after a while she tried to befriend me telling me all kinds of bad stuff about him and i told her i would never deal with him again in life cause i thought she was a sweet old lady im 29 shes 50. she emailed me today and told me she decided to take him back. after she told me how he abuse her, now nasty he is to her and his mom, how he lies. i feel like she made up all that stuff so i wouldnt get to know him better. maybe she was mad that he moved on with his life. should i call him and still be friends with him or should i just let it go? hes a doctor and a very handsome man.
2007-03-28 11:24:08 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It depends. Do you really like him? His ex-wife was telling you all those things because she was trying to break you apart. She probably thought...'well I have this younger woman stealing my husband and that is not going to happen on my watch.' I say if you really like him, call him. If he doesn't call you back or want to talk, then you know that he is working it out with his ex.
2007-03-28 11:30:10 · answer #1 · answered by Going to NY 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You should call him and tell him you would like to go out with him, have a sit down talk and let him know about these e-mails.
When I first saw this question I thought it was one of my ex-girlfriends writing about my ex-wife, she did the same thing all of the time. She went so far as to write many negative things about me on classmates.com using my ex-girlfriends name to do it under. Classmates cancelled her subscription and deleted all of the statements, thank God.
2007-03-28 18:30:59 · answer #2 · answered by droopydog88 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa Girlfriend...move on! I mean it is all sounds so strange from the get go. How did that lady get your email address and so on. Consider yourself very lucky you are out of those people's lives and find somebody that will really love you for who you are...not as some young fling. Best wishes!
2007-03-28 18:31:20 · answer #3 · answered by fenhongjiatu1 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let me tell you something.
I have had ex girlfriends who have told other girls bad things about me-just to get even with me or to keep other girls away from me. Things that were lies-such as what you said. That i beat them, that i did this that or the other. All of which were lies.
You should tell the guy all the stuff that she told you about him.
2007-03-28 18:27:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get to know the guy how bad can he be wait you dont know so you should try to get to know him if it all works out then maybe you are a good match and if it dosent then sorry. Any way if his ex wife is "50" how old is he your only 29!!
2007-03-28 18:30:56 · answer #5 · answered by babygurljam1995 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hmmmm...well-to-do AND handsome. That's all you need. Don't let anybody get you all confused about things like character and morality. You shouldn't have to worry your pretty little head over such things. What does that matter to you anyway?
2007-03-28 18:28:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you were being manipulated by this woman. Only you know if you want to pursue a relationship with this man, and that's not dependant on anything she says or does.
2007-03-28 18:28:27 · answer #7 · answered by SodaLicious 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to begin with why would you listen to her or read her email, of course she is not going to say anything good about him. Oh and she is going to take him back? Who is she to say that she can control him? I would just ignore her, talk to him just about the two of you (not her) and see where he sees this relationship going and base my decisions on that
2007-03-28 18:30:09 · answer #8 · answered by Rosie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should never listen to what a guys ex tells you! of course she will trash him out of jealousy! if she cant have him no one else can, let this be a lesson for the future!
2007-03-28 18:28:25 · answer #9 · answered by puppyluv 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't be swayed by looks or money, get all points of view. ask him about what she said but keep an eye on everything that he says, you'll never know if he's abusive or a wife batterer, u know what i mean
2007-03-28 18:31:55 · answer #10 · answered by mamuca 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋