ok so i used to date this guy..
and well i loved him
and he told me he loved me too.
after 3 days he dumped me
and i asked him if ever did like me
and he said he didnt
and now all i want is for him
to love me because all i do is think about him
what do i do??
and please dont tell me to move on
because i tried it
and its not workingg
2007-03-27 18:21:31 · 12 answers · asked by glamorous♥ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You sound like me. You don't love him. You are obsessed with conquering a challenge. You don't see that now. But it's true. You didn't get your way and you are determind to beat the challenge. You will move on, and eventually the same thing will happen with someone else, and guess what... you'll move on then, too. You can't make someone love you. By trying too hard, you just make an *** out of yourself and you will come off as insecure and desperate. Look, the very best thing you can do, no matter how much you hurt inside, is ACT like you couldn't care less. TRUST ME! Turn the challenge around on him! Make him think you dropped your feelings for him like hot lava. Laugh with your friends when he is around. Be flirty with other guys, not slutty, just giddy. Barely pay him any attention. If he calls you, wait a while to call him back. You know what, he needs you, you don't need him. Keep that attitude and you will be just fine! Please don't get me confused, I'm not saying be a *****, or get overboard with it. That will be obvious, too. Just naturally act like he was never part of your life!
2007-03-27 18:31:44 · answer #1 · answered by Starlyn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing you can do is try to keep yourself busy, we all go through this at some point in life. Go out and get social, someone out there will appreciate you and give you the love you deserve, dont chase someone thats cold enough to deny ever liking you.. you will just end up heartbroken.
Good Luck!
2007-03-28 01:29:59 · answer #2 · answered by euphoriamorning79 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing TO do is move on. If you all only dated three days, and he told you he loved you, and you said it back, it wasn't really love. Love takes time to develop. It doesn't just happen in a course of three days. You are only thinking about him because you are trying to make your mind think you love him. Move on. Get over it.
2007-03-28 01:26:10 · answer #3 · answered by Concealed G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been loving my bf since 4 years and he started loving me only before one year and a half, everything takes time. Just be the first one beside him when he is in trouble and show him always your care
2007-03-28 01:29:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do you like this guy? he lied to you and toyed with your emotions and dumped you! Someone like that isn't worth your time. you deserve so much better than that. Are you really in love with him after all? or are you in love with who you thought he was?
2007-03-28 01:27:38 · answer #5 · answered by blueJay 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time mends all wounds.
If he doesn't love you, you can't force him to, that will, in fact, repel him away from you farther.
It sounds like he was playing with your heart...
What happened during those three days?
2007-03-28 01:26:55 · answer #6 · answered by Annie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how or why would you tell someone that you love them after dating them for 3 days? if he doesn't like you then there isn't much you can do about it besides move on
2007-03-28 01:26:16 · answer #7 · answered by me 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give it time. Be good to yourself. get involved with something (not someone) that makes you happy and holds you're interest. Pretty soon you will find that you have moved on.
2007-03-28 01:26:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try hard not to think of him..i know this sounds hard but you should try it.. but anyways if ever you think of him say no i will not think of (whoever this guy is). and you should try new things, meet new people. and i eventually you will be able to meet a better guy than your ex-boyfriend. well i hope i've helped.
2007-03-28 01:28:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont be such a looser and a fool he doesnt love you why would you want to keep making yourself look all hard up and foolish
2007-03-28 01:27:08 · answer #10 · answered by ansearcher@sbcglobal.net 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋