Is sex a good thing?

Question

Is it like okay to have it with someone you love or is it that bad that it is forbidden unless you are having kids?

Answer 1

Sex is a good thing when you are doing it with some one you love very much.

Answer 2

Don't listen to half of these people:

Do not let religion or social norms tell you when it's okay to have sex. Learn to be comfortable with your body, protect yourself and have sex with someone who respects you. Have sex when you feel ready to. Have multiple experiences. Just like other things in your life, you have to find what works for you. You usually can not find this in the first person you sleep with. Waiting for wedding bands and vows are mumbo jumbo. You are the only person who owns your body. Share it with who you want to. Sex does not always have to be about love, but when it is it's incredibly special.

Most people have terrible sex lives, or mediocre ones. These are the same people that tell you it's forbidden.

Sex is a very good thing when it's consensual. The more you know about yourself the better.

Answer 3

it depends on what view point you are looking at it from.
from a religious stand point sex os something to be had only between husband and wife. anything out side of wedlock is forbidden
if you are like me and not religious and you love them and you know for a fact that they love you then why should it be forbidden? sex is one of the greatest ways to show the other person that you care for them. it helps you reach a whole nother level of intimacy, you can learn things about the one you love that you never knew before.
if you do decide to do it and your not looking to have kids always be safe. even if you get caught in the moment dont do anything without protection

Answer 4

Sex is natural, but Love is even more natural, love can be expressed through sex and so it is really amazing.. people call this, making love, it really just shows the love and lets it out rather than making it. Sex without love only tries to reach intimacy levels, people don't know how to make themselves feel as good as love so they make their bodies get as close as they can.. and that's being wanted via sex.

So it's better in a loving relationship, out of a loving relationship should be forbidden, and is in most religions, for good reasons.

Answer 5

Sex is a great thing if you are old enough to be having it. Sex is considered to be a sin if the two people are not married to each other. No one said that it was forbidden. Well your parents will tell you it is while you are underage.

Answer 6

I think sex is for the mature firstly, and secondly I do not believe in following the rules of the bible to a tee. These are ancient rules, made ancient of years ago, for ancient people. The world and man kind has evolved, and God forgives all sins, and I do not see how God can see two people, who are of a mature enough stage to really feel the pure feeling of love, sharing intimacy. In the world today the chances of finding someone who loves you back the same way is very hard to find!!!!! But in todays day in age you MUST use protection. Sex kills if one is not smart, and no moment is worth your life!!!!!

Answer 7

Sex is not only for married couples, or making children, sex is a beautiful ecstasy that happens between two people who loves one another very much and wishes to explore each other as one mentally, physically, emotionally, and spiritually.

Sex is a wonderful thing if the love between you and your significant other is real then sex happening with you both can not be wrong. Good luck, and enjoy yourself.

Answer 8

Sex itself is a very good thing. It is the physical expression of an emotional love, and it is also a means of procreation.
Whether or not it's okay to have sex with someone you love depends on how old you both are, how ready you both are, and how responsible you both are to face the consequences of your actions--pregnancy, STD's, guilt, physical pain, regret, etc. Never force it, because then it will be considered rape.

Answer 9

Sex can be a good thing or bad. Sex can sometime create a hell of a lot of problems. But sex can be amazing between to people who really love each other. Don't throw it away lightly.. thats where the problems start

Answer 10

Sex is fine if its with the person you know you have fallen in love with, and you know he is in love with you... age also matters! You have to be old enough! And sex isnt only for the purpose of making children, even though that is a wonderful blessing, but it is a special bond between two people who love eachother.