and I love this guy with all my heart, he happens to be my husband married for 2 years now. And I've tried to talk to him about it etc, but all i get is "i don't know im just not into kissing like that anymore" :/...
2007-03-27 18:14:06 · 10 answers · asked by Ultrabrite 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Good question and one that would worry me if I were in your shoes. My ex husband and I were married for 16 years and he really never wanted to kiss me. If you had passionate kisses but now he doesn't want to kiss you much anymore, there could be a reason. Does he have a medical reason for it? Something perhaps about his teeth or breath? I hate to say this but have you noticed any other changes, things that could indicate he is interested in or seeing someone else? Not wanting to kiss much after only two years could indicate the passion is waning already. Maybe you should consider counseling.
2007-03-27 18:19:04 · answer #1 · answered by batscout 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think with time after you get married, other things get in the way of kissing. You are really comfortable with each other and you have already had sex so kissing is like a chore to a guy, well it seems that way to me. Girls like the romance and the cuddling and the kissing where guys like to have sex! I had a talk like this with my husband the other day and i just told him that kissing me is how i know he still loves me like he did when we were dating it doesn't have to be hes kissing me all the time, but a kissing session every now and then wouldn't hurt. Its called compromising, you have to do it everyday with everything to make your marriage work! Its not only you two that have this problem, so he is not losing interest in you, he just is comfortable with you! I hope you get some lip action soon!
2007-03-27 18:28:09 · answer #2 · answered by jkl_eavitt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For some reason he is losing interest in you and if it were me i would wonder why... Is he kissing someone else other then you? Maybe he just is not into it anymore but this is rather odd for a guy as they are usually very sexual and into this kind of kissing.
2007-03-27 18:21:47 · answer #3 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him what would you have to do for him to get into that kissing mode again? There are reasons for every thing, and hopefully it's not anything outside of the marriage. If making an effort by getting sexy now and then will help, go for it. If it don't work, then start looking for evidence.
2007-03-27 18:19:28 · answer #4 · answered by msthinkpositive 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to tell you this but it is a HUGE sign that he is losing interest in you and your marriage. I had this just happen to me and the reason my husband stopped kissing me was becuase he was kissing someone else! I would talk to him about it and see what he says, also be aware that if there is someone else he may lie to you so you may have to check his cell phone, email ect. just to be safe.
I honestly hope i am wrong but i am just telling you my experiance! good luck!
2007-03-27 18:51:50 · answer #5 · answered by I♥Karma 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex used to bump teeth with mine so I stopped kissing her like that.
2007-03-27 18:23:39 · answer #6 · answered by gi joe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not think that is good news . . .
Especially in a marriage .
I would start making sure you have your finances in order in case of a split . . .
2007-03-27 18:18:40 · answer #7 · answered by kate 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Forget about for the time being.
2007-03-27 18:54:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
mabey he's the one with the dragon breath?
try sucking on a mint and passing it to him....??
Make it sexy....ya' know?
2007-03-27 18:18:02 · answer #9 · answered by Craig B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its a sign that he's losing intrest.
2007-03-27 18:17:59 · answer #10 · answered by euphoriamorning79 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋