A few months ago my bf broke up with me. Since then we have not spoken to each other or seen each other, there have been a few times when i have wanted to write to him but I guess my pride has always kept me from doing so. Lately I've been wanting so bad to write to him but maybe he's gonna react in a bad way or something, I just want to know if it's a good idea or should I just leave things the way they are?
2007-03-28 16:22:12 · 6 answers · asked by campanita19 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Guys don't get the letter thing. Write the letter though, it will be good for you and put things in perspective. read it a few days later and see if you feel the same way. If you send it you will just increase the worry you have wondering what he thought and you don't need more stress. Call him, you will know if he wants to talk with you
2007-03-28 16:28:24 · answer #1 · answered by Domino 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's been a few months and u haven't spoken yet then i say leave sleeping dogs lie. What would the purpose be of writing him? What if he has a new gf? Too much time has gone by, if more than a month has passed i say don't!
2007-03-28 16:29:16 · answer #2 · answered by Tisha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't bother, his an ex for a reason... You should just move on.. You might feel really stupid after you send this letter and realise his got a GF or something...
If you don't completely get over this guy, you may be blocking the ones that do want to be with you..
2007-03-28 16:48:32 · answer #3 · answered by purple_85 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no problem with emailing him but you should note that he may not want to get back with you. If you are just emailing him casually there is a good chance at a positive response. If you are not over him though you need to do something to try and get over him.
2007-03-28 16:34:50 · answer #4 · answered by Reeve 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to drop a note do. If he wants to talk he will, but there is a chance you could be setting yourself up for another brooken heart! Good Luck!
2007-03-28 16:28:22 · answer #5 · answered by APRIL B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion, I wouldn't write to him. He broke up with you; writing to him isn't going to solve anything, and if you're unlucky will make him angry enough to send you an unpleasant reply.
2007-03-28 16:27:02 · answer #6 · answered by Terras 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋