I recently told my best friend who's a guy that I had a sex dream about him, and now the friendship seems to of gone sour. Did I ruin any possibilities of us actually dating? We used to do heavy flirting and going out as friends, but that all seems to have stopped.
2007-03-28 16:27:12 · 9 answers · asked by Robin M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell us more about the dream...details please.
2007-03-28 16:30:08 · answer #1 · answered by ushoveit 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is embarrassed. If you were still feeling attracted to him as more than a friend maybe you should have informed him of that first, this dream probably caught him off guard or something. Does he have a girl friend?
2007-03-28 23:32:59 · answer #2 · answered by ~Secretrose~ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldn't of told him that.. now as you see things are awkward. as for you thinking that you and him were on a path to dating doesn't look like there was a more than friends relationship. if he truly saw you as a girlfriend than he wouldn't be acting different, he would of laughed and embraced it. i think your mind was just on a different wave length than his.. i think you got the wrong idea because you and him flirt so that had your mind thinking and wondering. just give it time, don't press him to talk to him.. he'll get over the awkwardness.. it wasn't that serious.
2007-03-28 23:32:57 · answer #3 · answered by Blake 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he just needs time to think. If he doesn't want to talk to you, then he was probably not a good friend to begin with.
2007-03-28 23:31:43 · answer #4 · answered by khya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never tell anyone about those dreams
it's sorta creeps them out
give him a week or two
if not
ask him
2007-03-28 23:30:16 · answer #5 · answered by Reid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm...that's a tough one...perhaps you should stop dreaming and ruin that friendship the old fashioned way...
2007-03-28 23:30:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He may just be embarassed. Give it some time, he will probably come around.
2007-03-28 23:29:45 · answer #7 · answered by Shanna h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds gay to me. Most warm blodded men would have jumped at that, unless he thinks your fat and ugly.
2007-03-28 23:31:03 · answer #8 · answered by El Diablo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you didnt ruin it...as usual, the guy did
2007-03-28 23:30:32 · answer #9 · answered by nyckib 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋