Family & Relationships - 28 March 2007

2007-03-28 16:31:05 · 4 answers · asked by lois emmanuelle l 1 in Singles & Dating

i've been with a boy i met over the internet some time ago. We've been together about 2 months, and everything is going fine. But the first time i ever called him, mum found out that he was from america, and now she's been really protective over me. She's scared of something happening to me. I never told her i was in a relationship with him though, that would freak her even more. His parents think he's stupid to have a gf from australia. But he wont listen to them. Im scared that im going to hate my parents, and run away or something. If they don't accept me and my bf, i'll get the urge to. But i hate her not knowing. i want her to be a part of my life. I trust my boyfriend. We have a connection. We think the same things. Even on the phone we'll say "i love you" at exactly the same time. I love him with everything i have, but how can i tell my parents without them freaking? I really need help...please..

2007-03-28 16:30:55 · 14 answers · asked by Clarity. 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-28 16:30:18 · 14 answers · asked by phlegm1134 1 in Marriage & Divorce

This is happening to my Mom. She lives in another town, she leaves him for about 3 months and then goes right back to the A$$ who does this to her. I believe one day he will kill her. We try to help her, but she runs off in the middle of the night without letting anyone know.

2007-03-28 16:29:36 · 4 answers · asked by gypsy_darklady 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend and I are in a long distance relationship and usually talk every night (mostly on yim due to long distance charges etc..) but last wednesday he emailed me from his local library to tell me his computer got broken and it would be fixed soon. Also that he would try his best to get to the library to talk to me every day (he cant drive yet so he has to walk)... I havent heard from him since. Im sooo worried something happened or hes not coming back. What should I do?
(If anyone really thinks they can help me figure this out I can post the last emails he sent... he didnt seem like he plannned on this... but i just dont know)

2007-03-28 16:28:24 · 18 answers · asked by Traffy 3 in Singles & Dating

why do girls allways say they dont care about looks when they do, if they dont care about look what about the 370 pound overweight man who cant get a girl what about him, and no i am not 370 pounds face it girls are just as shallow as guys are if not even more

2007-03-28 16:28:23 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've known my cousin all her life, we grew up all like sisters. Last December I started having sex with this guy, and it continued until I found me a man. So now I keep hearing from people that they are having sex like every week. I asked her and she was like no, but i've had a lot of notions she's lyin. I dont want this to hurt me and hers long friendship, what should I do about this whole thing?

2007-03-28 16:27:45 · 5 answers · asked by dat_luv_gurl 2 in Friends

ok ladies, when u go to the club, your most likely gonna be with ur friends, do u go to just dance with each other? why do most girls just dance with there friends and not guys that they dont know, and why when 1 of your friends is dancing with a strange guy u go and take them away?? it always happens!!!

2007-03-28 16:27:40 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Long story short, I almost married this guy like six years ago and I ruined the relationship and we would keep running into him over the years and I kept breaking his heart. The last time we talked he said he didn't want to see me or talk to me ever again and changed his number. Now it's been about two years since we've last talked, but I am sending out announcements (not getting married, but a professional advancement) to all of my family and friends letting them know my good news. Throughout everything me and this guy have always been friends. I don't remember his home address so I was going to send it to his work address (no problems sending it there, he has his own company). I was wondering if it would be wise to do that or would it be considered stalking. I just want to send him the annocement and write a short note just saying something to the affect of "Just thought of you, hope life is treating you good." What do you guys think?

2007-03-28 16:27:39 · 6 answers · asked by rosecoloredglasses4me 1 in Singles & Dating

ok i have a crush on this italian guy. he is very cute,sweet, nice and fun to be around. i was just wondering if italian guys would ever consider dating black girls? no racist comments please.

2007-03-28 16:27:36 · 5 answers · asked by janna-lasean 2 in Singles & Dating

I recently told my best friend who's a guy that I had a sex dream about him, and now the friendship seems to of gone sour. Did I ruin any possibilities of us actually dating? We used to do heavy flirting and going out as friends, but that all seems to have stopped.

2007-03-28 16:27:12 · 9 answers · asked by Robin M 1 in Singles & Dating

I noticed that when im single and LOOKING, I usally care about my looks more often, compared to days Im not. Well I have a boyfriend. Now, sometimes I dont dress as the first time I met him, Sometimes my hair is messy or I dont bother to put on make-up. Btw, I dont fully do this for him, but myself too!

But.. the question is,
does it matter to look good for your boyfriend/girlfriend? do/would you lose interest them *physically* if they stopped caring?
Do YOU stop caring about your looks at times?
And question for guys: Why do you 'you're beautiful the way you are without -----" and reget wanting the 'old look' back?

2007-03-28 16:26:25 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm currently in a 1-yr relationship with my boyfriend I love dearly. My best guy friend and I have fallen for each other and he is the perfect match for me. My current boyfriend is my complete opposite (opposites attract) but he lacks ambition and I struggle to picture myself with him in the future. My best friend has goals and direction in life, is intellegent, and we share a unique bond that is amazing. I can't talk to my boyfriend because he can be really dense and only cares about sports and poker, but nothing deep or thought-provoking, as I do with my best friend. I love him and care so much for him but he really isn't the right one for me. I LIVE with him and have 6 more months on our apt lease. It is devastating for me to think about breaking up with him but I feel that I can be happier with my guy best friend. I want to be with both of them, but obviously that is impossible. I don't wanna hurt any of them but I HAVE to make a decision fast! I need advice! Please help!

2007-03-28 16:26:22 · 5 answers · asked by undecid3d 1 in Singles & Dating

This question is for girls only?
hello


ok i workout 4 times a week in the gym i want my body fat to go down to 8 percent so i can get that ripped chiseld look for the ladies i have a hard stomace and hard amrs and everything else is sculpted but i still have alittle bit of meat on my bones like the girls say'' do i have to be totally cut to pick up a girl , i am 19 college student athletic and a writer i am nice friendly allways have a smile on my face and i am going to be a radio manager at my school and please dont say stuff only on personality looks and personality go hand in hand my friends here is a pic of me

http://s171.photobucket.com/albums/u320/deen_bucket/?action=view¤t=n507841068_33707_6736.jpg


here is a beter pic

http://s171.photobucket.com/albums/u320/deen_bucket/?action=view¤t=me_and_deen.jpg

2007-03-28 16:25:43 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My BIL (as I'll call him in "short form") has been kind of a jerk from the moment I met him. He's a victim. Just ask him! Everyone's out to get him. The banks, his creditors (oh, and he's not responsible for his bad credit -- his ex-girlfriend is, or so he claims), people in general in the community... It got real old, real fast. He exaggerates everything, almost to the point of out-and-out lying about things or events he has no real knowledge of, just to make himself feel important (I think he has a serious self-esteem problem). Now he's married a good-hearted, albeit naive young girl, and he's got her totally suckered in to his little web (bad credit, persecution, etc.) He completely mooches off his parents, and doesn't have a real job (his parents pay him to do odd jobs around the house!). My husband is so sick of him that they rarely speak anymore. My issue: I quite like my sister-in-law, but hate seeing her get sucked in by my BIL. How can I help her out?

2007-03-28 16:25:23 · 8 answers · asked by jeffs_wife_ali _&_adams_mom 2 in Family

With a microfiber rag or with some good old fashioned help from the woman.

2007-03-28 16:24:57 · 17 answers · asked by Purple Helmut 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-28 16:24:55 · 17 answers · asked by xheartx 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Husband called me 9:00 am and asked me to go out and buy a newspaper for him. He wants to look for flight tickets on Friday. It's urgent. I went to supermarket and bought yesterday's newspaper since the supermarket didn't have today's. I delivered to his office. Then he called, saying that there is no travel agent ads in the newspaper. I went to another suppermarket to get another newspaper, then he called again, saying he didn't need it any more. Now, at night, he blamed me not checking on the newspaper first and saying that I'm a a person that is careless, inconsiderate, negligent and indiscreet. What should I tell him?

2007-03-28 16:24:55 · 19 answers · asked by 50something 1 in Marriage & Divorce

hi.........i likes this guy for whos knows................um 4 years..............but i am not sure if he should know that or not. he went out with this girl and they broke up. the closest i think i was with him was when we danced at the valentines day dance........but that only happened because of my friend.................she forced me to............so anyways, he asked me if i liked him cause my friend told him i do..........but i said," who said that! lobana. u believe her?"(yeah i was lying).............so i guess he believed me!...............but now.....................i don't even know what to do!................i get very shy whenever i'm near him and look in the other direction. i'm happy that at least he is gonna go to the same highschool as me!.........i'm so lost!

2007-03-28 16:24:36 · 7 answers · asked by Taxi E 1 in Singles & Dating

I been with my girlfriend for 4 years..since we were 16..

we hit some rough patches..and now she wants to be single..

is their a way i can avoid all that giving her space thing and find a way to make the relationship feel new??

2007-03-28 16:24:26 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

my bf broke up with me 3 months ago and came back a month ago. It's not easy, considering he's very indecisive and used to people reaching out to him. We broke up before and i always went back to him. Until last time i finally didn't chase after him, he came back 2 months later.

He's an only child, very spoiled by his parents and thinks everyone should treat him like his parents do. like, they'd apologize to him a million times for tiny things and he'd just ignore them. He's so used to the attention.

But i broke it off a week ago and 3 days later changed my mind and apologized for like a million times. But he ignored the hell out of me. So i'm gonna stop apologizing, stop contacting him. I mean, enough already.

But i'm just wondering do you think he'd come back a second time?

2007-03-28 16:23:45 · 5 answers · asked by little asian gal in cresent city 2 in Singles & Dating

Everybody could name countless flaws about themselves! I know I could! :) But instead name one thing you like about yourself and walk away from here a little happier!

2007-03-28 16:23:42 · 11 answers · asked by VOID 3 in Friends

Really outgoing. Really strong personality. WHere you feel that your power is taken away around them and that they are in control of the conversation, how you get treated, etc.... How to handle these family memebers that are overpowering?

2007-03-28 16:23:39 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

A few months ago my bf broke up with me. Since then we have not spoken to each other or seen each other, there have been a few times when i have wanted to write to him but I guess my pride has always kept me from doing so. Lately I've been wanting so bad to write to him but maybe he's gonna react in a bad way or something, I just want to know if it's a good idea or should I just leave things the way they are?

2007-03-28 16:22:12 · 6 answers · asked by campanita19 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Theres this girl that has liked me to the point of being obsessed for a long time, but I really don't like her, but after about six months of people telling me that she liked me, and me getting more and more tired of saying no, I acted like I was gonna go for it, just to drive her away by being a totally bad boyfriend, so that she would think that I was a jerk and get rid of me. Now I kinda feel bad, but I think its gonna work, and nobody has to get hurt, does this make me a horrible person?

2007-03-28 16:21:55 · 32 answers · asked by Sloppy John 2 in Singles & Dating

Im i just trying to fill my ego and self esteam for a younger guy persuing me. He sent me a picture but have none to send. What to do? I.ve done everything to discourage him>

2007-03-28 16:21:34 · 4 answers · asked by becca 2 in Singles & Dating

When I have sex with my boyfriend I get extreamly tierd. I could run 3 miles and not be as tierd as I am when I have sex for 1/2 hours. He always ask me why I get tierd and I always say i donno. I never even get on top. Why is this?

2007-03-28 16:21:31 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i went out with a guy once. actually i was the one who asked him out. after our first date he said we should go out again next week. after that he called me 3 times in two weeks. the last time we talked he said i haven't forgotten about you. but he doesn't call me everyday or as much. do you think he likes me? why would he say he hasn't forgotten about me? and when he found out that it was my bday last week he said we should do something next week. and he even wanted to go when my other friends treated me out for dinner. can that be considered as more than friends kind of thing. but it's one week past my bday but he hasn't called again... was he just teasing and playing around?! w

2007-03-28 16:21:06 · 4 answers · asked by funnybone 1 in Singles & Dating

There is this guy that I really like...But thing is, I only see him about 2 or 3 times throughout the day at my school. He doesnt have any of my classes, but for some reason, I'm really drawn to him.
I've made plenty of eye contanct with him...blahblahblah, and I know that he notices me, but how do I approach him?? Or how do I get him to talk to me?

2007-03-28 16:21:04 · 3 answers · asked by NoNameNoFace 2 in Singles & Dating

Is he lying. Do I put up with this? Well, I'm no angel. I'm 22 and have been with about 50 guys. We are both tested and fine. I went through a bad time...hehe. I slept with his brother when we were first talking...twice. He slept with 2 strippers when we were first talking? We are together a year later...and no cheating as far as I'm aware of...on either of our parts. Can we make it?????? Haha. Please no rude answers. I've already beat myself up for my own behavior so don't need to hear it anymore.

2007-03-28 16:20:29 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating