Family & Relationships - 28 March 2007

when he was 21 or 22 and she was 17 and nobody says anything

2007-03-28 16:04:37 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-28 16:03:38 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-28 16:03:28 · 1 answers · asked by amber_foxhoven 1 in Singles & Dating

friday night it was a typical night for me and my friends, we would all go to this one place sit around listen to music and drink, just have a good time and relax and stuff. the first mistake i made was getting way to drunk. the second was hooking up with this guy i really didnt know all to well and only had partied with him a few times before. the next morning i regreted it with everything in my heart, then i got terrifed. i rememberd he didnt use a condom for the most part and i know it has changed mine and his friendship forever now. most of my friends were not really nice at all. they went on telling me about how my reps gonna be ruined and etc. then i told them about not useing a condom, well they tried to make me go get a morning after pill. i said no, cause if i was then im not going to ruin a innocent life for something i did and then one friend made a comment saying "a baby would ruin HIS life" and now i think its out that i needed the pill n its gettin blamed on me. all me.

2007-03-28 16:03:08 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-03-28 16:02:58 · 22 answers · asked by bubba 1 in Marriage & Divorce

A little bit of meat, is that ok or the more cuts the better


ok i workout 4 times a week in the gym i want my body fat to go down to 8 percent so i can get that ripped chiseld look for the ladies i have a hard stomace and hard amrs and everything else is sculpted but i still have alittle bit of meat on my bones like the girls say'' do i have to be totally cut to pick up a girl , i am 19 college student athletic and a writer i am nice friendly allways have a smile on my face and i am going to be a radio manager at my school and please dont say stuff only on personality looks and personality go hand in hand my friends here is a pic of me

http://s171.photobucket.com/albums/u320/deen_bucket/?action=view¤t=me_and_deen.jpg

here is a beter pic

http://s171.photobucket.com/albums/u320/deen_bucket/?action=view¤t=n507841068_33707_6736.jpg

2007-03-28 16:02:34 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-28 16:02:26 · 6 answers · asked by USCfan77 2 in Singles & Dating

They both have been around town and have plenty of body count. So when the PAST doesn't matter anymore, what’s the difference?

I always read how you women want to forget sooo much about your PAST and that its nobody's business once you are married right.

In that case, if the PAST doesn't matter, why not just charge folks for your services? At least then you would have a substantial bank account by the time you hit a brick wall.

Think about that....

2007-03-28 16:02:12 · 9 answers · asked by Joe B 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Let's say I walked up to you, and we started talking and we were having a really great time; then there was that awkard silence that will always eventually come up in a conversation...well, when I notice it I say 'Hey, wanna see a trick?' then run over and get a cherry and tie the stem in a knot with my tounge. Would that be a smart or stupid thing to do; also give me a general age of yourself, if you dont want to give me an exact.

Thanks!

2007-03-28 16:02:11 · 5 answers · asked by dangoinvestor 3 in Singles & Dating

I tell him I love him, text him and call him several times a day, go out with him and fawn all over him every chance I get (which isn't enough because of our schedules). Still, if I get busy in the day with my job or my kids and he texts me, I might not be able to get back to him within a few minutes. If there's ever so much as a few hours (or even half an hour sometimes) that I don't get back to him, he gets all offended or hurt. He writes things like, "Are you tired of my texts or just busy?" Or even, "I thought things were going well." Today I must have been on the phone with him at least 2 hours (he was wonderful in helping me with a problem, and I expressed a ton of gratitude), plus at least a dozen texts exchanged between us, but when my cell phone cut out and then I went to a restaurant where there was no signal and he couldn't reach me, he texted "Touche," as in, "you win" (like I'm trying to hurt him!). I love him, but he has no faith in my love for him.

2007-03-28 16:02:05 · 17 answers · asked by nondescript 4 in Singles & Dating

I know it is illegal, but if you could would you marry two wives? That is if they both supported that kind of setup.

Women, would you live in a two wife household?

It would not be the love fest most play it out to be but it would have certain economic advantages.

BTW There is a biblical basis for this type of marriage.

2007-03-28 16:01:59 · 14 answers · asked by SemperFi 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My insecurities got to me and I confronted an ex on some issues that she told me were all not true.. and although I am not sure if she is lying or not or I jumped into conclusions. But I clearly accidently saw one line on her computer when she was away chatting with someone else saying "that kiss today was amazing".

I confronted her online and tried to be honest and considerate with her but she took everything the wrong way... She is mad at me now because I treated her harshly with out even realizing, but the reason is.. I started to view her differently and I just couldn't help it but to be that way since I am not usually fake around people. Also she is mad at me for invading her privacy, and although I just saw one line and looked away, I do agree what I did was wrong. Now she is won't talk to me and isnt forgiving me.

Now what should I do? Try talking again in person? Apologize or just leave things the way they are?

2007-03-28 16:01:42 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

kinda long sorry.
so ive liked this guy for over six months and we r friends but we date on and off.and my friend knows that i like him and she decided to go out with him once..so he dumped her about a week later and we started dating again(we broke up..they almost went bak out foundout he was only dating her to make me mad.)
well not to long ago him and i went out and everything was great and he is perfect(even though people think that he treats me bad)and some girl started something and we ended up breaking up.but long story short they started dating again last week and he wasnt at school yesterday and i found out that she got some guys number that she liked so i told him,and he dumped her.i feel bad because we are friends.but then again,i dont because you shouldt be dating your friends x when they still like them....and i cant figure out whether i did it because i was mad at her or because i want him back...i need advice..does this make me a bad person?

2007-03-28 16:01:36 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-28 16:01:33 · 11 answers · asked by bubba 1 in Marriage & Divorce

im new in this neighborhood and i already found a guy that i really like in school. i was sitting at my desk one day and i over hear him saying that he likes a girl and was pointing somewhere near my direction but then again i sit around alot of girls cuz they were the only friends i had at the time... but after that i want to know who that is but i want him to notice me but how do i do that? i want to know who he likes and if its me if i could ever get a chance in dating him or should i just ask a trustworthy friend to ask him who he likes?? help! please!

2007-03-28 16:00:37 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years. He's done bad things in the past that i've forgiven (i know you wouldnt agree, i forgive but never forget). He recently opened another myspace account (i had him delete the first one), and told me that if any problems come up he'll delete it. It has been about a week and the only friends on his list are my friends (all females). I found out while he was at work that he commented one of my friends pictures saying "You're so beautiful, ya know I love ya". I know theres no relationship there and wont be. But I still think its wrong. What bothers me is that he was dumb enough to do it in the first place. He always says that he doesnt think before he talks but thats no excuse. The comment even got my friend feeling uncomfortable. I feel like he's not completely interested in me, which isnt true. I lived with him for about 7 months now, and everythings been fine except for this. What's your opinions on it?

2007-03-28 16:00:05 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Guys, what really turns you on/off and what do you wish girls would do more often? Please only answer seriously. Thanks!

2007-03-28 16:00:00 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My Girlfriend told me shes going to buy me a shirt that says: Im short cute and have really big eyes please dont hurt me. Now it would be embarrassing to wear that in public but she really is going to buy me one in the mall (this custom shirt shop where you can have them write something custom on the shirt for a fee).

Im 14 so im not sure if If i wanna do this to please her but hey i applaud her for thinking that up off the top of her head its pretty unique.. she really wants me to wear it is she trying to humiliate me or what i still like her though so im not just going to break up with her im not sure what to do!!!

2007-03-28 15:59:41 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

been on many dates but when the guy comes in for the kiss i turn away! so i have never kissed a boy! is this bad?

2007-03-28 15:59:27 · 8 answers · asked by HottChicka 1 in Singles & Dating

It's undenniable! It happens... but, why? Please, I am looking for REASONABLE answers, prefferably based on scientific studies or estatistics.

2007-03-28 15:59:14 · 13 answers · asked by David S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-28 15:59:12 · 4 answers · asked by Jasety D 1 in Family

we have known each other for a good many months. all these while, we have gone out, spend quite a time together... nothing is in the cards, nor will there ever be. i am tired of initiating any questions because he does not answer me directly. he likes avoiding those questions and when prompted will just say we are friends. shall i just leave him and move on? or, should i wait hoping there is more?

2007-03-28 15:58:25 · 12 answers · asked by counterculturalist 3 in Singles & Dating

I want to know if she was really pleasured during sex or If she is faking just to make me feel good.
What are signs that she was pleased or acting?

2007-03-28 15:58:04 · 10 answers · asked by Vega??? 1 in Singles & Dating

I wrote this poem for a family member who is about to die of cancer... I would like some unbiased thoughts before giving it to him. Feedback?



Slipping, in quiet dignity,
Yielding to black river’s might;
Still many gripped by morbid awe,
For somebody has died tonight.

Hushed whispers, their motley circle,
On fear and infamy they thrive.
Strangers bound by others’ despair
But what mind, were he still alive?

Driving alone under gray sky,
Light fading on a one-way street;
My mind drowned in melancholy
For promise we shan’t again meet.

This agony of consciousness,
The tragic place in which we stay,
Consumes my fragile heart; and yet
I knew him, on a better day.

2007-03-28 15:57:59 · 7 answers · asked by goucho 1 in Family

I have no clue what to get her...

I'm usually good at this stuff too!

Any suggestions would really helppp

2007-03-28 15:57:47 · 3 answers · asked by matt b 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-28 15:57:36 · 1 answers · asked by j-dawg 1 in Friends

My really good friend has recently been hanging out with my ex who hurt me a lot in the past. My ex used me, lied to me, neglected me, yelled at me, put me down with insults. I dont miss him at all, & I dont want him back.
Although this friend of mine has been good friends with BOTH of us since before we broke up, seeing him hanging out with my ex now hurts me a lot. My friend knows what he did to me and when he first found out he thought my ex was a complete jerk. But recently, it seems like he is accepting my ex as a friend again. I know that they have been friends too for a long time & Its none of my business who he is friends with but It just kind of hurts to see him hanging out with my ex when he knows what he did to me. I sort of tried talking to my friend about it last night but he just told me I have to forgive & forget.

I dont know how to talk to him about how this hurts me. Any suggestions? Should I even talk to him about it at all? Am I just being ridiculous?

2007-03-28 15:57:09 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

some girls say i look young im a freshman is that bad? but i get girls like if it was nothing but right now i have a girlfriend dont think wrong.
im 5'7 i gots facial appearance i think i look old as my age
(girls say i look young in pictures only)

2007-03-28 15:56:12 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok so i like this one girl and we've been hanging out lately and i wanna ask her out soon. theres another girl who i'm friends with, but i don't like her more than a friend, but she does like me. i'm gonna hang out with the 2nd girl this weekend, but i don't wanna make her feel bad if i ask the 1st girl out soon. what should i do?

2007-03-28 15:55:39 · 2 answers · asked by ikikcurdog 3 in Singles & Dating

If you found a vase full of fresh flowers on your desk and a note that said, 'Have a Nice Day'. How would you react if the flowers and the note was replaced every day with newer ones?

I did that and I am scared as hell. What could be the worst reaction I can expect?

P.S. There's nothing on the note to indicate who left the flowers.

2007-03-28 15:55:06 · 9 answers · asked by Krishna 4 in Singles & Dating