I need advice...
So my best friend began liking this guy about six months ago and at the same time he liked her. They are BOTH in my class and for the last six months, I have felt left out. She says she isn't ready for a relationship but yet they both flirt with each other and whisper all the time. It doesn't help that I seem to really hate him and find him extremely anoyying. I have told her how left out I feel and I don't know what to do anymore. She doesn't seem to realize how much this is torturing me. I have been such a good friend and stood beside her through this whole thing. I even went out places with them so she wouldn't have to be alone with him. I am really giving up on telling her how I feel. Any advice?
-I just need a different point of veiw because I am out of ideas
2007-03-28 11:48:23 · 7 answers · asked by 3Fruit0Cake9 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I have been nice to him since the begining and I am not the kind of person who wouldn't be nice. I just want her to treat us equally...which she doesn't. She clearly has never heard about not letting a guy get between a friendship
2007-03-28 11:57:50 · update #1
Well if your friend likes him then for her sake shouldn't you be a good friend also and try ot find positive thins about him. To me it seems like you don't liek him because you are jealous he is taking away your friend. Anyways this crush won't last long and at the end you will be the one helping her.
2007-03-28 11:54:06 · answer #1 · answered by Lila 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell her one more time u feel left out and if things dont change then fing new friends to hangout with and then she will probably realize how much of a good friend u r.
2007-03-28 18:52:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
this may be hard but say this to her. " maybe we need some space. you have a guy now. we should see other ppl 4 a change". just 4 a little. maybe she will realize.
2007-03-28 18:57:02 · answer #3 · answered by cait12350 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This may sound hard hun but what you should do is just start ignoring her and she'll realize how much she needs you and when she calls you and comes up to you begging you back you need to tell her "its him or me." in a sense. ok? Good luck!
2007-03-28 18:52:08 · answer #4 · answered by Rory 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you dont want to hang out with him. She probaly wont go places by herself with him and, will miss you...
2007-03-28 18:52:04 · answer #5 · answered by chelsea 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that u are being a little childish. Maybe you should try to like this guy so that you guys might could all be friends.
2007-03-28 18:51:47 · answer #6 · answered by T 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
this is normal and not much you can do about it
2007-03-28 18:53:07 · answer #7 · answered by myddad 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋