i was with this guy for almost two years and i honestly thought we would be together forever, but i guess not.. he has a girlfriend now and is completely intimidated by me so she bans all communication. we are not allowed to speak to each other at all or she has a hissy fit and cries etc. he stopped talking to me for a year and it hurt so much..
i have a boyfriend now, we've been together for 6 and a half months and i absolutely love him to bits but recently my ex has come back into my life and has been talking to me hehind his gf's back.. he tells me he misses me and we always talk on the phone for ages, it almost feels like how it used to.. i know it's nothing though because we both have partners but occasionally i still think about him and i miss him and how we used to be.. is it wrong to think about him in that way when i have a boyfriend now?
2007-03-27 18:17:28 · 11 answers · asked by apple 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we talk bout everything, but most of all, we talk about the way things were & how good it was & we joke arnd & flirt.. but i know he loves her, they practically moved in 2gether. we broke up 4 a few weeks on the stupidest reason. i'm almost 2 embarassed 2 say.. guess i wasn't a very punctual person & he said i never made an effort in the r/s bcoz i was late all the time..i've learnt from that mistake. i'm always on time now.. although my bf seems 2 b the 1 thats late lol neway we used 2 fight a fair bit, ova the littlest things.. but i guess thats what keeps a r/s healty. thing is he hooked up with his current gf in the few weeks we seperated, came back to me and we were together for another 8 months, well i guess "together" isn't the correct word coz 1 night when i asked him what we were.. he said "nothing...we're everything" & in that pause, my world fell. i went out did stupid things 2 stop the pain & when i told him he cried & said i cheated & went back to her..which brings us here
2007-03-28 01:20:19 · update #1
we talk bout everything, but most of all, we talk about the way things were & how good it was & we joke arnd & flirt.. but i know he loves her, they practically moved in 2gether. we broke up 4 a few weeks on the stupidest reason. i'm almost 2 embarassed 2 say.. guess i wasn't a very punctual person & he said i never made an effort in the r/s bcoz i was late all the time..i've learnt from that mistake. i'm always on time now.. although my bf seems 2 b the 1 thats late lol neway we used 2 fight a fair bit, ova the littlest things.. but i guess thats what keeps a r/s healty. thing is he hooked up with his current gf in the few weeks we seperated, came back to me and we were together for another 8 months, well i guess "together" isn't the correct word coz 1 night when i asked him what we were.. he said "nothing...we're everything" & in that pause, my world fell. i went out did stupid things 2 stop the pain & when i told him he cried & said i cheated & went back to her..which brings us here
2007-03-28 01:20:24 · update #2
Keep away from him..he is a heart breaker.
2007-04-04 08:35:36 · answer #1 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well honestly it isn't wrong if you care about him but it would be wrong say if you just missed him because of something like sex otherwise what can I say though an ex takes time to get over especially a long relationship and throughout it all your ex's will usually be there for ya but never know since some are not that's just the way things happen but honestly think about him and dont be afraid about it either ur bf would understand a relationship just takes time 2 heal like the old saying goes love heals all wounds
2007-04-04 16:54:01 · answer #2 · answered by olson101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its ok to still think about him and miss him. You were with him for 2 years and thats awhile. If you really love the guy you are with then I don't think that you should be talking to your ex. Especially if hes going behind his gf's back to talk to you. I always hate it when exes seem to make their way back into lives and confuse things. It happened to me and it messed with my head for awhile. But I realized that the relationship with my ex was over and knew that what I had now was what I really wanted and needed. So, yeah. That was me. Do what you feel is right and what your heart is telling you to.
2007-04-04 16:08:46 · answer #3 · answered by Jessica G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly how you feel. I was in the same situation not long ago. My new guy is the one I want to be with and I knew that while I was talking with my ex, but I still missed my ex. Eventually I remembered the reasons we broke up and I started to appreciate my boyfriend so much more. Let it run its course and either you will realize you still have feelings for him or you don't.
2007-04-04 15:35:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know whether or not it's wrong, but i think it's normal. When you spend so much time with someone it's hard not to think about them. My first love and I have been separated for 10 years, but they still slip into my thoughts now and then and I'm married.
2007-03-27 18:26:08 · answer #5 · answered by KD 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It's not wrong to think about him. The two of you spent a lot of time with one another and probably shared a lot of happy times together. I think it is perfectly normal to miss someone you had such a bond with.
As for him, it sounds like his new girlfriend is very insecure and controlling. What happened between you and your ex to cause the breakup? She may just be a rebound who he has no long term interest in.
What do you and your ex talk about now? Do you talk about possibly getting back together, or good times you used to have, or do you talk about something else. Maybe he regrets his decision and is wondering if he should try to get back with you.
2007-03-27 20:18:00 · answer #6 · answered by _ 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i imagine you're completely irresponsible and don't understand the first ingredient about marriage or love, to be truthful with you. Now, after playing video games with him, you went and did it with yet another guy, married this guy and now, you opt for to dump #2 because you purely ought to have #a million back. a million). #a million is married and think ofyou've got no suitable, NO suitable, to target to split THEIR marriage. 2). #2 you're a married lady and performance a husband who apparently loves you and that's to HIM that you owe your loyalty to. My suspicion is, that no matter if you've been valuable in destroying #a million's marriage, the on the spot you acquire him back, you may cry like slightly one and run back to #2. and that is once you ruined #a million's marriage for egocentric causes and harm #2. especially, I have the opinion, you aren't from now on purely immature and petty, you're shallow and egocentric as well. And if I ever knew someone like you i does no longer contact you with a 50 foot pole, with my palms crossed and throwing salt over my shoulders. i imagine you opt for to advance up and calm down and honor the husband you've already got and overlook #a million for solid. you do not really love him or you does no longer be wondering about your crotch. and that i concept, that purely men used their second heads at the same time as it got here to females!
2016-12-02 22:31:14 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your current relationship is being harmed by this. You don't have the right to play with both without being more forthright than you are. It's honesty time. You owe it to your current bf. This is what character is all about. Do the right thing. You shouldn't be stringing your current bf along.
2007-04-04 13:57:33 · answer #8 · answered by jackbutler5555 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you never know what you have until its gone, now your both probably thinking of eachother and what if's. its not wrong if you dont act on it. but think about it and maybe talk to your ex if things are still like this in a week or so. you might both wanna be back together. idk hope i helped.
2007-03-27 18:23:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes your still in love with your ex if your thinking about him.
2007-03-27 18:23:35 · answer #10 · answered by firetdriver_99 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋