2007-03-28 11:26:31 · 28 answers · asked by wafflehouse 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
to have experience, you dont want her calling you a minute man! if you wait, then the first time she does it with you she will be like "THATS what the big fuss was all about?"
2007-03-28 11:29:21 · answer #1 · answered by puppyluv 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It is better to have sex when you are ready. Since you won't run out there's no need to save anything. Sex is not a gift for someone else, you are not their property. You are your own person and you should make your own decisions. Waiting an unnaturally long time doesn't make it better when you finally have it, it gives you a complex about it and makes you fearful of it.
I personally think that when you have your own place you are ready.
That's like saying don't eat cake until you're 30 or your wedding cake won't taste as good. If you did that it could be the worst cake in the world or the best and you wouldn't know. And guess what, you're stuck eating that cake for the rest of your life.
2007-03-28 11:32:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Save yourself, man. If i could, I would go back and save myself. Some would say it doesn't really matter cause men are less attached to and view their first times more positively than women in general. But, screw scientific studies.
Saving it for that one special girl of your life is right now is like expressing a beautiful love for her before you even see her face. It's like you're making this huge sacrifice [which is what love is about] and have having faith in knowing that the girl you finally share your heart with will be well worth the wait.
That's a once in a lifetime gift, save yourself.
2007-03-28 13:25:46 · answer #3 · answered by JoffreM 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It depends on the girl and you as well. Some girls are into s little experience, and some are into no experience. Either its still going to be special as long you haven't done it with too many. So I guess there really is no answer, so it depends
2007-03-28 11:33:49 · answer #4 · answered by caring black guy 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Better to save yourself, can you image one other special thing that you can only give someone once, there is only really one thing, virginity. If someone is truly right for you, they won't care about past experience, but they could be overcome with jealousy that other people have had your body in the past. If you are not talking about sex, but just relationships in general, how would you ever know you find the right person if you don't try.
2007-03-28 11:34:16 · answer #5 · answered by Aaron 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
You will likely get many opinions on this,but you need to answer this yourself.It really depends on the way you are.Are you the a bit religious?Are you really into traditions?Are you generally conservative (in the personal,not political sense)? Then I'd say wait.If you are more of a wilder free spirit I'd say to have loveless sex if you want.It all comes down to if you're comfortable.
2007-03-28 11:33:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Its better to save yourself because the special someone will understand if your not experienced.
2007-03-28 11:40:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is better to save yourself for that special girl because you can then experience it with her.....The two of you will together take the crossroads, learn, live, and grow, and experience things new and old together. It is sweeter when your passion grows and gets better over time because you are learning how to pleasure one person and one alone........it makes it more enjoyable and less like working.........
2007-03-28 11:33:09 · answer #8 · answered by pilotmanitalia 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Save yourself for that special someone. I'm 32 and trust me, a guy is much more attractive if he hasnt slept with alot of women. It shows he actually has respect.
2007-03-28 11:35:12 · answer #9 · answered by pandog 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
SAVE YOURSELF. just like im saving myself. if you find the right girl then she wont judge you. shell prefer it this way. and its much much more special if you do. youll learn from each other unless you have a slut for a gf. but youll be glad you did. its worth it. and its the right thing to do. who cares if your a guy?? we need some more men like you in the world!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
most people regret losing their virginity at a young age or beacuse they were nervous or didnt feel ready
2007-03-28 11:49:12 · answer #10 · answered by Classic Beauty 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
save yourself for marriage with that special girl-otherwise you will have a bad reputation and only the slutty type will go after you with other motives too -if they dont believe in marriage they wont with you either till they repent of sin and let Jesus in to help and save them and be their best friend, David
2007-03-28 11:40:12 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋