hi.........i likes this guy for whos knows................um 4 years..............but i am not sure if he should know that or not. he went out with this girl and they broke up. the closest i think i was with him was when we danced at the valentines day dance........but that only happened because of my friend.................she forced me to............so anyways, he asked me if i liked him cause my friend told him i do..........but i said," who said that! lobana. u believe her?"(yeah i was lying).............so i guess he believed me!...............but now.....................i don't even know what to do!................i get very shy whenever i'm near him and look in the other direction. i'm happy that at least he is gonna go to the same highschool as me!.........i'm so lost!
2007-03-28 16:24:36 · 7 answers · asked by Taxi E 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
4 years is a long time to like some one and for them to not even know. You should get some guts and just tell him. You never know he might like you and then you just wasted 4 years of liking a guy you could've spent going out with him.
2007-03-28 16:30:04 · answer #1 · answered by love_alw_693 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm going to guess that you're in, what, fourth grade? Your writing ability is equivalent to a fourth grader's, at any rate.
I don't think girls in Elementary School should be liking boys yet. I'd hold off for a couple of years.
And now that I'm done mocking your pathetic attempt at a communique....
You need to weigh the pros and cons, and see if the potential payoff is worth the potential risk. If it is, then go for it. If not, then don't worry about it. There'll be other guys.
2007-03-28 16:32:39 · answer #2 · answered by Terras 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did he seem disappointed when u said u didn't like him. Did he ask u to dance and ur friend push u into it? Maybe he likes u too. If he does he's probably just as nervous to come and talk to u. Have ur friend ask him if he likes u and go from there. At ur age that's the best ur gonna get.
2007-03-28 16:38:23 · answer #3 · answered by Tisha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i kind of agree with terras. you sound like me in middle school! which was ages ago cause i'm almost 17 lol. try not to be shy, cause you'll hate yourself later for it. i would just talk to him in private and say that you didnt mean to react in the way you did, and that you do like him. i used to be shy to the point where i would ignore the guy i actually adore. but its so much easier to just tell him flat out that you think he's pretty cool. especially since you've liked him for so long, you dont wanna stress anymore! good luck hun!
2007-03-28 16:41:43 · answer #4 · answered by vi_van54 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ahhh! Whyd you do that?? I can kinda understand cuz guys make me nervous too....but just talk to him! Dont get nervous!! Just think when you talk to him that you danced with him so you're already kinda half way in and he doesnt think your wierd or anything! So just talk to him a lot and hell get the clue again that you like him! Good Luck!
2007-03-28 16:32:56 · answer #5 · answered by Juls 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him u like him. ull never know unless u take the chance. i told the person i like that i like him. were veryy good fredns but he duznt like me. but its good that he knows cuz its not a secret. u might even feel more comfortable around him if he knows cuz u wont be hiding anything. i really think u shud tell him and see what happens. good luck i hope u get him! =]
2007-03-28 16:31:39 · answer #6 · answered by heyheyxcutie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
melissa?
2007-03-28 16:28:31 · answer #7 · answered by GSXR 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋