My insecurities got to me and I confronted an ex on some issues that she told me were all not true.. and although I am not sure if she is lying or not or I jumped into conclusions. But I clearly accidently saw one line on her computer when she was away chatting with someone else saying "that kiss today was amazing".
I confronted her online and tried to be honest and considerate with her but she took everything the wrong way... She is mad at me now because I treated her harshly with out even realizing, but the reason is.. I started to view her differently and I just couldn't help it but to be that way since I am not usually fake around people. Also she is mad at me for invading her privacy, and although I just saw one line and looked away, I do agree what I did was wrong. Now she is won't talk to me and isnt forgiving me.
Now what should I do? Try talking again in person? Apologize or just leave things the way they are?
2007-03-28 16:01:42 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Oh i forgot to mention that the reason we broke up was because she said she wanted to be friends again because she was not ready for a relationship since she was dealing with alot of stuff.. I trusted her and became friends with her again. So after reading that line I just couldnt help but to feel that trust was betrayed.
2007-03-28 16:06:04 · update #1
Apologize. Period. Don't explain, because what that ultimately sounds like is "I'm sorry but I think what I did was really jusitified after all." If she's an ex, then anything she writes is none of your business and you crossed a privacy line, and then you went somewhere you had no business going: disrespectful and out of bounds.
2007-03-28 16:08:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You saw it. She is playing the classic reversal game by putting you on the defensive. You want this girl? Act like you don't give a crap and walk away. She WILL chase you.
2007-03-28 23:05:32 · answer #2 · answered by Wango138 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In a relationship you need trust. She just lost some. And if she isn't talking about you... think about it man. Wake up. It's over.
2007-03-28 23:07:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you already know ..you need to move on. The keys to a healthy long relationship is ~Communication-Honesty & Trust! without those...You have "nothing"... Move on to better and brighter things. You deserve it*~
2007-03-28 23:13:14 · answer #4 · answered by friskymisty01 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋