why do people fall out of love?

Answer 1

With age comes wisdom, people change over time.

Answer 2

People fall out of Love for many Reasons.They.1.Are no longer attracted to the person.2.they are not Working hard enough to build a strong loving Relationship,so they seek out of the Relationship,and find love else where.

Answer 3

because according to Steinburg there are 3 kinds of love: Passion, Intimacy, and dedication/commitment. Most people leap into the passionate stuff (physical attraction) and that's all they ever see. Intimacy is when you can share everything with the other person and commitment is where you will stay together through thick and thin. Most people marry at only the passionate stage and then once they get intimate they realize that they dont have anything to stay together for. Once you have all 3 you never fall out of love.

Answer 4

Couples get so caught up in their lives, their children,jobs, etc. "they forget what brought them to the dance" each other.
Just because you both decide to be together, that's the easy part, the hard part is staying together because life get between the two of you. So you have to push it back twice as hard, to stay together.

I have friends that think I'm nuts when I say this, but our kids, grand kids and everything else is second to my wife.
Here's why, when our kids are grown which they are now the only two ppl. setting at the dinner table is my wife and I. If we don't keep our relationship #1 in our lives we'd be divorced.
We still go on dates, we still take long drives just to talk, it has kept our marriage happy,fresh, and did I mention happy, no I mean really happy. Were in our late forties and we act like teen agers, were always holding hands, kissing, saying I love you. We have friends in their 20's and 30's that fight,bicker and *****. then say they wish they had what we have. This isn't brain surgery, it's a choice you both have to agree is the most important decision you will ever make. And love like to days your last day.

Hope this helps, Were newlyweds going on 12 yrs.

Answer 5

Well I personally think that people fall out of love because either one or both of the members confused lust with love or that one or both members drove or wore out the love factor. For someone to be in love with another, they must be willing to be with them, live for them, die for them, be there for them, love them when their weak and when their strong, stay together no matter what happens. True lovers are able to climb over even the toughest obsticals(spelt it wrong i know) that life throws at them and to remember in the end that they will always be there for them.
But then again i ask you this,
What is love?
This right here is a question that many think they are able to describe right once they are asked. When the reality is that love is something undescribable. There will never be a answer for this question when asked to lovers because many have their own way of seeing it.
I hope this helps answer your question

Answer 6

it not just one , it takes 2 to fall in and out of love .

Answer 7

maybe people fall out of love because they become to used to each other. maybe they become so caught up in the day to day living that they forget to still make their loved one feel special. it is not enough just to say the words there has to be some kind of action behind it. people think that just because they are with that person then they don't have to try anymore. you always need to make the one you love feel special and feel loved.

Answer 8

People fall out of love because there to much bad in between them. either r one has cheated or mentally abused one so much that there no longer any feeling of respect or love. Good luck and I hoped this help you

Answer 9

i think people fall out of love b-cuz they finally see all the negative in one another. at 1st everything is great then life happens along the way--things change, people change, and there is no stopping either. when things go bad we try to find an easy solution but we soon find out there is no solution. you have to be able to accept them as they are or let them go.

Answer 10

People change and grow apart. And sometimes they come to detest the things about their partner that they thought they loved.