I just recently found out my girlfriend could be pregnant. I also just found out she had sex with 2 other guys while we were going out. should I stay with her in case the baby is mine, or just say f**k it and leave her?
2007-03-28 11:32:06 · 5 answers · asked by kiatzu_shutendo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
No, we didn't use protection and I didn't pull out or anything like that. Is it possible even though she had her period afterwards?
2007-03-28 11:33:56 · update #1
The only person that can answer that is you. Yes it is a possibility that baby can be yours, even tough she had a period after the fact. As concerned as you are about maybe being a dad, you need to be equally concerned of any STD's this girl may have passed on to you while cheating with two other guys!
If you choose to stay with her, it's your decision. If you choose to leave, it's your decision as well. You have to think of what is best for you and your mental state right about now and weigh your options. If you leave and the baby happens to be yours, you can still be a good dad to your child. If you stay, and the baby turns out not to be yours, you may feel like you may have wasted your time sticking by someone who was unfaithful.And if the child is not yours and you stick by her, are you willing to stick by her and play daddy to a child that was conceived because your girlfriend cheated?
I wish you the best of luck with one. As the saying goes, "mama's baby, papa's maybe" may be the case for you right about now.
2007-03-28 11:46:03 · answer #1 · answered by BRIDGETTE R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont be a jerk.
Stay with her for support even if it is not your child. After it is born you can get a DNA test to confirm if it is yours.
She needs support, and because you made the choice to have sex with her, you need to be there for her when she needs you.
2007-03-28 18:37:27 · answer #2 · answered by love anyway 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
welll what do you feel?!?!? do you feel shes still messing around??? she told you she's p/g??
well it all comes down to how you feel.... if you feel strangly about the baby being yours then stay and do what you have to. but just talk to her. but dont turn it into a fight...just talk.
hope all turns out the way you want.
2007-03-28 18:40:05 · answer #3 · answered by me & you 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah wait for the dna results
2007-03-28 18:38:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
confront a llama, they know best
2007-03-28 18:52:42 · answer #5 · answered by Your Add Here! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋