Is their a way to make a 4year relationship feel new??

Question

I been with my girlfriend for 4 years..since we were 16..

we hit some rough patches..and now she wants to be single..

is their a way i can avoid all that giving her space thing and find a way to make the relationship feel new??

YEA..but like i said..she wants her space and she wants to be single right now..lol

Answer 1

People change as they grow up...as you said you both were 16 when you started dating..you're now 20* ALot has changed in 4yrs and perhaps your relationship is the only thing that is "staying the same"...You need to Respect her choice to want to explore her feelings/options in life in general. Giving her the space she wants...to be single...free..to make different choices with her life. She obviously is feeling that the relationship isn't what she wants...and would like to live life her way..and you're unfortunately Not in her new future~
Time to say Best Wishes....and learn from what you both had for four years..and you should also learn to Live Life....it's a whole new beginning~ Learn who you are again? what kinds of things have You wanted to do? What are Your goals in life? Do you want to travel? ski? You will also learn alot in the next few years about yourself that you never thought of before. Look at this as the first day of the rest of your life~~ Keep on Smilin* :)

Answer 2

Kiss her hello when you see her. Tell her you love her as much as possible. I have been in a 6 year relationship and we have never been closer because, he isn't afraid to show me he loves me. So, get mushy once in a while. It does help.

If she wants her space, then you have to show her how much she means to you. She'll eventually come around. You just have to find out what is was that made her love you in the first place.