Family & Relationships - 28 March 2007

Okay well me and this guy have know eachother for about 5 years now we were in eachothers 6th grade class and i seen him for about 3 years after that..then we stopped hanging out we went to diffrent school and now like two years later i seen him again..and now when we go to class we hang out after wards and i never had feelings for him before but all of a sudden i jus now after we started hanging out i just now started to have feelings for him. and im scared he wont feel the same but i dont get it because he is always touch me and huggin me and all that. Should i tell him how i feel..or just let it go.?

2007-03-28 16:42:03 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Some respond to my first question justify that some end up cheating because the spouse didn't get it from home, what if its not from home? the better half finally ask why the spouse never really been there, never shows affection, passion towards this person??
Will you take your spouse back after the affair, even though that he/she says that theres a deep feelings for the other person building up??
Can you forgive and forget just like that????

2007-03-28 16:42:03 · 18 answers · asked by islandgirl06 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm in my 2nd year of college, and my mom doesn't want me to date or be in a relationship. She says you barely know anybody and its hard to trust anybody at all. She told me to forget about dating until I'm 22, just because my 4 cousins never dated throughout college. I've gone on dates before in high school (never in a long-term relationship). I met this guy in one of my classes, and I've known him for a few months. We have a few mutual friends, who are trustworthy. They have leadership positions in the university, and they're all really studious and nice. I really like this guy, when I first met him I felt I had discovered a hidden diamond, as one might say. Why on earth is my mom acting so weird???

2007-03-28 16:41:54 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am currently dating someone for the 3rd time, I believe, because we didn't really lose feelings for each other over the years. Her parents, however, are unaware of our current situation because they loathe me with such a passion that they bribe their own daughter with lavish gifts to not even talk to me. Also, the 1st time we dated, her parents (dad specifically) threw a lamp and phone at her for not getting rid of me, from what I recall her telling me. I have rather deep feelings for this girl and I want to eventually stop going behind her parents' backs, but what can I do when their daughter has tried to reason with them but failed, and a meeting between the four (or six, including my parents) of us would probably end in a worse scenario for all of us? From what I know, I have a reputation, supposedly, in their eyes and I probably don't dress completely appropriate to suit their standards, but her past boyfriends dressed "normal" and they eventually got annoying to her parents...

2007-03-28 16:41:26 · 13 answers · asked by kirsedx 1 in Singles & Dating

I know he is a teensy bit over his optimal weight. And I know all the dirty details of his habits and such...but, some how, some way I am so enflamed with passion for him. Could it be love is truly blind?
I am some what of a shallow person when it comes to judging looks, and he IS handsom by many standards. However, I just get a glimps of his rock muscle legs and his statue of david heiny and I start thinking dirty.
Could it be that the pregnancy horomones have taken over my brain? Or that the love I have for our handsom baby son, so rambunctious and adorably cuddly, but especially ruff and tuff baby boy, carries over, multiplies and componds the love I feel for his Daddy?
Is it possible that I am imagining this and will it go away? I want to make it stay forever.

2007-03-28 16:40:45 · 10 answers · asked by BellaLuna 2 in Marriage & Divorce

There is this girl I have known for 3 yrs, she is my best friend, and I am her best friend too. However, I started liking her as more than a friend about a month ago. She told a friend that if I was to ask her out, the answer would probably be no because she sees me more as a brother to her. I dont think this is the truth because we flirt ALOT, and she gets jealous when I talk to other girls. She is also really worried about what is going to happen between because we both graduate from college in December, and that we would go our separate ways and not keep in contact anymore. So I was wondering if I should just ask her out, or just stay friends. I wanted to post this question to get opinions on what I should do.
Thanks for the feedback.

2007-03-28 16:40:42 · 5 answers · asked by cmoney 6 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-28 16:40:10 · 5 answers · asked by Ulga 2 in Weddings

Take in instance that you like a girl, and at times you gaze at her beauty. She spontanously turn at your side, and finds out that you're kinda' checking her out. She turns away from you, but too long. You're very nervouse towards girls and you want to get a girl friend. What are should you do? What are the first steps onto resolving these issues?

2007-03-28 16:40:05 · 7 answers · asked by doggoldcoin2000 1 in Singles & Dating

see my boyfriend and i have a baby together and he means alot to me but i dont understand why i must feel like this but i seriously love my boyfriend but im really feelin this boy a lot.. wat should i do? i dont wanna do anything that i would regret with this boy but right now i cant help how im feelin. i need help..

2007-03-28 16:39:49 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-28 16:39:21 · 7 answers · asked by poopy cheese 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-28 16:39:10 · 4 answers · asked by chameleon5657 2 in Weddings

My brother has been really not respectful of me or my kids. He is very overpowering. I had told him that he was out of our lives until he can show us repsect. I didn't talk to him and finally he starts making contact.

He called today and talked non stop about his life this. His job this and talked about himself (as usual.. but worse). He metioned that he was hurt that I didnt' wish him a happy birthday. I told him not to take it personally and he went on about it. I said "I'm sorry if you had hurt feelings'. He laughed and said he is more hurt that I think he bullies me. I told him that he does hurt my feelings. Then he cuts it off and annoucnes that we are not talking about it anymore. We will deal with it by moving on. Then said, 'Oh I'm home. I gotta go! I just drove up to the house. I am home.'

I feel so overpowered around him. that conversation too. He controlled the WHOLE conversation. I had no say in anything. Would you feel upset too?

2007-03-28 16:38:59 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-03-28 16:38:49 · 14 answers · asked by Snow 1 in Marriage & Divorce

the father hasnt been involved in our first childs life for almost 1 1/2 but his mom has gotten him to see her lately though he doesnt want to i really would like to go back home and a low income lawyer said i should be able too since i have an 8th grade education and im enrolling in a school where there is free inside daycare there he is going to fight but i see so many people here saying there is no way i can and out second child is 4 months he has only seen her once...im scared cause i know i will be able to support them there and its really hard to where i live to be a single young mother with a deadbeat father..*not to sound mean*he also says he is going to join the milatary and is about to go i want him involved but i i want what is best for my girls also,and his mother is the one pushing him to fight it...and since the lawyer was a low income one i dont know if he was sincere on his answers please any one been in this position who can give me any answers?

2007-03-28 16:38:13 · 5 answers · asked by jessie r 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-28 16:37:32 · 8 answers · asked by Araceli A 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-28 16:37:30 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So Im a large guy, like a good 170 pounds. Im 18 and 6'1. I'm just wondering for all you other plus sized people. Do you find it akward going shopping with your friends for clothing? I can't say I'm very happy with my weight and I'm actually really trying hard to loose it. But I'm supposed to go shopping tomorrow with a few friends and I'm reallly hopping it isn't going to turn out to be super akward looking at clothing thats xl and xxl...

2007-03-28 16:37:28 · 8 answers · asked by teh_masta_of_all 2 in Friends

My husband and I have been married for a little over 2 years now, but we have been together 4 years before we got married and 2 of those years we lived together. since we've been married it seems all we do is argue. We have had more hard times than good times and I want to know does it get better? Are the first couple of years the hardest?

2007-03-28 16:36:56 · 34 answers · asked by JCaton 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my theme is butterflie and frangipanis colours pink blue and purple. i live in australia and cant seem to find a great site to shop on. ineed table decorations and cheap chair covers prefer to buy not hire. have tried ebay but would like something more any suggestions please?

2007-03-28 16:36:50 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Do you like it when girls call you, or would you rather do the pursuing?

2007-03-28 16:36:49 · 8 answers · asked by Mysti1000 1 in Singles & Dating

i like this guy, he is the most popular guy in my grade, and hes very cute. I have never really talked to him because i dont have any classes or lunch with him, but i think it would be fun to get to know him. But i dont know how, i mean hes so popular, and im just the new girl at school. I dont even know if I stand a chance compared to the girls he usually dates, cheerleaders and models.....im pretty in all, but im so ordiary, could it ever work?

2007-03-28 16:36:31 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

go out of your way for him?
Is this a sign your crush has relationship potential?
Is he testing you?
What do you see here?

2007-03-28 16:35:16 · 1 answers · asked by Press_Any_Key 2 in Singles & Dating

My son is going to have his first birthday and the guest kids range from 16 months to 17 years. I dont have big budget but and dont want to give elder kids goody bags while having birthday for a baby who turns just 1. But i dont want to be rude?? What should i do What my point is do i have to give every kid goody bags although somebody out there (YAHOO ANSWERS) must be thinking 17 years!!!!! that's not kid but being aunt they are kid for me. Please advise

2007-03-28 16:34:24 · 11 answers · asked by pretty z 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I just got out of a bad 4 yr. relationship .Know he can not let it go. He know all the wrong he did . But I can not go back. How do I make him know that all we are .Are friends

2007-03-28 16:33:31 · 9 answers · asked by colessie t 1 in Singles & Dating

my husband and i have been married for almost two years. before we were married, he cheated on my with his ex girlfriend. i forgave him and worked at building trust again, only to find out that after we had our baby, he was seeing his coworker and having an affair with her (no actual intercourse though) for 6 months... while i'm at home, taking care of the baby. he has also been sending dirty comments and messages to my sister - who also did not bother to tell me, but is married w/ child. she did not act on them.

so my question is, should i stay or should i go? the final decision is mine, of course, but i'm just wanting some insight. we have two children and he is a wonderful father, husband (minus the cheating) and friend. he said he would change and he would do anything i wanted, but he said that he wouldn't do it again the last time. recently, we decided to go for an open marriage. it's NOT the other girls that bother me, it's the lying.

2007-03-28 16:32:55 · 34 answers · asked by c0nfus3d 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, i really dont know why, but I have this overwhelming feeling that I am going to be unhappy and lonely forever. Im only 14, but guys never really like me, they just think that asking me out is a fun game i guess. im pretty and i have an ok personality, so i dont get what the deal is. I know i have my whole life ahead of me and all that, but i dont always want to be the pretty girl who is always left behind. I dont always want to be unwanted.....

2007-03-28 16:32:38 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

these games that women play. "oh he wants me to call him tomorrow, i think ill wait to make him want me more," "maybe if i stand him up a couple times he will want me even more." do these kind of games that women play ever end? i am 19 and I want to settle down soon once i discharge from the corps. i am tired of these foolish immature games where women act like slu**and parade around like the world should bow to them because they look good. is there an age where this deciet and foolishness ends? is there a cut off point where women just stop acting so foolish?

2007-03-28 16:32:12 · 5 answers · asked by U.S MARINE GREG 2 in Singles & Dating

My friend (who goes to a different school) is really mean to me. She acts all rude, first she treats me like junk, then she wont stop bothering me. She acts like my guider and tells me what to do. Then when I try to be myself, she tells me shes not okay with that and gives me "lessons" on how to be like her! What should I do? I dont even like or want to be like her!!!!!!!!1

2007-03-28 16:31:51 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I just found out that this guy at work david that i like doesnt like me but he flirts with me all the time and he gave me his number.

2007-03-28 16:31:24 · 11 answers · asked by focus_e_us360 1 in Singles & Dating

that his kids requested that he and her ex-wife be together again....how will a guy deal with the situation?

2007-03-28 16:31:14 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce