriend me telling me all kinds of bad stuff about him and i told her i would never deal with him again in life cause i thought she was a sweet old lady im 29 shes 50. she emailed me today and told me she decided to take him back. after she told me how he abuse her, now nasty he is to her and his mom, how he lies. i feel like she made up all that stuff so i wouldnt get to know him better. maybe she was mad that he moved on with his life. should i call him and still be friends with him or should i just let it go? hes a doctor and a very handsome man.

2007-03-28 11:24:08 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am leaving on Friday, and I have two best friends who hate each other. My mom said I can bring one of them to California, and Kid's Choice Awards Live, but I am equally best friends with them both, and I don't know which one to choose.
PS- They are twin sisters,so it's even harder, what do I do, the tickets are all sold out on the plane,and I really want to bring them both, but I can't,and I won'tbe comfortable to bring another close friend, because I won't go crazy and hae a good time without one of my best friends, what do I do?
Should I just pick one of them like with heads and tales? But then I'm scared that if one of them goes, the other won'tlike me, and if I let them decide they will just fight forever! WHat do I do???

2007-03-28 11:24:00 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

have you ever been naked at home (except showering) ? why have you..? and what were you doing..?

i did only once,but it was after shower and i was on my bed and studied....
when i told a friend,i was answered i'm weird :(
but it was comfortable :)

2007-03-28 11:23:44 · 4 answers · asked by barefootmicky85 4 in Friends