see my boyfriend and i have a baby together and he means alot to me but i dont understand why i must feel like this but i seriously love my boyfriend but im really feelin this boy a lot.. wat should i do? i dont wanna do anything that i would regret with this boy but right now i cant help how im feelin. i need help..
2007-03-28 16:39:49 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ur just attracted to this boy, its no biggy. just dont do anything u might regrett. think b4 acting.
2007-03-28 16:43:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really love your boyfriend, then you disregard your crush on this new guy. If you are happy with him, then I don't see any reason for you to do anything about this crush.
I was in a serious relationship too, and I too, was attracted to other people. Its all a matter of how much you love this person and whether or not you want to be with him.
If you think you might do something you'll regret, then you shouldn't do anything at all, because if you feel you might regret something, then you probably will end up regreting it.
However, if you don't love him, and the baby is the only thing holding you two together, then there is no reason for you to still be in the relationship. Just think about your true feelings for this guy, if you care for him and want to be with him, don't cross the boundries with this other guy, however, if doing something with the other guy would hurt your boyfriend, and you don't want to hurt him, then don't do anything with the crush.
Hope this helps:)
2007-03-28 16:54:41 · answer #2 · answered by ssrjh1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might be bored in the routine of your relationship. Seeing someone new and the possibility of a something diffrent might be exciting to you. Dont do anything that would hurt your relationship if you want to stay with him but having feelings is OK. They will come and go with other people.You have a child and you dont want to complicate anything with you and the father. Remember all the reasons your with your boyfriend and just try to let the feelings go.
2007-03-28 16:48:48 · answer #3 · answered by *Aimzie* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its called lust honey. It comes and it goes. Its not worth losing not only your b/f - but the father of your child. Already there are many women out there that are single parents and a lot of "baby daddys" are not around.
Be strong girl. What you got is good -- keep it. If your b/f is willing to stick around to help you with yours/his child......don't risk that on something that may not even last but a few minutes anyway. Good luck sweety.
2007-03-28 16:45:53 · answer #4 · answered by apache_lizz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont do it! I know its tempting and it seems like it would be rewarding but it will create more problems than you can handle. C'mon uve gota kid. Dont set a bad example
2007-03-28 16:43:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋