Is it ok if you go on a first date?
and try to kiss a girl and she hugs you instead? It happened to me and she said she wants to hang out again.
Is this anything I should feel I did wrong? I'm only concerned im going to drive her away now, but I felt she was sincere when she said she wanted to hang out again.
I normally don't try a kiss unless I think it went really good, and I think it went really good. Not perfect, but good enough. Should I feel she's going to be pressured? And am I just stressing out over nothing?
2007-03-28 11:29:47 · 14 answers · asked by burrelson 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
relax and give it time, she will let you know when you can kiss her, don't force her, you will drive her away if she does not want to kiss right now.
2007-03-28 11:33:40 · answer #1 · answered by misty blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was a good date if she said she would like to do it again.
But you moved too fast for her when you went in for the kiss, and she listened to herself and deflected it well.
It was a good date, but you moved a little too fast.
If you really do like her, I would call her up and apologize, say something like "I really am sorry for the other night. I realize I moved too fast for you, and I dont want to make that mistake again." She will feel safe with you, knowing you are aware of what is going on, and I promise the next date will go better.
Good luck, sweetie.
2007-03-28 11:34:32 · answer #2 · answered by love anyway 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she said she wanted to go out again,she could just be one of those that refuses to kiss on the 1st date.Though,the way you say "hang out" makes me raise an eyebrow.I'd say go out with her again to get a better opinion.Look at her body language.
2007-03-28 11:35:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A hug is better than not knowing if she wanted to ever see you again. Hang out some more and see what happens!
2007-03-28 11:35:25 · answer #4 · answered by SodaLicious 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You seem to be a real gentleman. Which means she is fine young lady, next date do not rush the kissing. You guys will be fine keep dating.
2007-03-28 11:34:48 · answer #5 · answered by styles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't know . i would say she is giving you the brush off but a girl i knew years ago was similar so i went with the pal thing after my attempts to kiss ..... failed then one night she asked me if i would make love to her. so females just don't make sense and a man would go nuts attempting to figure them out.
2007-03-28 11:35:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls want us to be a little aggressive. Planting an innocent kiss on her shouldn't freak her out. Hell, she may take to it and want more! It's a win-win situation.
2007-03-28 11:37:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
kiss on the first date is too fast...lol hugs are the best on a first date =)
2007-03-28 11:33:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stressing, she probably just didnt wanna kiss u on the first date
2007-03-28 11:34:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry take it sloow and let the love flow!....I was streesed earlyer this week from a simaulr prob but it turned out she was just inexperinced and nerouvs
2007-03-28 11:34:54 · answer #10 · answered by loverman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋