To look pretty or not... ?

Question

I noticed that when im single and LOOKING, I usally care about my looks more often, compared to days Im not. Well I have a boyfriend. Now, sometimes I dont dress as the first time I met him, Sometimes my hair is messy or I dont bother to put on make-up. Btw, I dont fully do this for him, but myself too!

But.. the question is,
does it matter to look good for your boyfriend/girlfriend? do/would you lose interest them *physically* if they stopped caring?
Do YOU stop caring about your looks at times?
And question for guys: Why do you 'you're beautiful the way you are without -----" and reget wanting the 'old look' back?

Answer 1

I'm a girl, but I always try to look pretty for my boyfriend and he always loves the way I look. So i think that you should at least put some effort into looking pretty for your boyfriend because he just might loose interest.

Answer 2

That's easy; I don't regret the old look, because it's old.

HOWEVER: If you want to look good for your significant other, that's up to you. As you already know, it's also good for you; but when it's good for both, it's a win-win situation. Besides, if you do it, then your BF will, and that's a plus. (Equality is equal, remember?) But it's okay to not care at times; use your judgment, and you'll be okay.

Answer 3

yes you still have to look good for your bf.. but not as much as you're LOOKING for someone. i stop caring for my looks sometimes too, but my bf loves me enough to stop loving me because of my looks. same goes for yorr bf, if he loves you to much, looks wont matter.