Family & Relationships - 27 March 2007

he used to hold my hand all the time and kiss my forehead and my hand when he held it. Well when we broke up he ended it with me to be with someone else, but what I found out was he spoke negatively about me to this girl. It hurt me to the core. She called me and told me he told her....that he was never attracted to me and never really loved me. When I confronted him, he said it wasn't true, he said that because I lived a couple hours away he didnt think it was going to work. But if this girl lied, why did he continue to be with her. Anyhow, they are not together anymore. But they both made me question if he really loved me and cared about me. When a guy does those gestures I mentioned in the beginning, doesnt that mean he did love me and care about me. Why did he say these things? We dont speak anymore, I guess my ego was hurt, and wondered why guys do these things. Was it to impress her at the time to say these things about me?

2007-03-27 18:25:30 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm not married or anything -- no cheating going on. But how can I ever decide to settle for just one?? Ahhhh - like delicious ice cream, so many flavors.

2007-03-27 18:25:12 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I know how gross this sounds BELIEVE me. please dont ignore the question tho i REALLY need advice i am crying myself to sleep 2nite.

here is some backstory: i am a guy, and i have always liked girls. i am now 17 and my dad is in his early 50s. he is a "mans man" type guy he loves football and beer and stuff so its not like theres any chance he is gay anyway.

my mom died 3 years ago and it has been really hard on the two of us. but he has taken really good care of me. he helped me restore an old pontiac and now its a really cool car, and he taught me how to fire a handgun at the shooting range.

plus, i have to admit, he works out a lot and stays in really good hsape. everyone says how handsome he is, and in the last few weeks, i dunno but im like "noticing". i dont know, i find myself thinking about him a lot, not just sex, but just love, you know.

but god, what are the chances it could go anwyhere? what do i do? do i tell him? should i make a move? i am SO confused PLEASE help

2007-03-27 18:24:52 · 19 answers · asked by free_2b_me_66 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm in college now and I have never had a boyfriend before. I would like to have one though. Someone to love and to take care of. I'm extremely shy but I'm always willing to open myself up to anybody who would ask. Wherever I go people are always asking me if I have a boyfriend and when I tell them I don't they say I'm emotionally unstabled because in their words, "there is no way a 'pretty' girl like you can never have a boyfriend". I used to think that these things take time but as a girl, I don't want to wait. I don't think I'm beautiful or anything but I might be a little weird because everywhere I go guys always stare at me and random people would say hi. I don't want just any guy. I want somebody who I truly like and the feelings are mutual. Can someone tell me what is wrong? Is it me? Will I EVER meet anybody decent?

2007-03-27 18:24:30 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know I absolutely love women - love their bodies, their smell, everything! I never made a decision to do this, it was just there. So it must be the same for gay people. So why do some people, especially the extremely religious, think it's a decision that people have made? My sister had a gay friend who told her that if he could have had a choice, he would have chosen not to be gay, just because of how difficult his life has been.

2007-03-27 18:22:59 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It got shaken up when it fell out the vending machine. I didnt have any towel or anything to wipe it up so i just walked away. Two minutes later I heard a commontion and people were calling an ambulance. Someone slipped over in my soda fizz and hit their head on the ground. When the paramedics took them away they were still alive but I heard them say fractured skull possible brain damage. What do I do? I feel so bad about this. Could I be in any legal trouble because of this? It was an accident, i didnt try to do it, what's if the person died? I can't sleep thinking about it. Please tell me what to do and what can happen?

BTW it was Mountain Dew

2007-03-27 18:21:43 · 10 answers · asked by Modus Operandi 2 in Singles & Dating

ok so i used to date this guy..
and well i loved him
and he told me he loved me too.
after 3 days he dumped me
and i asked him if ever did like me
and he said he didnt
and now all i want is for him
to love me because all i do is think about him
what do i do??
and please dont tell me to move on
because i tried it
and its not workingg

2007-03-27 18:21:31 · 12 answers · asked by glamorous♥ 1 in Singles & Dating

I live in delhi, I have one girl in my life for 2 years as a good friend but sometime I make fun with her and she got angry on me but some time she forget that stupid fun. I make do fun with her with her like my other friends but she is girl so sometimes she got furious and later she got normal but from oct 2006 her attitude was changed when i wish her birthday. She gave me red flower and sometime she send me love SMS but I again i make a fun she is still angry on me i told her i love her but she is telling that we r just friends forget me just be a good friends, she will go Canada on April for 3 years to do MBA I can't understand how I stop her I don't wanna lose her but i still don't know this love or only friendship.

2007-03-27 18:20:59 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

today i went to see my mom and we talked for a min then she showed me the bruses he left on her arm! i looked her and i felt that in my eyes i felt like i wanted to hurt him! my mother has all my life been wit men that beat her and use her. i have a brother he is only 15 and he is now goin thru what i had to go thru except he has not been beat! what would you do and how can i stop this lifelong pain. my mom should know better she needs to worry about my brother and not let him life thru the sufferin i had to o why could she not see this and i am tried of his bs i am about to the poin that i go to him and snap, he lays his hands on me and he will hit the ground. what should or could i do? i dont want to go to the state they will take my brother and i aint havin that either? PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!!

2007-03-27 18:18:32 · 14 answers · asked by kat 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

do women like to watch men masturbate? why or why not?

2007-03-27 18:18:29 · 17 answers · asked by office11111 1 in Singles & Dating

I am half black and half asian and into white and hispanic guys.

2007-03-27 18:17:59 · 9 answers · asked by Dreamyeyes 1 in Singles & Dating

we were in deep love ....but in b/w some unncessesary clashes arised...it was my mistake...i apologised b4 him.but he suddenly changed ..he said he is no mre interested with me.. i loved him from my heart...cant he apologise me ?....i realised my mistake and i said sorry....now too i love him so much..but he do not know it....he dnt even look at my face..what is this ?......i am ready to do any remedy for this....
really i am weeping...my mind is disturbed and i am in great stress...no one is thre to help me..not even i can talk with him...bcz he dnt like to open this chapter again...it happened 6 months ago..now too i lovehim so much...what should i do ?

2007-03-27 18:17:44 · 5 answers · asked by roni 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok I really want a My Space because all my friends always talk about how cool they are....but I hear about all those girls who got hurt, kidnapped or worse cause of them. I can’t decide if I should get one. Plus my mom won’t let me have one, but she doesn’t understand that I have no social life because my life is in our home cleaning and pretty much catering to my families every need. I have no friends and my life honestly sucks. I don’t know what to do. I need pros and cons and a final suggestion. PLEASE HELP!!!!!

2007-03-27 18:17:35 · 9 answers · asked by Angel Eyes 2 in Friends

So far I'm a single guy, just hit the big 3-0 -- and am realizing that I really like life like this. I'm dating a bunch of women and basically just happy. AND - most married people I know are miserable. Is it wrong to be single and happy??

2007-03-27 18:17:32 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i was with this guy for almost two years and i honestly thought we would be together forever, but i guess not.. he has a girlfriend now and is completely intimidated by me so she bans all communication. we are not allowed to speak to each other at all or she has a hissy fit and cries etc. he stopped talking to me for a year and it hurt so much..
i have a boyfriend now, we've been together for 6 and a half months and i absolutely love him to bits but recently my ex has come back into my life and has been talking to me hehind his gf's back.. he tells me he misses me and we always talk on the phone for ages, it almost feels like how it used to.. i know it's nothing though because we both have partners but occasionally i still think about him and i miss him and how we used to be.. is it wrong to think about him in that way when i have a boyfriend now?

2007-03-27 18:17:28 · 11 answers · asked by apple 1 in Singles & Dating

I am a 26 yrs old female. From the age of approx. 4 to age 10 approx. I engaged in various sexual acts with boys my age and older. This did include some intercourse that I viividly remember. Since that time I have never had sex, but I was just wondering does what happened mean I am not a virgin or ??? I have no idea what to think. Also is this type of sexual activity or "play" normal among that age group? I am really sorry if I sound dense or dumb but this is a serious question.

2007-03-27 18:17:24 · 5 answers · asked by tied together with a smile 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My mother-in-law just died after a short illness. She was 85 and also had Alzheimers. My husband and daughter flew back and are helping with arrangements. Due to her lack of financial skills, we will be helping with costs. My husband wants me and our adult son to fly back also. Not counting time off work, it will cost over $1,000 for the two of us to fly back on short notice. There will be a memorial at a lake as she will be cremated. Am I being heartless to not want to spend this money, which we can do but it will hurt? She is gone and I'm sadden by that, but there is nothing I can do about that. My husband will recover just as all of us do after a loss of a parent. Give it to me - I can handle it.

2007-03-27 18:17:05 · 20 answers · asked by Chloe 6 in Family

I need to know of tuxedo shops in Shreveport or Bossier City that can provide the canary yellow in a vest and tie

2007-03-27 18:16:53 · 10 answers · asked by renothadon 1 in Weddings

2007-03-27 18:16:15 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My girlfriend grandpa is in the hospital and its kinda not looking good. If something was to happen 2 him what are some things i can do to make her feel just a little bit better

2007-03-27 18:15:51 · 13 answers · asked by Ray J 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i keep on pictureing me and this boy kissing in my head. i am not sure if i like him or not. but i really need help on this one. please help me.

2007-03-27 18:15:40 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So my boyfriend's balls smell funky. Makes it not the funnest time when I go down there, ya know? If you were him, how would you prefer your girlfriend to tell you? I just wanna say it in the least embarrassing way for him. Thanks!

2007-03-27 18:14:08 · 32 answers · asked by rebaparty 1 in Singles & Dating

and I love this guy with all my heart, he happens to be my husband married for 2 years now. And I've tried to talk to him about it etc, but all i get is "i don't know im just not into kissing like that anymore" :/...

2007-03-27 18:14:06 · 10 answers · asked by Ultrabrite 1 in Marriage & Divorce

let me know if you ever been in a relationship that end with failure.
1> who made the first eye contact?
2> who first say the words "I love you"
3> who first say the words "I hate you"
think carefully before you answer.. and after that answer this .
Do you still think about him/her ???

2007-03-27 18:13:45 · 8 answers · asked by AMERO 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-27 18:13:03 · 1 answers · asked by pragya s 1 in Friends

Why is it that women's farts are soooo nasty?? I'm talking when they really rip one! I know guys have nasty ones too, but their's smells more like sh!t -- but women have that sour, narsty-ness that kind of hits your nose and just stays there. What's up with that??

2007-03-27 18:12:43 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Arizona or California??
I am torn between Arizona and California. I need to decide where to build my life.

Phx, AZ: I only lived here for 2 years of my childhood. I have a huge family that lives here that is always having fun. The home prices are more reasonable. But it gets very hot during the summer. I would be interested in persuing real estate here.

Sd, CA: I lived here most of my life. I graduated high school and have a best friend for life there. But the home prices are very expensive and my mom wants to move to Arizona, so I would be eventually left alone in SD with only my friends. It is a very beautiful city, and it has a lot of oppurunity; I could do real estate here too.

Right now I am staying at my brothers house in AZ.

I need to decide where to choose...


Where would you go????


thank u :-)

2007-03-27 18:12:09 · 1 answers · asked by Fran Y 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok so im 12;
and all i want in my life is to be married
i mean everything i do i act like i have a husband
and at night i act like hes sleeping next to me;
hugging me...

is this normal?
i mean why am i acting like this?
help?
thanks.

2007-03-27 18:11:42 · 7 answers · asked by glamorous♥ 1 in Singles & Dating

recently got engaged using my grandmothers first engagement ring (extremely sentimental). then found out my fiance is allergic to gold! her aunt gave us a new engagement ring. but something just doesnt feel right. like, my fiance just got engaged to her aunt!

2007-03-27 18:11:34 · 26 answers · asked by krazykubes 2 in Weddings

Did you know he is 47?

2007-03-27 18:11:28 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating